Hello Rose, Hope you are doing great!You asked me about various courses right. I know you are pretty confused by listening to your elders. So my advice is, you abide by your heart rather than your parents. Take time and ask yourself what you desire to be in the future and pursue courses which would help you to achieve your goal. It's not my best piece of advice, I'm telling you this from my experience. Education helps us to become a better human being but many see it as a method to boast about. I know everyone can offer advises but converting words into action requires a plenty of time and effort. Hence my last word of advice is, be wise in taking decision.Best Wishes,Niki.

As it was the day before long weekend most of the seats in the office were empty. She was browsing in the internet and her coworkers told her it was raining hard outside. She gave way near the blinds and pulled it up to view the rain. The drops were big and were lashing against the window. She stood there with a heavy heart for a long time. Tears welled up in her eyes... it was raining the day she lost everything in her life. She was an affectionate child to her parents. She loved her daddy more than anyone else in the world. It was her daddy who plays with her when none of her siblings call her to play and it was he who brings chocolate to her without catching anyone. He was the hero or role model in her life. She copied all his ethics and values in her life. For her, her daddy's place is above the idol.

Everything was shattered in a wink of an eye. The news came as a blow to her ears. She became mentally ill when she got to know the accident took three souls away from her - her loving daddy & her siblings. She and her mom were left behind as the victims of cruel fortune.

Years passed by and due to the immense pressure from the family, her Mom got married to a man who is ten years older than her. He treated her like his own daughter till she reached her puberty. After that, her step father looked at her as a "woman" instead of "daughter". It was a jolt to all her ethics, merely in order to save her Mom's married life she hide it from everyone. She was enduring with a volcano in her heart and it erupted when her stepfather deeds crossed all the limits. She hit him hard with an iron rod and left her house on a rainy day without sounding out anything. It has now been five years since that event.

Suddenly she heard somebody calling her name in a loud voice. She turned back to find out and it was her boss calling for tea. Once again, she peeped through the blinds to see the rain. The hard hitting big drops now changed to small beads and the sky is void of all the clouds and she could see a rainbow appeared in the sky. She was smiling now... She felt set free and thanked The Almighty for giving her life a new meaning.

She is now a brave lady who can stand on her own feet, keeping high moral values which she learned from her father and enjoying the colors of freedom.

I was born and brought up in Kerala (known as God’s own country), India. It is a beautiful state in South India known for its spices, heritage,tempting culture and more importantly for travel and tourism. And it is the most advanced society in India with Hundred percent literacy and World class health care systems.

For me it’s my heaven, where I wandered or where my dreams were budded…. I spent my childhood there however I couldn't continue my education there when I was 13 years old my family had moved back to Delhi (Capital city of India) permanently. Usually when I’m stressed or upset I flip through old photos of my album and it had a magical effect to relieve my stress. There were photos of many people but what really caught my eyes where some beautiful parts of the state I had known or loved. It is pleasure to remember those lovely days when you were with your childhood friends and blasted as if there is no tomorrows but at the same time it is sad because those good days are gone and will never come back again.

And I believe there is a magical place in everyone’s life which stays at the core of our heart and finally we all will return to that place no matter where our life’s journey takes us. 

Finally an idea has emerged in my mind. I offered her lunch outside and she seemed to be pleased by my offer and immediately accepted it. Within ten minutes I got ready and asked her to come to the parking lot. I waited there for 20 minutes but seeing no sign of her, I got mad. When I got back I saw her moving from one room to another changing dozen of attires. Running out of patience I told her: “You know how long I have been waiting for you outside. Will you please make it fast?”  Five more minutes please, she requested.

Irately I said: “Okay”

This time she was prompt and we started heading towards the Restaurant. I got lost in between. Seeing the same building blocks couple of times she asked: “Why you don’t seek somebody’s help?”

I got offended by her question and said “See, I know how to get you there safely, don’t teach me okay”.

There was pin drop silence in the car for a moment and then she said: “But why are you behaving like this”? I’m just offering a help. This time her voice was low.

