Life is lot of experiences ;good and bad ones .I want to share with you a great moment and experience which made me think a lot .We all know about the "vesicle" or "gall-bladder",so i had a prob on it and was obliged to do an operation to remove it ,any way i done it ,,now it's ok i thank GOD.The moment that effected me was at early morning in the hospital when the nurse came to take me in the operating theater suite.this moment when i was lain and looking at the anaesthetist preparing the injection.We feel cold ,alone ,not ready ,The only thinking we can have is :will i die ?If yes ,what can happens to my children?A moment that made me think of what is realy life ,that it can stop in only one second ,we are weak in such a situation ,nothing among what we got in our life will help us to keep ourselves alife,no money ,no work ,no familly .At this moment we feel alone ,an incredible lonliness, but GOD is here and the only thing that can help us is our faith and courage .I hope no one of you my friends will have such an experience ,but the last thing i will add is that the most important thing in our life is a good health.
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wow dear ,,you make me cry ,,these days as you know i'm a little sensitive than usual ,,lol.
thanks God that we still alive ,because there are things we haven't do yet!! i hope we will always be strong...
nebia said:
Oh, dearest. I have had this experience twice in my life. The first time it was sudden, unexpected but to stop all the pain I had for more than 12 hours trust me I was happy to be operated and didn't realize that maybe it will be the last time I will see my family. For the second one, I was aware of what is coming, so my frustrations and fears were bigger. I went dear as you know to the hospital alone; no family, parents, friends nor my husband... Going towards the unknown, I said good bye to my son at midday when he was going to school, I gave him the keys cause my husband was absent that day, held him so tight and kissed him, feeling that it would be the last time he will see his mom. On the way to the hospital, in a stormy day the rain blocked the access to Algiers the capital city where my hospital was... As if the sky was crying for me saying goodbye, I said to myself. I kept in me what was left from my brave heart and trusted God, convincing myself that everything will be alright. The day of my operation, I was laughing with the doctors doing the clown, as you know me my friend, cause I wasn't complretely anaesthtised and watching them helping me giving birth to my beloved son... and you know the rest dearest. The operation and me awake, oh my God! That is another story... LOL. Hopefully, I am still alive and strong as a rock hahaha! Thank you for the good topic my sister.
Oh, dearest. I have had this experience twice in my life. The first time it was sudden, unexpected but to stop all the pain I had for more than 12 hours trust me I was happy to be operated and didn't realize that maybe it will be the last time I will see my family.
For the second one, I was aware of what is coming, so my frustrations and fears were bigger.
I went dear as you know to the hospital alone; no family, parents, friends nor my husband...
Going towards the unknown, I said good bye to my son at midday when he was going to school, I gave him the keys cause my husband was absent that day, held him so tight and kissed him, feeling that it would be the last time he will see his mom.
On the way to the hospital, in a stormy day the rain blocked the access to Algiers the capital city where my hospital was...
As if the sky was crying for me saying goodbye, I said to myself.
I kept in me what was left from my brave heart and trusted God, convincing myself that everything will be alright.
The day of my operation, I was laughing with the doctors doing the clown, as you know me my friend, cause I wasn't complretely anaesthtised and watching them helping me giving birth to my beloved son... and you know the rest dearest.
The operation and me awake, oh my God! That is another story... LOL.
Hopefully, I am still alive and strong as a rock hahaha!
Thank you for the good topic my sister.
Thank you Dreamer for your comment ,,i have had the same experience with my mom too,,and yes indeed it was a great chock when the doctor said that she had no chance ,,but now and after 7 years alhamdoulillah ,she is fine .
We must think every day of those who spend all their lifes in hospitals and not of those who are more wealthy than us ...
thank you again and GOD bless you .
Oh Atika nothing is important than health we almost complain about money our job our life we don't thnks God THAT WE ARE healthy !! we can't feel that only when we lost it or when we enter to the hospital so that why we should time to time visit people in hospital to feel little thier pain and to remember to thks god for evrything , you remind me my mother when she entered to hospital and the doctor said that she can't survive but i bellived that she will come back home and recover from her illness , she had a small stone on her stomah (i don't know how to call it in english) but thnks god that she come back and recovered that not easy bellive me that was very very hard moment for us and my sister was all time with her in the hospital i can't thnks my sister what she did for us i just ask god to bless her and give her a best life , I hope you all my friends be healthy , thnk for sharing :)
Dear friends ,thank you a lot for your reply ,, M.ADAWAY,,i agree only our good work can be on the top . ELHAM,,yes i think GOD is the only one who can help us in such a situation ,,our lives depends on him ,,and our courage depends on our faith . KARENINA,,indeed the health the most precious think for humans,f we have to care about it. MONIKA,,so you know exactely the feeling i talked about ,,the moment that we can't forget ,even years later ,,
My operation was 5 years ago,but i couldn't forget the pain i felt coz my son had that time 2 months and the separation with him was a chock for me .Now ,i thank GOD i'm fine and my son too ,,we all face some bad experienses in a moment of our life ,,but from it ,we will learn a lot and become stronger .
