Hello guys this new way of blogging with audio voice in order to improve our speaking as well as writing..
Would you like to marry young?
What do you think about getting married at a 'young' age?
Do you think its better or not??
"This Poem is for the people who wants to get married ♥
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To my mind, if one wants to get married, it doesn't matter of what age he is,he has to be conscious of the step he is making,ready for the responsibility he takes ,take care of his ship of marriage. Two make the decision, two make a choice,two have to do all their best to make their ship of marriage happy! Marriage is like two hands create a vase of clay.One hand can't make it, so there must be co-operation. And I agree with Nadira,marriage indeed makes us mentally and emotionally stable!
Good luck!
Delaying marriage for various reasons is harmful , I feel marriage gives much mental and emotional stability .
There are ups and down in life marriage keeps you strong . always in life there will be issues making money getting a better job , that should never be a debate to prolong marriage. Trust in God and one should plunge into it accordingly .
Oopssss!!! Errr! My comment has overflown and a part of it is not added here!!! :(
hahahah!
I was saying in the end that I've talked to much!
What was I saying?
Hmm...I was saying that life is not a perfect romance story and it has its ups and downs.
We should face obstacles with patience. One thing that may seem to be a problem if you get married young is the fact that the youth is less patient than the aged ones. If we understand and detect this fact, we can solve it with more patience and understanding. The youth is less experienced and was under parents shelter,thus may get disappointed facing difficulties. But the young couples and keep love and go on with more patience. Difficulties pass.
What else did I write?!!
Just to wrap it up, getting married when you are young is the best, but you should be wise and careful with whom you're getting married (but don't force yourself, let the flow of life gradually brings to you the best). Love and patience are important. One more thing, don't be too much picky ! Just be careful enough!
Good luck
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Very nice topic and content, dear Dreamy !
Well, to me it's good to get married when you are young, energetic and full of energy.Yet, at any age you can remain young and energetic,but I think successful marriage is one factor in staying healthy and young.
But not to anyone who first comes, you're allowed to marry.You should make a wise decision, yet you shouldn't be too picky! You should consider the most vital factors you need to see in your future spouse and choose. No one is perfect. Marriage is a way to improve and move towards being perfect. So you should never expect to see a flawless person in your life.
Love is a key element in marriage if you define it correctly. Love is not restricted to appearance, though appearance is also important.
I think if you consider all wise factors, there is nothing wrong with getting married in a young age, in twenties. And we should always consider the fact that not always opportunity knocks the door. When you are young, you have more and better opportunities, so make the most of them.
But again I emphasize that love is the most important, though before marriage you may not have an extreme love for your partner. Acceptance and some love leads you to a higher and divine love.So don't be afraid of being too young to get married. The benefits of getting married young prevail problems.
If you take a look around, you can see to what extend the youth have emotional and mental problems. They try to find sexual relationships and they call it love, but they ruin their lives.
They force themselves to live alone and they are proud of it. But deep there they feel lonely.
We are created in two, so we need a soul mate. The sooner we find our soul mate, the better.
Divine Peace is in marriage not in any other kind of relationship.
But we should always be optimistic and not too much picky.This is important.
Our life is not a perfect love and romance story.It has
"It takes two to tango".
Marriage is a very serious institution, which needs to have certain strong columns, like communication, understanding, love, cooperation, support, savings, etc. not only sex, as some people see it.
There is no special age for marriage, but some say that if you marry at a younger age, there will be less difference with your children's age and may enjoy more activities together.
In order to get married, both people should be awared of the meaning of marriage, and all the responsibilities it carries. Unfortunately, many see marriage as a way of leaving the house, and gaining some "independence", others just see it as a paper to be signed, and others as a solution for an unexpected pregnancy. Those marriages are more likely not to succeed. On the other hand, there are people who have been together for many years, as boyfriend and girlfriend, and they get married and last a month or so. Anything could happen, but as I said, it takes two to tango. A marriage implies/involves TWO people, and the two of them must fight/struggle to make things work if they really love each other and are concious of the step they are taking.
Nice voice, Dreamer!
Regarding your question #2, I think it will be fine unless you're too young.
Umm, yeah, marriage is just like a ship on the ocean. Does everyone here agree the wife is the commander who actually take control of the ship? I think it depends.
Wow ... you're a poet now, Brother ... I like it ;)
honestly I want to marry young, but God doesn't allow me yet.
some literature I have ever read, marry young (20-30 years old) more provide opportunities and benefits, especially health and happiness ...
nice topic, thanks
-Nadiyah-
From my opinion we can't say yes it's better to marry young or no. It depends on each person, on the personality, the needs, the actual life...
Some prefere to marry young, simply, not to be alone, or to have children at young age, and many other reasons...
Others like to be free, means no responsabilities, no engagement.
So marriage at young age can succeed if the person is wise and able to face responsabilities .
the importance is that both sides -husb and wife- look at the same direction, and live hands in hands for a happy days.
I know many people who married at a very young age. Some of them were my friends and I can see how they struggle. So if I were to choose i'd rather get married at the age of 25 or so.
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