with a topic IS FASHION IMPORTANT?,

Well Friends we need to knw first what is fashion, it is current tradition that we like to wear our cloths, i like color Friends, and i like to wear them so if it in my cloths that’s good and i feel good about myself, also i am in marketing field so i know what’s latest trends in the market, and i like to buy some fashionable clothes for myself, for outing or party, it actually feel good and makes me confident about myself,

fashion can make you more creative in your everyday life. Of course you’re wondering how fashion could possibly improve someone’s creativity. But if you really think about it, when you are getting dressed in the morning what goes through your mind? No matter what it is it's probably pretty creative and you most likely put some thought into it. No matter if you are trying to look like the most popular women in your work place or if you are trying to look like your favorite celebrity. Now if we were more creative with everything that we do including the way that we dress it could makes us more creative in work/outside. What I have found is that people feel extremely happy when they create something that they like and ends up a success, Of course it will also really give people a lot of self confidence, which is always a good thing. For all of these reasons fashion can promote creativity in everyday life.

In addition, fashion is important in culture and religions. If people were to dress in clothes from their religion more often it could possibly create stronger faith in religion and less people feeling like it is odd to wear things like that. It would create stronger faiths because if people were to dress according to their religion it would be a daily reminder of their faith. And as you have probably noticed people tend to do what they see others doing.

Last but not least fashion can make you look and feel more professional. If you are wearing something that makes you look more professional to a job interview they are more likely to take you seriously and consider you for the job. If people see you and think that you are professional, well kept, and put together than they are more likely to be nice to you. When someone thinks highly of you than someone who thinks that you’re not that great of a person. You will also feel better about yourself and feel like you are professional; therefore you will do better in your work

In finality, fashion is important because it can make you more creative, it is important in culture and religion, and it makes you look and feel more professional. So I think Friends by wearing fashionable cloth you make feel confidence and more attractive, but it should be very conformable to you, that’s more important…..

Love thy self

 Why you must love yourself before you demand others to love you.

Love has different meaning to different person, For Mother Love means to take care of her kids, For Father to Protect their kids, For Siblings to Tease each others, As there are relation so as love change the meaning, u can try to express love by many means some by foods, some by appreciation, some by physically, some by sharing, each way we try to see the nurture the relation with others, in this whole scenario we forget most about us, we never think this way, ever you wonder how we love our self,

It is like knowing your own feeling your yourself, once you know how u feel about yourself , you got to know how wonderful you inside and this will reflect on your relation with others around us,

Don’t stuck in the past event, what happen to you, there are things about your past that you just don't want to celebrate. However, taking everything in a positive stride and tell yourself that everything that happened to me in the past made me the person I am today so I need to embrace and celebrate that past because, without it, I wouldn't be me,

Try to Indulged in the things that make you happy, that inspire you, that send little shivers of delight down your spine, that bring peace, yes, doing so will help recognize the uniqueness that is you and will help you to identify the things you can focus on,

It is ok if you make mistake in the past, but that is the way we learn, that’s is how it take to do correct things, we learn by our past mistake, so never stuck in your past, just flow like it there is more ahead to achieve then you lost in the past, it doesn’t matter who you are, what you did in the past, what you do for a living, try to accept those error and make amendments in them,

If you focus on the past, you do just not love yourself, in the moment. Love yourself by being present, live in the present because to live in the moment is to accept yourself the way you are, even if you are flawed. Who isn't flawed these days? 

Well appreciating oneself is a tough bet but whatever you are, your life and whatever you have in your life is one of the very best ways to cherish and remember that you're lucky to be yourself.

Ever since motion picture come in India, Indian people are quite fascinating regarding movies, if I remember correctly first Indian movie was “Raja Harischandra”  the movie was based on Indian kind Raja Harishchandra, people of India has first time witness of motion picture, from since then we have seen lots of good Indian cinema,

In my childhood there was one essay I used to write called “ Indian Cinema is mirror of society” and I think that line was very correct, earlier movie was based on true event happen in history, like epic movie, mugal e azam, pyasa, kagaj ke phool, guide, sholay, and so on, some of the movie was action, romantic, comedy, war, religious, and many more, movie can be based on true event , fiction or non-fiction.

There are surely have effect of movie in people of India, people of all age has good taste of movie, they want to feel their emotion through hero of movie, they like to fight crime, they like to laugh, they like to love, they like to sing, dance, they like to be part of movie as some character, people like to touch the sole of movie by having same character as they are in life.

I think learning is two way process, and movie is great way to tell people about your idea, your stories, your message to society, it is entertaining as well as effective way to deliver your thoughts, while some story came from common people, Some are for given message to society.

In recent year we have seen drastic change in Indian cinema, we have seen movie which are out of trends, LAGAAN, MANGAL PANDE, SWADESH,RANG DE BASANTI, TAARE ZAMEEN PAR, DIL CHAHTA  HAI, SHOOL, BLACK and so on..