I was burning in anger and replied “Don’t give me unsolicited advice unless I ask you”.

She kept mum for a while.

We couldn’t enjoy the lunch after these fights. Coming back from the restaurant she started checking my mobile.

I got annoyed by her behavior and I said:  “I told you thousand times not to check my mobile. I need my privacy “

Five minutes later when I peeped at her I felt as if she was like an inflated balloon waiting to blast.

And I cursed my bad idea of having lunch outside.

After that we drove home in silence. I dropped her at home and said “I will be bit late to home as I want to meet Ram”. She nodded and said: “Okay”.

After one hour I met Ram (young, bachelor) outside his house.

Desperately I said: “Ram I don’t think I can stand it anymore”.

Ram consoled me and said: “See, your problem is that you are unnecessarily scolding her for small mistakes. Do one thing, hold your anger at least for some days and try to please her or surprise her with small gifts. Trust me dear everything will be okay. You know I’m good at female psychology".…he laughed.

Yeah you are my only hope. I replied and left the place.

On the other hand she was calling her best friend Emil (young, divorcee)

She told her entire story. Emil consoled her and said: “Men are always Men. If a man is behaving indifferent then he would be hiding something from you. She added, I remember you telling me about his colleague. Is there any…?" She paused for a second.

Something sparked in her mind. She said: “No No he is not like that. Seems like he has come, I will call you later and she hung up the call. Thoughts were swirling up in her mind.

After sometime she heard a knock at the door, she opened the door and asked: “Why are you late. Where have you been?” I hold my anger and said honey, “I bought a gift for you”. Her eyes widened and said what??? She artificially put smile on her face.

She couldn’t assimilate change of emotion in her husband’s behavior. Emil’s face flashed her mind in a second. She became more and more desperate.

To be continued...

Please find below the link to part one :-

http://my.englishclub.com/profiles/blogs/one-fine-day-a-husband-s-point-of-view

It was a Sunday morning and I was sitting comfortably in balcony, checking facebook messages and sipping hot coffee. I heard sound of my wife’s footsteps getting closer and closer and I immediately put my mobile down on the coffee table. She came near to me. I looked at her face and mumbled “Something fishy”. She said “See how’s my new dress”. Does it suit me? I just bit my tongue and said “WOW”. “You are looking really beautiful, now you look half of your age only”. Her face became as bright as the Sun. Soon her face changed. I told myself “No one can predict what is going on in women’s mind”. She said “tell me who is more attractive, me or your colleague”. I rolled my eyes at her .This time her voice became louder and desperate. See, you are not telling anything. I know you don’t have any love left towards me and she went inside irately.

“Holy Shit”, I said myself.

After sometime I heard a knock at the door. My wife opened the door. “What a surprise!” She exclaimed. Hearing this, I went inside. To my surprise it was my colleague and her husband. She was looking gorgeous in her pink saree, with little make-up. Without any second thought I asked her “You made a new haircut”?  She became so excited and started boasting about her new haircut. I lost for a second. I asked myself “Are all the women same"? Anyway I and her husband made our way to discuss political issues and the ladies went inside for gossiping.

Soon after they left, my wife came to me and said: “Now I know why you are coming late to home”. I narrowed my eyes on her. She continued “Morning I had to come and tell you that I bought a new saree and for making me happy you made some positive remarks and now, when your colleague came you immediately noticed and appreciated her for her new haircut. I know you don’t have any love left towards me and started crying”.

And I was at my wits end and I tried everything to calm her down but nothing had worked.

(To be continued)

Wind chimes have always fascinated me. Sometimes, I dream of lying in a hammock, under pink cherry trees in its full bloom, full of wind chimes. And it chimes sweetly with every passing breeze. Nothing, but the breeze against the pink flowers and sweet melodious voice of wind chimes drives me crazy. I hope to fulfill my dream one day.

For now, I have bought a pair of wind chimes. I have kept one in my kitchen and the other in my garden. During my morning hours when I brew coffee and relax myself in sofa, it let out sweet rapturous notes for me. I lost myself in their melodious voice and I feel as if I’m floating in air.

