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I think some times we need to act first, then think. When we are worried about some thing too much, our fear dose not allows us to take action. Maybe we don't want to leave our comfort zone.

If something worrying happened to us in the past or present, we are unable to deal with our emotions at the time as we become fearful about facing the situation. some times we may worry about the future, if we should not able to control of many aspects of our life,then we start to feel hesitant or fear about events beyond our control.Nervousness, limited belief & humiliation create fear which effects our mind and let us down to be skilled one.

The way we think can be affected, if we fear that the worst things are going to happen,we find out everything negatively and become very pessimistic. For example, if we aspect something from dear one but she fail to unable to fulfill your desire being of workload, its not she willingly doing that but you may imagine that she try to avoid you or doesn’t want to continue you…have to come out such worry or fear & need to take action. if we able to conquered unease and fear, then it can protect us from danger.same way during learning English language, when we make blog if we compose grammar mistake or sentence arranging mistake, we should avoid such fear and never involve us to make correction. We should go ahead with the mistake. If we think, what will think other members then the thought only help us to stay a small boundary and never get chance to drive the wide world.

I thought it is easy to ignore or deny our fears by the importance of being strong and brave. But courage doesn’t play her roles unless we have a fear to face down. So we should ignore the feelings and have taken the first step toward gaining control over the situation.

After understand our fear we should change our mind to fight against it,as we have a big goal set so definitely should have to overcome the fear. but it's important to set smaller material goals to help us get there.such as we afraid to write something on EC forum and feel hesitate being fear of mistake.firstly have to write so so topic to come out of the fear and never find out the error which we make during communication period because it make us stop to learn more.

In the real world everything occurs within a background,Developing our communication skills, we should love the process first, yes have to love the learning process.Believe it takes a confident amount of energy to deal with fear but we must do it.

what do you think.