They give inspiration to the youth, to the society as a whole, Lagaan give us insight about how cricket that is so popular come to india and infuse in here,

Mangal pande give us idea how our country has initial revolution explotion towards british,

Swadesh shake us the soul of migrate people of india to do some bit for its country,

Rang de basanti give us an excuse to be a part of change something good,

Taare zameen par teaches us to make every child special, to have faith in them , to explore the possibility of expression,

Dil chata hai give us joy of youthness, freedom, relation , friends, family, and to find love at last,

And so on, now I think the parallel cinema is also working super to bring us more burning issue, of society, through it presentation, some movie are commercially success some are not, but people look it them to learn from it, indeed cinema has great way to deliver important message to society specially youth, because youth are our future. And to best way to give right direction to them is to give them good dream to watch. Which they can make them come true…

Movies are created to provide refreshment and recreation to people. Not only for recreation, they create awareness about happenings in our surroundings. But now a days movies had a great impact on not only youth but also on children. Impact mainly depends on us, any movie will have bad and good and it is ourselves should able to distinguish between them. If we take positive things in a movie we definitely have a positive impact.

To educate, inspire and inform children and families through engaging, entertaining and relevant methods. The youth of today are the future of tomorrow. And with the movie and live performance we can teach them about hope, morals and values.

When mother heard the first voice of her baby with intence labour pain, that’s sound is nector to her ear, I don’t think any sound  can match the depth of emotion, the mix of feeling, the feeling that can not describe in word, like in womb child can hear the sound of mother heart beat, that’s the only sound one child could hear while in sensing the presence of warmth of fluid, it is nicely feeling to be safe forever.

While we grow up we listen lots of sound, some natural, some man made, that we find interesting, we used to go to sleep while listeing to our parents lull by, we like to stare our parent talking to us, we try to talk back but what we can do it to pout our lips, and omitting some weird sound that our parent like very much, it is mother sound that we feel safe all our life, somewhere I read, and that’s I feel so.

Today I like to hear the sound of rail pelting down to roof of my home, I like the sound of breeze that flown to my room, the sound of cricket cracking in the night, that’s so soothing I can hear the sound of silence where I can hear my heartbeat beating so rythematically, I almost forget where am I, it’s like knowing we are incredible masterpiece of mother nature,

If you talk about music as a song,  I am bit of bias toward lyrics, lyrics is the soul of music, if it isn’t matching the music, it is not worth, we like to sing our prayers  that used to be so catchy we almost lost while we sang, then we rite our sloka in Sanskrit, I bealive in sloka and its magical healing power, I still rite some sloka daily, lilke gayatri mantra, some ganesha, mahalaxmi, saraswati sloka, hanuman chalisa is my faviourite I like to rite daily, or whenever I find some dube of myself.

I find old song very relaxing and soothing as they have some meaning and sense of taste, I like to listen them most often, new song is also quite good as expected but the overuse of instrument sound find me disturbing while I see some traditional folk music, sufi music, and gazal very amusing and good way to relax both mind and soul, on weekend I like to play early 90’s, song even 50’s and 60’s song very catchy and interesting.

I usually sleep very early, but sometime when I find myself difficult to sleep, I like to play some soothing and calming song which did some magic and make me relax, and I sleeping very calmly,

Some party mix is also good, which again I like to play as occasation come, some goodtime friends come to home for party, or some cheesy mood to play naughty govinda karishama songs, which were very classy and can switch your mood to dance and playful.

Altogether I find music, good sound track make my life easy to relate some old memory, to create good memory, to celebrate, to have good time with friends and family, now it is like we like to be nostalgic some time with music some song, which makes us feel good and let people feel good about them.

Marriage is institute, it is institute of love, institute of faith, institute to respect, institute of sharing memories and experience, I heard this line many a time, and as I am in late 20’s, I can feel it, it is a commitment of two people to live in together, to share their life, their joy, their happiness, it is like sharing with other what you have experience till now.

You know people get evolve by time, by the time you reach youth you are to conscious about yourself, you see yourself in mirror and probably admire your beauty and youth, we all do, it is natural, what evolve is when you are in a relation and you believe in that relation, what you see next time in mirror is not your only youth and beauty, but the person admiration that he or she given you anyway, you try to see through her or his eyes, you know how other person like or dislike more then you know yourself, that make us really especial toward each other,

I am not going to talk about love marriage or arrange, but about how two people come together to decide to live with each other for the rest of their lives, some may think before other may not, but all they expect to have faith in them, so that they can start to understand each other, it is journey that both person has to take, some might find it difficult, while some easy, but each road has its share of love, happiness, laugh, wet eyes, emotion, bitterness, fight.