When I open my window to the garden I can see my wind chimes dancing in air and letting out sweet notes along with the chirping of birds. Everything is picture perfect.

During my night hours, just before the sleep, I climb on to the terrace as if I’m being led by an invisible force. These are my moments of prayers to see how many inches my rose has grown and then comes the sweet melodious voice of wind chimes to soothe my soul. I feel as if Mother Nature is playing music for me.

Sometimes when I gaze at the Stars, like a small kid, I feel as if they have appeared in the Sky for me. With every passing breeze that caresses my mind, I feel as if I’m being surrounded by an invisible force which protects me from all the evil powers.

I love these strange thoughts as it strengthens me to move ahead and achieve all my dreams.

To the stranger I have met on the bus - “I don’t know anything about you but your perception towards life changed my insight completely. Thank you so much for sharing an important part of your life with me. With your permission I’m sharing it among my friends”.

Here it goes:-

I was bit disturbed when the seat next to me in the bus was occupied by an old man. He was tall and slim with long hair which fell almost on his forehead;his shirt was disheveled adding more to his oldness. I averted my eyes from him and looked outside. I was on the verge of sleep; suddenly I woke up by the beep of his phone. After some time when I reached for my wallet I realized it was missing. I panicked as I don’t have a penny with me and have long way to go. But he helped me and I thanked him wholeheartedly. 

When I was about to ask something he said: “It has been a year since I lost my daughter. It was a car accident. When I reached ICU, everything was over. I couldn't see my daughter for the last time”. And he burst into tears. I tried to console him but everything was in vain. He took something from his bag and gave it to me. It was a letter. I opened:-

Dear Pappa,

You are everything to me. I know you are going to miss me, but don’t think that I will ever forget you or stop loving you, just because I’m not around to say I LOVE YOU. See Pappa, I have recorded my voice for you and have kept it inside this envelope.

You don’t worry. I’m so happy that I will be able to see my Mommy within minutes. How happy she will be to see her daughter after a long time...Moreover I’m going to a world where there is no pain.

You know what Pappa, I have bought a gift to surprise you on your birthday but I will not be able to celebrate it with you anymore…I miss you…

Pappa, without asking you I have signed an agreement with hospital to donate my eyes and kidney. I know it’s very painful for you to accept but please don’t deny it as I won’t be using it after I die and some girl would be benefited by this and would be able to live some more time with her family and I will be able to see you again through her eyes...Love you Pappa.

With kisses and hugs…

My heart almost stopped when I finished reading. Tears were rolling down my face when I gave that letter back to him. He said:”You know what now I’m going to the hospital to see a girl who was injured in a car accident. Today doctor will remove her bandage and she will be able to see the world outside. And I wanted her to see me first so that I can fulfill my daughter’s last wish by opening this gift in front of her.

With bated breath I asked “Today is your birthday”. He didn’t answer me but made a long breath and he got off when the bus stopped, leaving me behind with broken heart but answer to many questions…

The love they had for each other is hard to imagine and a drunken driver took all their happiness in an iota of second. 

I tried to conceal under the darkness,

He tried to unveil the darkness,

In dim light I saw his face glow,

In deep anguish I heard his voice low.

His image was reflected by the light,

I was ripped apart by the fright,

His whispers wedged my throat,

His gawk smacked my heart.

He extended his hand for capturing me,

I prayed The Almighty for protecting me,

My soul quivered with 'his' brightness

I stretched my hand but bled with sharp edge

I regained my inner strength and stabbed him to death.

I’m a GIRL, I want to live...

P.S - This is first time I have penned a poem, please let me know your feedback

Negative Impact of cell phones on Relationships 

Dear Friends,

I know you all are quite familiar with this topic, so I don’t want to write a long story on this but a few things which I have observed in my everyday life.

