Hey you!
Yes, you!
I am talking to you...

You are my life
This is not a lie:
I love you!
You've got all the hues;
I should call u a rainbow!

You are a part of me
But sometimes, it seems to me:
You are me!
You are the sky, I am the sea.
You see in me your reflection.
We both exhibit perfection!

When I see you,
I feel fairies smiling at me
Angels sprinkling dewdrops
The sun, the moon and the stars,
The larks, the waters and flowers--
This whole Universe dedicated to me!

You are a blessing for me --
The greatest blessing!
I witness God
Since He bestows me with blessings!

I wish to kiss your eyes,
Kiss them thousands of times!
But only when they are closed
So that You may not see
How much I love you!

How can I tell,
Since I am ill,
I ain't able to spell,
My will.
I can't yell,
But still,
I say, I love you!

I have not manifested my feelings ,
And it is not always necessary to show
what is happening inside.
Sometimes,
the horse runs without a rider!

Expressions may be weak
Through them you may not seek
How much I love you.
That's why I have not
Made a knot out of a tie!

My heart says,
You are indispensable
For my existence,
For my survival!
It is impossible to describe you--
Your charm and my love for you,
I have given enough bribe
To my mind,
But perhaps, it knows its limits.

How much I love you?
Perhaps, even I don't know.
But I think
It is enough for the two of us!
So, why don't
You leave "You",
and I leave "I"
And become
Only "We" ?

2-Trees In Dream

Last night, perhaps the mid-night
I dreamed a dream which I ain’t able to write
But still I try to cite:
I found you and me in the woods
Only you and me, no other goods!

We wished to live together here forever
We sighed: Would God do us this favour?
The sky got tear, a fairy appeared inwhite-wear
She came close to us and whispered in ourears:
“God has shown instant mercy on you,
Now you two can live here too!”
We two, couldn’t understand why she said“too!”
But we didn’t care
We were happy that God respected our prayer
It happens rare that lovers live togetherforever!

We used to welcome and good-bye the sun
With smiles, hands waving and some fun!
In between the trees, we used to run
But sometimes, besides us trees also used torun
We were afraid of the movements
But the only solution was consolation throughembracements!

I used to comb your hair
You used to sleep in my arms

Seeingyou asleep, I used to whisper in your ears:

“You look so cute, innocent and calm.”
But once it happened I saw through the trick
For listening to my love-words,
You pretended to asleep like a tired kid!
Yeah (sigh), it was so romantic and yetrealistic
Every flower, every happiness, we togetherused to pick
Seeing nests, we thought to build a home ofbrick
But we were afraid of His kick
Since these trees were enough to stick!

Years passed by, but still we remained shy
We were always true, in love why to lie?
We were overwhelmed by the abundance ofblisses!
So many blisses, even more than we madekisses!
We can’t count kisses, so how can the blisses?

We were often surprised we are the only oneshere?
Often thinking logically where have we here?
Why was the rest of the world not there?
But there were no replies!
And we remained mysterious about the carvedtrees!
These trees made us forget all the queries andmiseries
In favour of all this: no logics, no theories!

Then a day came when it rained
Sky sent us a saint
He bellowed in our ears:
“You are about to dry,You are about to die!”
You got horrified, I got terrified
Simultaneously, we turned mad and sad
What about our prayer of living togetherforever
God turned back from His words? No, never!
The final day for this life came
The love we made here can never range
Love remains same, only appearances change!
Now we have become the trees
Like all the other humans who wished to livetogether forever!
He turned back from His words? No, never!
Love remains the same, only appearanceschange!
We still are lovers, lovers together, togetherforever!
Now, we see another “we” in the same woods
They run, and besides them, we also run
They are also confused, but don’t abuse
One day, after facing the final day,
They will also become trees
And these trees will become more thick
More inviting as an ideal place to livetogether,
Ideal place to stick together forever.

