Hi....
I don’t want to explain what is “Friendship”… coz.. u people definitely be aware of it. So, let me directly go on to the subject…..
“Friend in Need is Friend Indeed”… Agreed….
If our Friend has problems we should try to figure out a way to solve it or just stay by their side.
But when your Friend is refusing to hold your hand when you are extending help, what will u do? Will u take back your hand and still keep stretching ?
To be more specific, I hope you would have read Mr .Stephen’s blog on “People Change”… It was like he was regretting for her Girl Friend’s act, coz she was abusing him for no reason. She was depressed because of her Love Lost.
According to my point of view, I cannot hate my Friend and so cannot withdraw my Friendship… because I am confident on my choice of selecting my Friend, may it be virtual or real.....
But remember, I am not talking about everybody whom we meet and talk friendly… Don’t confuse between Friendly talk with real Friendship.
Do you think we have to back our Friend at all times, even when our Friend is abusing us?
So, what is your choice
- Will you withdraw your friendship? Or
- Keep stretching and wait for your friend?
Comments
Modaway...
Thanks for your comments
And Your Friends are Lucky to hold your hands...
ke ke ke ...yes Bala jan :)" now i get your lovely point :)"
Sima....I think now you got my point...(aftereffects of our chat..hahaha)
Sorry Bala my English is not as well as you :( i Didnt get your comment sorry :( can you Explain me loool
Thank u so much Anele, for correcting my sentences by spending your valuable seconds..(hahahha... i know it would hardly take a second for u correct mine)
Hai Sima... First of all, Thanks for ur comments....
Then Sima, Will that wont mean like, we have not understood our Friend? Friendship builds on Better Understanding... isnt it? Its not a Love by Infatuation...right? If so, there would be some reason behind her/him for stepping back from us.... isnt it? Then, cant we wait for her/him to get relieved from the problem or try to solve her/his problem...??
And, as i mentioned Friend i meant was not hi,bye Friends... so, wont you think over ur view again Sima Dear.......
hmmmm,,first hello Bala from India :) i have to say that i am completely agree with Pishy,,, and this is really related to the situation that our friend have some times we have to leave our friend ,,, i had the same situation,, i gave her space but she changed not cuz of the bad even ..she just was the person that i didnot know her with out any reason and about abuse any one doesnot have this right to abuse you ,, if some one abuse you ,, you have to know that she is not your friend ,,friendship based on respect dear ,, thanks :-*
Bala you are right dear !! :)
Anele.......
I am so glad, cos u have visited my Blog (first one.. !!! )
And have given a lengthy, valuable comment on it...
And u know, its u who made me to write... Yes, your comment on Mr. Stephen's blog on "People change" gave me the idea to write on this concept...so, i know ur choice very well beforehand...hahaha
BTW... Do i need to correct my sentence like this...
**coz.. u people (must) be definitely aware of it.
**If our Friend have problems we should try to figure out a way to solve it or just stay by their side.
**Don’t confuse between a Friendly talk with a real Friendship.
Hei... I dont know more than this... Please correct me, i could be wrong in the above also...
Asmaa...
Great Dear.... Seems you have very few close friends, cos u seems to be choosy... Am i right?
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