This is on the inspiration of Expector's Tips on English Usage (1): replace or substitute
The typical beloved prevailing in the literature always replaces the lover with the rival, or some other guy has been substituted for lover. There is always the lover who suffers. Or again if beloved takes someone in place of lover to the party, again lover is the one who suffers.
Why on earth the lover is always suffers and the rival is always the one who enjoys the nearness of the beloved. This is becau