Relationships, especially of the monogamous, “I love you forever” kind, are facing testing times. For the younger generation, the idea of a “forever”, is becoming steadily disenchanting because there is always someone hotter, nicer, more fun and interesting, and better suited for their evolving needs and are in sync with their personal/professional choices out there. Changing needs and changing times seem to be permanently changing the nature of relationships. Social media and digital communication makes it so much easier to meet more people and interact in depth without wasting too much time. I see less and less people moping over lost relationships. Instead, I see them readily chuck out what’s not working, (with a bit of necessary pain and tears thrown in for good measure), and look forward to the next relationship that will fulfill what’s lacking currently in their lives.

It may be unfamiliar and a bit disconcerting to many who have been conditioned differently, but when you see it objectively, it’s wonderful that people are happy to let go of what’s not working and setting themselves free to find someone who makes their life more fulfilling. Why should people hold on to something that it no longer working, only because it was good for an age and stage in their life? For that matter, why hate the other person if dynamics have changed. Thank them for the good times, for the learnings, and the journey together and move forward. Not every passenger that boards a train goes from the beginning to the end. Some do, and some just board at different points and get off along the way. Life is a journey. Even if someone decides to buy a ticket to the destination and chooses to get off along the way it’s okay. No one is, or ever should be, under anyone’s control and have to suffer a lifetime of a bad relationship if situations have changed and cannot be resolved. To some, it may seem frivolous to be relationship hopping and ideal if you had someone whom you could love and grow old being loved by, but that too is only going to happen if you stop hanging onto someone who doesn’t fit the bill.

Q&A

1) It has approximately been seven months since I have started dating this girl. She seldom meets me and calls. At times, I feel that I am the only person in this relationship. I have expressed this to her but she doesn’t seem to understand. What should I do?

Just back away for 2 months. Let her do all the calling and deciding whenever to meet. Don’t put in an ounce of effort, not even one call, and see if it galvanises her into being more proactive in this relationship. If it still yields no results, they dynamics aren’t suited to each other and it’s best to move on.

2) I am a single girl living in a rented apartment. My neighbours are extremely nosy and keep asking me why do I stay alone and why can’t I go back to my parents. Initially, I thought that they are traditional in their mindset, but off late they have been harassing me in more ways than one by even commenting on the way I live. They have started discussing all of this with shopkeepers near my apartment complex. I have started feeling insecure and don’t know what to do. Please help.

Write them a letter stating “Hey I found your nose! It’s in my business!” Jokes aside, put all the points you mentioned and courier it to them and keep an acknowledgment copy. Inform them in the letter that you will submit a copy to the nearest police station if any of this were to continue. You are there legally and lawfully and to pass any moral judgment or harass you because of their redundant belief is liable for legal action.

3) My boyfriend and I fight almost every day. I have even thought of breaking up with him and have expressed my desire to do so. But he says that if I leave him, he will harm himself. I do not know what to do…please help.

Such individuals are a nightmare to spend a lifetime with. Love yourself enough to want a better life partner and love him enough to inform his family that such threats have been made and that they need to take charge, because you do not wish to spend your life compromised, scared and blackmailed and additionally do not wish to be in any way responsible for what he may do to himself.

So long as you get a grip on yourself, you have time for everything. If not, life slips away in a jiffy, leaving you panicky and disillusioned…

If time is limited and beyond our control, the only thing to do is to catch it by the forelock and make the most of it! Else, we will be left attempting to grab its vanishing tail in desperation… too little, too late!

In the insidious connection humans share with time, as we discussed last week in this space, planning and balance is the key to a healthy, respectable relationship. You cannot just allow things to happen to you; you have to be aware and in charge of time by managing it right. Memorable events are what life is made of. By living in the moment with awareness, we make the most of the present and create happy moments for the future.

It is important to ensure that there is time for everything – and then, also a time for nothing! So, if at times you have to be in the saddle, there will also come times when you have to lose control and go with the flow. While at times it is critical to wring the last from every moment, at other times it is important to bide time.

Is it any wonder then that the English language has such interestingly confused and self-contradictory phrases related to Time? Lexicographers and quotationists have had an amusing time exploring various angles of the concept of time! Look at this — You could ‘have a hell of a time’ when things go wrong or even when they are great!  But you have ‘the time of your life’ only when you are happy! You could be ‘behind times’ or ‘ahead of time.’ ‘Time heals all wounds,’ but you have to ‘stand the test of time’ before that happens. You can ‘buy time,’ ‘catch time,’ ‘borrow time,’ ‘beat time’ or even ‘kill time’! ‘Times flies’, but ‘time stands still’ too! You can ‘race against time’ and reach your destination ‘in the nick of time’, or you could be ‘ahead of time’ — unless of course you are already ‘behind the times’. We ‘have all the time in the world’, but did you know that ‘time waits for no one’?

