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How does one become a good conversationalist? By having something to say and knowing how to say it. You might say, "I simply have nothing to say to people I don't know very well. I'm shy. When I see people looking at me, I get embarrassed."

To be a good conversationalist,follow these simple rules:

1. Read much. Get ideas from books,magazines,and newspaper. Be informed of the issues of the day.Formulate your own opinion.

2. Learn to listen. Listen to what others say. This is another way to become well informed. Be a good listener. 

3. Learn to utilize conversational gambits. When you meet persons whom you don't know and with whom you have very little in common, utilize conversational gambits. Like sports,movies,books,personalities,activities, etc.

4. Watch your speech. Speak clearly and distinctly;don't mumble.Develop a pleasant, agreeable voice.

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