this is realite nobody can deny or ignore , I already asked some friends on EC about , they all say i am not in love but the fact that most of people fall in love with friends even they don't see each other in realite ,i want know your opinion about it
do you bellive that love can be real or just illusion and if someone have a real story that happend can share with us
you are right humour , but Ida has already stolen my heart , what can I do now ?? and there are about 2000 km distance ,I am going to be foolish :(
why Ida ??
yes lord you are right , sometimes it work when both of them are honnest to each other and not just try to be another person on net but whatever it so hard to trust on net it take long time to know people well , thnks for yur comment Teacher :)
Well, everything is possible.
I know a couple who met online, visited each other twice a year, and got married and have a child. She is from here, and he is from another country.
There are some people who meet their other half online. But at the same time, it is possible to meet "Jack the ripper", as someone said once. You not always know who is on the other side.
For some people writing is easier than interacting face to face.
I think it is possible to fall in love online, or at least, to feel attracted to someone. Sometimes those relationships work, but some other times, people meet in person and the magic is gone.
So, anything could happen.
I agree with u 100% bob that what i want to people understand becos many of them get hurted after long time in love on net and being so friend and loving then in while they are being hate each other and separate , I think the most important is to keep friendship love forever thnk you so much dear bob your writing always imprssion me
What a great topic DM. We will naturally develop strong attachments with our friends and on a site like this it is even more. We are all scattered around the world in many different situations and yet we all have this in common, we all love these people we see every day and work with on language and communication.
We just have to remember that we do not exclusively own these wonderful friends and that they, just like us are owned a little bit by a lot of friends. This is a beautiful community of friendship, and yes you can call it love too. We have work together to keep it strong and friendly. Already I have seen friends deeply hurt because they felt the one they loved so much did not love them the same.
I think we will be happier if we keep the love for our friends in cyberspace separate from our daily life here on the real earth. Yes you can love someone and wait all day to see if they seem to return your love, but you must realize that they are in a different town or country. They have their own "real life" too and their own "local" friends and families. They also have their own jobs or other things that they must do every day. Maybe they do love you more than just as a friend on the internet.
You must ask yourself:
1. Do I really value this relationship?
2. Am I prepared to ruin it by being; overly possessive, or jealous, or by getting so serious that I frighten my fiend?
3. Am I aware that this person who loves me (or says they do) may feel the same way about other people?
4. Am I so hurt when they get upset at me, or I don't hear from them for a while, because I am deeply in love with them; or am I projecting a beautiful fantasy on the situation in my own head and really they are just my very, very dear friend but not a lover?
We could continue with our real life and live in a different world if it brings happiness to everyone (reminds me of the movie "Avitar" when going through through the computer and avitar the person was so very different). But in that movie there were many bad things that also happened and not all had a happy ending.
Like my dearest friend Karenina has said: because we have been bound to one another.
attention to each other, cared about each other,
supported each other.
just try it you're not online one day only
your friends will surely seek you
It is called love,
there is love in friendship
I can't say it better than that. Be careful with your love and do please understand the difference between LOVE and wonderful friendship love. We are a wonderful community and nobody deserves to be hurt. All of my dearest friends, please know that I love you all and am happy for your progress and deeply thankful for your friendship.
Do not let your hearts get in the way of happiness, please continue to be friends and to help your/our community grow and improve. Love you all :-) even if I don't say so all the time.
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why Ida ??
I know a couple who met online, visited each other twice a year, and got married and have a child. She is from here, and he is from another country.
There are some people who meet their other half online. But at the same time, it is possible to meet "Jack the ripper", as someone said once. You not always know who is on the other side.
For some people writing is easier than interacting face to face.
I think it is possible to fall in love online, or at least, to feel attracted to someone. Sometimes those relationships work, but some other times, people meet in person and the magic is gone.
So, anything could happen.
We just have to remember that we do not exclusively own these wonderful friends and that they, just like us are owned a little bit by a lot of friends. This is a beautiful community of friendship, and yes you can call it love too. We have work together to keep it strong and friendly. Already I have seen friends deeply hurt because they felt the one they loved so much did not love them the same.
I think we will be happier if we keep the love for our friends in cyberspace separate from our daily life here on the real earth. Yes you can love someone and wait all day to see if they seem to return your love, but you must realize that they are in a different town or country. They have their own "real life" too and their own "local" friends and families. They also have their own jobs or other things that they must do every day. Maybe they do love you more than just as a friend on the internet.
You must ask yourself:
1. Do I really value this relationship?
2. Am I prepared to ruin it by being; overly possessive, or jealous, or by getting so serious that I frighten my fiend?
3. Am I aware that this person who loves me (or says they do) may feel the same way about other people?
4. Am I so hurt when they get upset at me, or I don't hear from them for a while, because I am deeply in love with them; or am I projecting a beautiful fantasy on the situation in my own head and really they are just my very, very dear friend but not a lover?
We could continue with our real life and live in a different world if it brings happiness to everyone (reminds me of the movie "Avitar" when going through through the computer and avitar the person was so very different). But in that movie there were many bad things that also happened and not all had a happy ending.
Like my dearest friend Karenina has said:
because we have been bound to one another.
attention to each other, cared about each other,
supported each other.
just try it you're not online one day only
your friends will surely seek you
It is called love,
there is love in friendship
I can't say it better than that. Be careful with your love and do please understand the difference between LOVE and wonderful friendship love. We are a wonderful community and nobody deserves to be hurt. All of my dearest friends, please know that I love you all and am happy for your progress and deeply thankful for your friendship.
Do not let your hearts get in the way of happiness, please continue to be friends and to help your/our community grow and improve. Love you all :-) even if I don't say so all the time.
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