Whether it is ‘the best of times’ or the ‘worst of times’, it is clear that ‘time is the essence’! ‘Time alone will tell’ if you have ‘stood the test of time’!

If you love life, don’t waste time, for time is what life is made up of — Bruce Lee

Plan your day in a way to give space to all that is important – work and play; thought and action; mirth and empathy; give and take; contentment and gratitude. Treat each day like a miniature piece of life – extract the maximum from it, and give back your best too!

“You may delay, but time will not.” ― Benjamin Franklin

Nowruz is the Persian, or Iranian, spring celebration of the New Year. It’s the most important festival of the year in Iran, and it's a public holiday there and in Kazakhstan, Azerbaijan, Afghanistan, Albania and other countries in South and Central Asia. It’s a happy occasion, and there may be as many as 13 days’ holiday from school!

When is it?

Nowruz begins at the exact day, hour and minute of the spring equinox, when night and day are of equal length. This is usually on 21 March. It’s the day when winter changes into spring, and it feels like a new beginning.

Spring cleaning

People prepare for Nowruz by cleaning the whole house, and everyone in the family helps out. Carpets, windows and curtains are cleaned. Anything broken is repaired or replaced. Silverware is polished. The house is decorated with flowers. By doing this spring cleaning, people wash away the bad things from the previous year and prepare for better things to come in the new year. They also put on brand new clothes to symbolise a fresh start.

Nowruz in the UK

In the UK, Nowruz is celebrated by families from Iran and other countries. They set up a haftseen table in their homes too, but it’s difficult to find some of the objects in British supermarkets so they usually have to go to special Iranian shops to buy them. They send greetings to other family members living far away by phone or message. Nowruz is a happy and exciting time, even though there aren’t any school holidays for it in the UK.

Dear My first Angel :
I want to thank You for what you have already done.
I am not going to wait until I see results or receive rewards;
I am thanking you right now.
I am not going to wait until I feel better or things look better;
I am thanking you right now.
I am not going to wait until people say they are sorry or until they stop talking about me;
I am thanking you right now.
I am not going to wait until the pain in my body disappears ;
I am thanking you right now.
I am not going to wait until my financial situation improves;
I am going to thank you right now.
I am not going to wait until the children are asleep and the house is quiet;
I am going to thank you right now.
I am not going to wait until I get promoted at work or until I get the job;
I am going to thank you right now.
I am not going to wait until I understand every experience in my life that has caused me pain or grief;
I am thanking you right now.
I am not going to wait until the journey gets easier or the challenges are removed;
I am thanking you right now.
I am thanking you because I am alive. I am thanking you because I made it through the day's difficulties. I am thanking you because I have walked around the obstacles.
I am thanking you because I have the ability and the opportunity to do more and do better.

I'm thanking you because FATHER, YOU haven't given up on me.

If I could catch a rainbow

I would do it just for you

And share with you its beauty

On the days you're feeling blue.


If I could build a mountain

You could call your very own;

A place to find serenity,

A place to be alone.


If I could take your troubles

I would toss them in the sea,

But all these things I'm finding

Are impossible for me.


I cannot build a mountain

Or catch a rainbow fair,

But let me be what I know best,

A friend who's always there.


I promise to defend you,

should the occasion ever rise,

And, I promise to wipe away the tears,

which might stream from your weeping eyes.


Let me be the trusted Friend,

the one that you know best.

I will never leave you,

on that, you can surely rest.

Life is like a garden

And friendship like a flower,

That blooms and grows in beauty

With the sunshine and the shower.


And lovely are the blossoms

That are tended with great care,

By those who work unselfishly

To make the place more fair.


And, like the garden blossoms,

Friendship's flower grows more sweet

When watched and tended carefully

By those we know and meet.


And, if the seed of friendship

Is planted deep and true

And watched with understanding,

Friendship's flower will bloom for you.