Yesterday my friend had arranged an evening party to introduce her would-be. She was so much excited that she did everything by herself. We were delighted to attend the party. However it turned out to be the worst party we ever had in our life. He was on the mobile whole time chatting with his friends and it seems like he had even forgotten that we were there for meeting him. She was totally upset by his strange behavior and ended up with a fight. Why are we behaving so stupid in front of others?

Where are we heading to? A place where one can't leave their mobile for an hour, but can live without seeing their spouse for months. You know what many marriages have been affected by the adverse use of cell phones. A new study reveals that 60% of divorces are due to the excessive use of mobiles. It is one of the reasons for extra marital affairs too.

People would laugh at you if you say you don't have a cell phone. It is a prestigious issue to get the latest version of cell phones. Technology is growing faster, whereas relationships are getting weaker day by day. We feel very much excited to see an old friend online to chat, but we often forget our dear ones. Are we losing our privacy due to the adverse use of mobiles? I have seen many times in restaurants were husband and wife busy in their own world. They don't have anything to share. Moreover, we are molding our next generation to use mobiles from the younger stage. Why are we not teaching them to value relationships? Can you tell me 20 years from now where the world would be?

The task of covering hundred miles in 24 hrs falls on Joe’s head as thunderstorm. This is the first time in the history of military school the management has decided to punish the student ruthlessly.  The wolfish smiles on the Sam’s face ignited fire on his heart. The fear of being blacklisted tormented his heart and breaks it into pieces. At any cost he wanted to outdo this punishment. He made up his mind for the daunting task. He forgot everything except Sam’s face.

Next morning he started off with adequate amount of water. Soon the sky becomes darkened with clouds and started raining. It rained incessantly for an hour giving signs of flood but nothing could stop the flame on Joe’s heart. The aim of attaining the task made him run madly. Water splashed everywhere on his each step. The whole body was crying out loudly for attention. But he has no time to listen to it.

 Time flew like an arrow and the sun was replaced by the moon and the darkness covered all over the path. For a moment he was lost in thoughts. The thought of Sam tampering important documents of school and later how he influenced authorities to replace his name crushed him. He regretted for trusting his friend blindly. The nasty sound of insects irritated him. The familiar path looked unfamiliar. His foot was sore and killing him. He chanted his name in his mind. Soon he regained his lost confidence. He became focused on his task. He was determined to face any hurdles. The dim light from the moon paved his way to aim. The breezes soothe his inner soul. He conquered the darkness with his each step.

Time ticks away and the Sun came. But there was no time to appreciate the sunrise. He was focused on his aim. At any cost he has to reach his destination on or before the said time. The scorching sun was burning his skin .He was dehydrated completely. His tongue tasted the saltiness of his sweat and glued to the roof of his mouth. He ignored everything. He was burning in his thoughts. Nothing could put off the fire in his heart. He was running fast as he could. His sore foot started bleeding and the smell was frustrating. His whole body crushed out with the pain. His eyes were rolling he couldn’t see anything in front and his legs slipped and he fell down just one mile before the destination. In semiconscious state he saw the grinning face of Sam enjoying his victory along with his friends. Every cells of his body squeezed in the burning thought. Soon a drop of water falls on his eyes and started to rain, he got back to his conscious state. He started to run and he accomplished the task within short time.

The splashing victory made him a hero in the School. They all have one thing to say – Joe’s Victory.

It was an answer to the School Management who has disregarded him, to his friends who have underestimated him and finally to Sam who has hoaxed him for his personal gains.

Yesterday was the worst day in my life. I was so busy that I didn't even get time to stand up and breathe. My head was aching like anything and I felt it would break anytime. I dialed my boss couple of times but didn't get through. As it was minutes away from the meeting I didn't have any other choice other than attending the meeting. The client was so particular that they wanted requirements from our side that day itself and I was left with no option other than work. I had to work till 3 am to complete my task.

I don’t know how I drove back to home. I was so exhausted that I forgot to inform my parents about this. When I reached home my parents were waiting for me. They fired me left and right for being ignorant in informing them about my late work. But I couldn't reciprocate anything as my head was spinning so I promptly went to the bedroom. Again they confronted me and I said sorry for being late and requested them to discuss it tomorrow.

