That time she was completing her schools. Lots of dreams, hopes, imagination, desires were there in that growing girl. Although she belongs to a small place but aspirations were so high. Among all desires there was one special wish like other girls of having a dream prince as its quite natural feeling of every human being.

She started making   imaginations of her charming prince. The one, who will always love her, will care her, will think first of her happiness, then rest of the world, will always be there in her sorrows and most important he will UNDERSTAND her.

One day a boy came in her life and life became happier than before. It was like stepping towards making dream into reality. She was on 7^th heaven. But time is not always same. They became so committed and faithful to each other that they promised to get married soon.

Their story reached to parents and some sort of fear aroused in her heart. Still she had confidence that her father will accept him because she is her dear daughter. But no!! She was wrong. Being dear to parents doesn’t mean that you are free to get married of your choice. All her request  gone in vain.

She was now not allowed to go outside and it was the toughest thing to stay normal without him, her father fixes her marriage somewhere else, without her knowledge and acceptance. She plead a lot but her destiny was already written.

It was only one day left for her marriage and she got a call from her lost love. Listening his voice she lost her control and tears rolled out from her swollen eyes. She could easily feel the pain in his voice but nothing was in her hand. He wanted her to run away with him but after thinking a while she refused his request and hanged up. She didn’t want to see her parents get insulted and humiliated.

Now 16 year passed of her marriage and she is compelled to think again and again that, was she right in making decision? Is Love marriage always wrong and never Arrange???  Should she blame her parents for her fate????

Today she is living with the one who is drunkard to the extent that he has not such time even to talk although she has become used to of this situation because he is same from the day she got married. Domestic violence is normal thing for her, she has no permission to go outside and meet people, she can’t wear the dresses which she wants, and useless debates are the main part of her life. Despite of the fact that she is the mother of two sons she is living lonely and aimlessly. Elder son, who is now 15, has followed the same path of his father and become the supplier of his liquors, morning evening he comes with bottles and provide him all the time. School is not for them. Life seems stuck into liquor smell, loud musics and day night fights. unwantedly that teen love comes in mind who is living happily and respectively because he was a nice boy and is a gentleman today.

“ARRANGE MARRIAGE WAS NOT FOR ME”

Very first blog of mine!!!

A Boy came to my home today, somewhere around 13-14 of age, carrying two briefcases in hand. He was here for the reason to sell those briefcases which were having name tag of Big Brand.

He started saying that "I am from ***** that famous big brand company and availing you these products at your home please see it once. We said ok show your material. He started explaining lots of qualities with showing his briefcases and also the price structure which was quite low.

We asked why you offering on so low rate??

He replied "I am here for you only because you are of my religion that is why offering you in a little amount." I checked the stuff and shown my suspect to him that it’s not original and asked him, "is that the big brand has become bankrupt" so that you people started selling it door to door.

He replied, No mam! "We are the boys who travel with their goods when they transport their products and that time we hide 2-3 pieces for our own expenses and then sell it on half rate. Trust me its original you can see its chains, bag stuff, and locking system also and see the company name also printed here".

Then we told him that we know very well that it’s not original because it’s quite different from the original one which we already have. He was much confident on his words so he replied me "ok sit on bike and come to its showroom then I will prove you".

I was really shocked to see his confidence then we said ok lets go to the showroom but remember that I will hand over you to the Police if you are wrong.

Then he skipped his track of proving the originality and started pleading that please buy this…...

This incident made me thoughtful that how much I am confident? He made me realize that I have no such confidence for even my good deeds as he was showing for his bad work.

If you really want to improve yourself you can take examples from everywhere and for that it is not always necessary to only look for school or college materials, lessons are always there in your atmosphere you just need to keep your eyes open and gather the information, knowledge. Whenever, where ever you find it.

Life teaches you at every moment of your life so always be ready to grab.