DEDICATED TO SOME ONE  WHO REALLY DESERVES THIS.

 Well Stardom ,fame and prestige is something we all crave for .

Literally speaking ,To me I would definitely turn this offer down and will be on the contrary .

Since,I have grown up looking at people who are poverty stricken &their stories of misery and perennial griefs are never ending .

keeping the aforementioned reasons in my view ,I would fervently like to be in the shoes of those who make monumental efforts to bring home bacon .

"We know that Hunger breeds  domestic violence,It forces the infant to do child labouring ,It makes people go for Heinous crimes e,g.Human trafficking ,modern day slavery ,selling parts of one precious body in order to survive .

In a nutshell ,Hunger is like battling the war of survival ,Keeping all this ordeals in mind .I would still love to be in shoes of those are starving to death ,I want to feel the pain of such people .

As far as,The fame or stardom is considered .We see in our everyday life the people who are renowned ,celebrated noted personalities they pretend to  look prosper .As a matter of fact,They have comparatively much more predicaments to cope with .

Merely their Stardom cant prevent them from being the victim of insecurity ,Isolation and peace of mind .

Conclusion ,

We should not cease to look ravishing due to  insurmountable wealth but we should rather make great endeavor to feel good .

Micheal

Making Sense Of Life's ‘Ups' And ‘Downs'.

“Life is like a roller coaster. It’s one wild ride, but worth every second!” Unknown.

If only more of you could approach life in the same way.  Just like the Roller Coaster Ride, before we reach the ecstasy of the success we are targeting for in life, we are faced with fears, unnerving feeling and doubt of the risk we are taking with us in the ride. When we let ourselves submit to our fears, we are letting fears take away our potential success.  If we want to achieve success, we have to face our fears.  Unless we do, we’ll be forever locked into our own failures.

There isn’t a challenge that we cannot overcome. Even though challenges may appear impossible to conquer at times, believe that it is possible and know you can find a solution. That’s what living is all about – we are consistently being presented with situations that challenge us, make us grow, teach us, and make us better people. Without challenges, life would be pretty boring.

So lets’ accept that life is like a roller coaster ride.  You start moving forward; a little bit hesitant and shaky as you set off on the journey. Next, you start climbing up, then drop down, up again, then down. In fact there are a lot more ups and downs on this ride. There are some wild corners and you even get turned completely upside down a few times. Some parts of the ride will be frightening. Other parts of the ride are exciting and exhilarating.

Never give up,Always possess the spirit of battling for betterment in life no matter how hard it is to take the initiation .

"Every cloud has a sliver lining ".

I have been through many ups and downs &i would make my mind to surrender before the perpetuating sorta hindrance but then you know I was fervently overwhelmed by the perennial desire of making my dreams and wishes come true .

Micheal .. 

The Psychology of Horror or thrill .

 Horrors or thrill are made up to help us cope with the real ones.

Fear is an unpleasant emotion we usually do our best to avoid.

“As a kid, I adored anything scary – ghosts, monsters, mummies, you name it,”

it’s not enough to throw together a bunch of ghosts or monsters. Horror stories have been around since prehistoric people tried to explain the things that go bump in the night.

“Horror has its quintessential themes,”

Children of all ages might enjoy horror, but they don’t enjoy the same kinds of horror. Stories for younger children tend to balance fear with humor. Plots are spooky but not terrifying. Teen novels, on the other hand, can include more gore and death. Writers have to find the right balance for their books.

HUMANS ARE OBSESSED WITH DEATH.

Fear the Walking Dead. Why are you drawn to the horrible sounding creatures who just won’t stop in their quest to eat you (and possibly make you one of their own)? Humanity has always been interested in death and what happens when our lives end.

Literally Speaking ,I cant stand seeing the blood spattered stuff .

It gives me goose bumps and could presumably lead me to being unconscious ..

When it comes to scary movies, the “you either love them or hate them” cliché is never truer.

The lure of horror.

Fear coils in your stomach and clutches at your heart. It’s an unpleasant emotion we usually do our best to avoid. Yet across the world and through time people have been drawn irresistibly to stories designed to scare them.

Conclusion..