I had my nerve when they approached me again so I closed the door. All these time my tony (dog) was observing this. He was sitting on the other side of my bed observing my strange behavior. He was trying to keep as much as distance from me as if he understood everything. But I ignored him completely. I badly wanted to sleep and by this time I heard a knock again at my door for dinner and suddenly Tony became furious and jumped against my parents and started barking at them continuously. They got scared as it was first time he was behaving indifferent. I couldn't believe it was my tony. Anyway after that no one could scare to question me and I went to sleep.

Today morning when I woke up I was stunned to see him standing in front of my door and not allowing any one to enter my room. He was surprised to see me and jumped at me with happiness and licked all over my face as if he has got something precious.

 Still I couldn't get over my astonishment. I wonder how a dog can understand human emotions whereas others can’t. 

Nancy was flipping through each and every page of her moms diary suddenly something caught her eyes ‘June 3, 1989’ date marked in red. She started reading…

I reached Office at 10am.Receptionist greeted me with a brief smile. I handed over my interview letter to her. She is a blonde woman with sparkling blue eyes. She looked so happy & carefree. She gave me a token number & asked me to wait outside. I counted every second with bated breath for my turn. Finally my number appeared on the screen, I reached reception desk with in no time.

She asked me to go inside the Discussion room #2.The room was fully occupied. Everyone looked stressed. After 5 minutes three women in black suits entered the room. Every one stood up to welcome the judges. They asked each one of us to introduce ourselves. It took almost one hour when everyone has done with their introduction part. They gave each one of us a paper and a pen& asked everyone to write about their biggest achievement in life. Time given was 2 minutes. Because of time constraint I sketched my biggest achievement – My Car

She collected paper from every one after the said time. She arbitrarily selected few girls & boys from our group and asked each one of them to read out the papers loudly. Though everyone tried but no one could complete the given task within the stipulated time. They completed reading every paper except mine. I raised my hand but the judges asked me to wait. She said I will give each one of you another 1 minute to complete this task & everyone started writing.

Time over she said and started collecting the papers from every one. She went through all the papers in an iota of second & said “Do you guys know the difference between hard work and smart work?

She lifted my paper & pointed finger against me. Everyone turned back. She continued “Only she has finished this task within the given time & she added it’s not like how you do your task but how effectively you can do it within the stipulated time is what matters the most”. She turned back to me & said with a smile "You are selected for the next round of interview".

Nancy closed the diary. Her eyes glistened, and she looked at the diary & proudly said “Mom definitely I will get through this interview”. Love you Mom

It was during my high school days I noticed her. She looked very beautiful in her long skirt and I cursed my parents for brought me jeans on my birthday. With cropped hair I looked more like a tomboy & I suppose that could be the reason why girls were keeping distance & I created big chaos back home. Only my grandmother could calm me down. After some days she fulfilled her promise by secretly bringing me skirt and a blouse. I couldn’t avert my eyes from mirror.wow I told myself J & I was impatiently waiting for Wednesday for wearing the same (We can wear color dress on first Wednesday’s of every month). Finally the day has come. I reached my school earlier and I was looking for my beautiful girlfriend Miya. Her eyes popped out of her head on seeing me in skirt and said wow you are looking very beautiful. How much does it cost? Very proudly I added some figures to its original cost and innocently said Rs.5000/-. Her jaw dropped & couldn’t utter a word for some time. Anyway thanks to skirt that has made our friend ship stronger.

Though she is beautiful nobody liked her & I couldn’t understand the reason .Later I came to know that she was notorious among our friends for her arrogance & selfishness but I didn’t feel her that way. Anyway I decided to change this opinion. We started to participate in sports and all other extracurricular activities only because it would help us to bunk classes & gain extra marks in examsJ. Soon we became very popular in our school. Within months she became selected as school leader & that has changed her completely. Once she told me that her parents had love marriage & her mother was expelled from her family & she added there has been never a single day in her life without seeing her parents fighting each other.