i hope and wish for all of you a good health and a great faith .
Dear Atika,
I only had this experience once and that was when I was giving birth to my daughter. I had to have C-section and I remember dying out of stress and fear. I was worried about two people: my daughter and me. You know the point is that why we can't be optimistic in such situations? I have seen lots of people experiencing such moments and they all believe it's so hard to be optimistic and believe everything's gonna be ok!Do you think we have to deepen our faith in God?
Hi dear Atika!
I have had that awful experience twice already in my life,when I had been undergoing a surgical operation.
I think the worst in this situation is the feeling,that you are completly exposed to the doctors,and your life is in the hand of others(&God).
I couldn't help not to tremble like the jelly myself in the operating theatre,before the narcotizing.
Fortunately it was a long time ago,and I had no children at that time,-once I had an appendicitis and the second one was a kind of cyst-now I'd feel the same as you,worryig about my children's future.
Did this happen a long time ago?
Hope you are fine and healthy already,I wish you a good health and the best from everything.
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thanks God that we still alive ,because there are things we haven't do yet!! i hope we will always be strong...
nebia said:
For the second one, I was aware of what is coming, so my frustrations and fears were bigger.
I went dear as you know to the hospital alone; no family, parents, friends nor my husband...
Going towards the unknown, I said good bye to my son at midday when he was going to school, I gave him the keys cause my husband was absent that day, held him so tight and kissed him, feeling that it would be the last time he will see his mom.
On the way to the hospital, in a stormy day the rain blocked the access to Algiers the capital city where my hospital was...
As if the sky was crying for me saying goodbye, I said to myself.
I kept in me what was left from my brave heart and trusted God, convincing myself that everything will be alright.
The day of my operation, I was laughing with the doctors doing the clown, as you know me my friend, cause I wasn't complretely anaesthtised and watching them helping me giving birth to my beloved son... and you know the rest dearest.
The operation and me awake, oh my God! That is another story... LOL.
Hopefully, I am still alive and strong as a rock hahaha!
Thank you for the good topic my sister.
Alexandra said:
We must think every day of those who spend all their lifes in hospitals and not of those who are more wealthy than us ...
thank you again and GOD bless you .
M.ADAWAY,,i agree only our good work can be on the top .
ELHAM,,yes i think GOD is the only one who can help us in such a situation ,,our lives depends on him ,,and our courage depends on our faith .
KARENINA,,indeed the health the most precious think for humans,f we have to care about it.
MONIKA,,so you know exactely the feeling i talked about ,,the moment that we can't forget ,even years later ,,
My operation was 5 years ago,but i couldn't forget the pain i felt coz my son had that time 2 months and the separation with him was a chock for me .Now ,i thank GOD i'm fine and my son too ,,we all face some bad experienses in a moment of our life ,,but from it ,we will learn a lot and become stronger .
i hope and wish for all of you a good health and a great faith .
I only had this experience once and that was when I was giving birth to my daughter. I had to have C-section and I remember dying out of stress and fear. I was worried about two people: my daughter and me. You know the point is that why we can't be optimistic in such situations? I have seen lots of people experiencing such moments and they all believe it's so hard to be optimistic and believe everything's gonna be ok!Do you think we have to deepen our faith in God?
I have had that awful experience twice already in my life,when I had been undergoing a surgical operation.
I think the worst in this situation is the feeling,that you are completly exposed to the doctors,and your life is in the hand of others(&God).
I couldn't help not to tremble like the jelly myself in the operating theatre,before the narcotizing.
Fortunately it was a long time ago,and I had no children at that time,-once I had an appendicitis and the second one was a kind of cyst-now I'd feel the same as you,worryig about my children's future.
Did this happen a long time ago?
Hope you are fine and healthy already,I wish you a good health and the best from everything.