We are driven by various connected motivations suppose to feel pleasure and avoid pain, input empowering believe. Most of us dedicate more energy to the latter than the earlier. Instead of being proactive, we react to things what in happen in our lives is not right, so the fight or flee would be minimize our pain.
Instead of leaving a horrible job there we find love, we may stay and complain about it all the time, trying to minimize the pain of accepting the situation as real—and enduring until