Days passed by and our final exams were nearing. Day before the exam she called me and said I’m afraid that I can’t attend the exam - same reason family problems & she bursted into tears. I consoled her and said don’t lose one year for silly reasons but she hang up without telling anything. I was totally depressed and I couldn’t study anything after her call. Next day I was completely blank and the fear that she would lose one year made me to do a misdeed. Without a second thought I dialed principal’s number from a nearby booth and said question papers are leaked so it would be better if you could postpone the exam & I hang up. The fear that I will be expelled from the school was unbearable & eating me alive. I trembled with fear and five minutes before the exam an announcement came that exam was postponed and date will be announced later. Though it chilled my mind however I deliberately forget the after effects as I settled owner of telephone booth with Rs. 1000.  :-P. She almost fainted after hearing my audacious story but hugged me tightly and cried for hours. And I was feeling proud for myself. She added if you were a boy I would have married you & we were laughing so hard (lucky that no was around) that our jaw hurts.

P.S - Hi Syed,Thanks for choosing this topic.It helped me to go back to my old good school days and yeah to reveal a secret :) :-P

Who you prefer working with? Female or Male boss? Why

I had worked under both but I was more comfortable with Female boss as she was pretty good at delegating work under the team. She had never interfered until & unless there was a major problem. Moreover she was good at giving rating.

Positives & Negatives –Patience, Supportive & Multitasking but poor at Experience & Knowledge Sharing

Working under male boss was like sitting on a volcano. You can never predict when it is going to erupt? Work never ends after reaching home also. I had been sick working under male boss. uff 

Positives & negatives – Good at taking risk but poor at People Management

Friends, I would like to hear from you about your working experience & Who you prefer to work with & why?

Meaning of Life

I don’t think life has any meaning. It’s only us who has meaning and it is our responsibility to bring happiness in our life. There is a famous saying “Do live and let others live” .In this modern era we see people fighting each other for existence and their thirst doesn't stop even after they achieve what they wanted. Their search for happiness continues until their last breath & they die as losers who haven’t ever experienced happiness in life.

I believe happiness comes from our mind. If you can find happiness in small things you do then you are worth living. Everything in earth has short life span & in this limited period finding yourself is the biggest challenge you ever have to face in life however people are more into satisfying their physical needs.

I would say happiness comes from sharing & serving others. Let’s look back into our history – We have lots of freedom fighters, they had spent their whole life for others & generation after generation people remembers them. They are the real heroes who had actually lived or showed the essence of life.

Below I have written a small story about fire fly

I began my life as a fire fly

No one noticed me during day

I illuminated myself during the night for others

But no one cared me; everyone tried to catch me

They tried to scare me even though I did well to them

One day I lose one of my wings

But I avoided the pain & tried to fly

But I couldn’t, the fear was scarier than the pain

Later I collapsed myself into the mystery of death

When I opened my eyes, I would see myself in some other world

Gatekeeper unlocked the gate & gave me a warm welcome

They gave me new wings and opened me into the world of happiness

The thought of no one to harm me here is sweeter

My family was awaiting me; they hugged me tightly & it was a glorious reunion

Though I was a loser in my previous life; I’m a winner in my eternal life

Thank you my god for letting me know the essence of my life

You gave me life; I lived for others

They tortured me; but you supported me

They tried to catch me; but you saved me

Later you called me back & I reached here

You gave me new life & I started to fly

What I’m trying to say is that if you didn’t achieve anything in your life after all your hardships don’t feel bad for yourself as success is yet to come, believe in god & do well for others.

Enjoy your life before it ends. Life is beautiful

P.S - Friends this is my first attempt. Please don't hesitate to put your comments and suggestions after reading.

Thanks,

Niki

Hello friends,

Hope you guys are doing good.

Well i thought of sharing an incident which has happened to me in the recent past.

My days are starting with watching kids playing outside. I love kids a lot because they are cute and innocent & they are unaware about this dark world.

Soon we became friends. They used to me tell their innocent stories while walking towards station.