Who wants to be afraid?

Psychology can help explain why horror takes the persistent form that it does, but that still leaves the question of why we should want to scare ourselves through fiction in the first place. One suggestion is that, like play, it allows us to rehearse possible threatening scenarios from a position of relative safety. ‘Movie monsters provide us with the opportunity to see and learn strategies of coping with real-life monsters should we run into them, despite all probabilities to the contrary,’ says Fischoff. ‘A sort of covert rehearsal for… who knows what.’ Despite its fantastical elements, Clasen explains that successful horror fiction is usually realistic in its portrayals of human psychology and relationships. ‘That’s where horror matters,’ Clasen says; ‘that’s where horror can teach us something truly valuable.’

I believe that we should go for since it emboldens us to that extent .

Micheal ..

Ever feel like you’re all alone out there in the big scary world of learning a new language?

I think it is clear what we mean it depending on how much time your invest in language learning. Someone with a solid study regime over a long period of time is more likely to make better progress than someone doing an hour a week for three months only.

I believe that we if practice more and more about learning a second language with some one who is comparatively more efficient really helps .Further more,Learning English is definitely no exception you've got to practice it as much as possible so as to be fluent in it .

There are lots of enthusiastic and extroverted polyglots, but there are also quieter, more introspective learners. Some people learn one language to mastery over a period of years, while others dabble and jump from one language to another.What's got to matter a lot is the consistency in learning and the momentum to keep you encouraged .

I use fluency as the ability to have normal conversations without too many pauses. I don’t consider fluency to be the ultimate mastery in a language, like some people do.

Mistakes are always there when it comes to talking about Learning fear it not .Do not let phobia of learning language intimidates since we are sure that learning is always fun .

An example of language Learning  would be to write down the basic script that you will encounter when meeting new people. Memorising specifically the vocabulary you will need.

vocabulary are some stuff,which could be a little hard to get along with make sure that you exercise it frequently and keep a diary with your self .

Instead of saying; “Excuse me, could you tell me where the toilet is?” you could speak much sooner if you just allowed yourself to say: “Sorry, where toilet?”

An other example ,I have heard leaner of English making much more wordy sentences .."Could i please have your name or Excuse me could you please tell me your name ?"Well to save your time and cut things short ,You might say "Sorry ,Your name please ?"

Jotting down the words you need to use frequently,Well, everyone has to eat. If you’re going to a country where your target language is spoken, it might behoove you to be very conversant with food vocabulary and customs (especially if you have any dietary requirements). I can’t even count how many words relating to food preparation (cutting, chopping, peeling, slicing, etc.) and ingredients themselves (not only vegetables...

What's Your Language Map?

I believe that a grammar is a solid language map.

Learning grammar doesn't mean that you have to be perfect. It doesn't even mean that you have to know the rules. But when you're looking for answers or instructions, grammar is the map that gives you what you need. Good grammar guides are your companion, helping you understand how to speak.

❝Learning is a treasure that will follow its owner everywhere.❞

Keep learning and never give up no matter how hard it is to learn.

Write about your motivations. You may sometimes want to look at them so write them in an important place in your notebook or on a piece of paper in your wallet.  You can write them like this:

“I’m learning English because…

“I’m learning English so I can…

“I think the most important reason why I’m learning English is…

“But I also…

“Maybe in the future I will…

Make Learning Fun &Enjoy Learning .

Micheal suggests you to give a space to the language you are learning in day to day life ...

The best feelings are those that have no words to describe them .

A true friend is some one who says nice things behind you .

True Friendship comes when silence between two people is comfortable ..

Friends always there to ease our anxiety and make us move on in our lives and they are the ones who bring out the best in us .

True friends are like upper and da lower eyelids,

they often meet because they miss each other ,

But when they meet they don't see da world around dat's friendship .

Please make those moments very much monumental that you spend with your near and dear ones .Everything we get in life but there are things we just get them once .

I know Life is so hectic but forget not to spare time for those who are in quest of you .I really believe that our friends are like "Stars in the sky we do not see them but we know they are there ". That's what keeps us Motivated .

Spend time with your Flesh and blood ,They are the ones if lost will be sorely missed ..

Micheal .