One day while rushing to office I have seen an old lady with a board. I feel very pity for the old lady as she looked very skinny. I immediately handed over my lunch box to her and it continued for a week. But for the next 3 days I couldn't see her as I was down with fever. Next day I was running late so I couldn't meet the kids but I was happy that I could see the old lady. When I was about to give her my lunch box she refused it and taken a box from her bag. I was totally perplexed but with a smile she holds my hand and said kids have given her lunch box. I was taken aback as I couldn't believe this. That day evening she told me her story how she was dumped by her doctor son after his marriage. She added with watery eyes "today because of you I could see my son in those boys". For the first time in my life I have felt my heart and inner soul overflowing with joy and happiness.

Next day when I asked the kids they said everyday you are giving your lunch box and not eating anything. We are 4 so nothing will happen if I give her my lunch box. My eyes became wet and I planted a kiss on his forehead.

Why I share this is because I would like to remind you that little ones follow your deeds. They observe everything and try to copy it in their lives. If you can't give them good advises try to be good in front of them as they are the promises of future.

Please don’t ruin their future...

Thanks,

Niki

P.S - Thank you bob for your valuable suggestion.

I have resubmitted the story in blog after making necessary corrections. Please look into it

I would say that it is not good for husband and wife to be in the same profession. Let us take an example of IT people. If both are in the same category & one got promoted to higher level there will be a possibility of increased professional jealousy which could invade into their personal life & destroy it. But there are couples who could see professional and personal life differently; even then also the risk factor is high that one should bend down to the ground for running the family less problematic

You might have noticed that this type of relationship is very common among film industry but life is very less. Many couples are on the brim of divorce due to this especially if their wife is going up in the ladder, due to fierce competition relationship would get worse & they get separated after few months.

I wonder people often falls in love with other from the same field. During dating also they find it very funny & cool as they can spend whole time together but when it comes to marriage one find it extreme difficult to adjust with the other why? Is it because one tries to outpace the other in professional & personal life??

Dear All,

Well you might have been thinking what made me to write about this eccentric topic. Anyway I don’t feel it strange because very recently I had a recurring dream which has haunted me for some days. I keep on thinking what does that mean. I have done a survey on this and the below are the outcome of the same

Recurring Dreams – Recurring Dreams are nothing but our inner psychological answer to confusing questions, it do have some connection with reality but only negligible percent. At night when we fall into the world of dreams, only our physical body is in resting state but our brain is functioning .In unconscious state our brain start rewinding on things which are distressing us internally and gives some hint to solve it but it appears in confusing state which our subconscious mind can’t interpret properly. It is said that dreams which disappear when we come to conscious state doesn’t have any connection with us or reality

Did anyone know what the most recurring dreams are?

Falling from heights  

This is a very common dream. Almost 60% of my friends have agreed that they had a similar dream. What does that mean? It means that you are scared of something and you really don’t want that to happen. Instead of facing the reality you are trying to flee from the situation.

Chasing

 This is another common dream. Almost 20% of my friends have agreed that they had a similar dream. What does that mean? It means that you have done something wrong and you have a strong feeling that others are aware about this and you are going to get caught soon.

Exam Fear

 This is yet another common one. Sometimes you might have stopped your education years ago & you will be wondering why this dream is recurring? It means that there is some important event which is going to occur very shortly or happening right now but you are not organized & scared about the event.

Death – Though it sounds something negative but believe me it is a positive dream. Those who had this dream have encountered positive things in short span or right after the dream. It doesn’t have scientific explanation but it is the result of my survey

Flying – This is another positive common dream, it means that that you are not worried about anything & wanted to fly like a bird. There are many other interpretation to this as in you have achieved your biggest dream in your life & many more

This is a short survey I have conducted on recurring dreams among my friend circle & opinions were collected randomly from same age group & both gender. Hope you all have enjoyed this. Please don’t leave without dropping a comment or suggestion. Thank you all for your valuable time

 P.S - Thank you Bob for your inspiring words