It’s a connection of heart that both people feel toward each other, some may find early, some takes time to feel the soul of other person, but as they do they know that this is what they were looking for so long and finally they appreciate the relation of marriage, marriage is a form of social integration,

While in bachelor you like to do things with your style. But as you enter in relation or marriage you tend to find way to do stuff with her or his style, some time with your wish sometime not, but you try to make thing happen as this may please other to appreciate the relation more that your personal comfort. To the extent that spouses have different skills, preferences, or abilities, marriage allows each to concentrate on those in which he or she has a relative advantage

In marriage you find love that most people aspire, they like to love and be loved this makes them feel good about himself or herself which trigger their belief system make them aware about environment and ready to face the challenge life give it to them,

Sometime marriage need some level of sacrifices that we need to do, like our priority, our like dislike, our space, our time, this small adjustment make married people tolerable to the situation, they feel uncomfortable if they were unmarried, they give them some way to move ahead in life, to do something meaning full in life with our soul mate, with someone we can share our joy, our passion, our tear, our laugh.

Marriage is all about sharing and caring, if you dare to share and if you like to care, marriage is for you, this is institute which taught you many thing, so try to be a good student, and learn the lesson life teaches you, good or bad, it doesn’t matter, what matter is your faith and your believe in your spouse.

We are living in such a world where now both of gender have equal right, right to live, right to talk, right to education, right to earn bread and butter as most of men do for his family, now as women are also has the capability and power to handle almost every task as men claim to handle himself and mostly dominate by men only, like military, space science, train, bus rail driver and much more.. The list is vast,

                        As women nature is to love, share and care, now women can have the ability to switch role with men, like to protect, to earn bread and butter for her family, to do job in foreign land own her own, she is now almost catching up every role we put her in, like in traditional family she can play a role of housewife very well as well as in modern family she can be bread earner,

                        By the nature she has boon to complete all kind of work, whether it be mother, wife, daughter, or working women, she can do all kind work without any stain in her forehead, now as we are talking about working women, she has most difficult multiple role to play in her daily life, like to be a wife of her husband in her home, mother of child, daughter in law of her in laws, and working lady in office hour, in between she has to do lots of chores of her home for her and for others around her, as most of people depend on her for their needs,

                        She has to keep balance between her personal as well as professional life, and that she does selflessly, like in India most women prefer to cook themselves for their loved one, they like to do all home chores timely if they have outdoor work, also they have to reach office in time so they can perform given task in time,

                        In the evening they reach home again without resting they ready to cook and do chore once again for the sake of their family, without complain they do happily, feed their family, play with child, help them to complete their homework, and finally help them to sleep, after that she go to bed. While keeping in mind to start all over for new day,

                        It is sad they find very little time for self, for their hobbies, their passion, working women devote their life to family, and for their betterment, they has different role to play in her life, and she do it so perfectly, I sometime wonder, how they able to manage so much without any error, we all should respect her for her sacrifice in so many thing they can do it for self but for the sake of her family they didn’t do, it is remarkable to find life of working women that she live so many life’s in just one mere live we all human get.

Despite all this Indian working women get all fame in around the world through her work, aishwarya rai, lata mangesgkar, Mrs pratibha patil, kalpana chawala, sushma swrajya, sunidhi chouhan are some of working women that they did excellent work in their field, this remind us to abstain from female foeticide and to let them touch the limitless sky with their work and make us feel proud, they are the future for our beautiful fearless society that we can form.

And in the end, I like to add one more thing, she live for others, so respect her, love her, and care her feeling for betterment of family and society…

We the people get evolve in millions of years or our transformation. We were alone then we form groups, family, and society. Things get well, and we come to this age where we have almost thing that human ever imagine.

But as we now say as you sow so shall you reap, that line always strike me, and I think this imply to all human being action, because whatever you do, good or bad, it is result is going to come back in terms of good return or bad return, for sweet and sound fruit we need to work hard, otherwise if you waited for good result without taking effort, you only going to get prickly thorn, things will be much easier if you know how to deal with, it is two way process the way you give input in your life, life give you equal output,

I do believe in karma, as Krishna taught us in shreemad bhagwat geeta, we all are bound to do our karma, they result depend whether you do good or bad karma, though I did not read shreemad bhagwat geeta thoroughly, I read its quotes which I find very interestingly and want to share with you..

“No one who does good work will ever come to a bad end, either here or in the world to come” 

“It is better to live your own destiny imperfectly than to live an imitation of somebody else's life with perfection.” 

“From food come forth beings; from rain food is produced; from sacrifice arises rain, and sacrifice is born of action.”

These lines can describe fully that man is bound to his own action and his action decides his destiny

We should not rely on our luck our fate our destiny so much we neglect all our important work, remember that “FORTUNE FAVOR THE BRAVE” and destiny is not a matter of chance, it is matter of choice, it is not a thing to be waited for, it is thing to be achieved,

So believe in yourself do what best interest in you and your family, you can create with your hand and you can destroy, try to be a creator of you fortune destiny,  it is only you that has to compete with to be superior, things will get evolve around you when do good karma with good intention. Ultimately it is going to come back to us as good or bad.

But we are human, and human is not machine, we tend to make error, but to recognize them and make corrective action make us more productive rather than repeating those mistake again and again. Try to be aware of you karma, makes us believe in ourselves make us fortunate to do thing which are in human control and that are not. Things that are not in our control we cannot fight with them but which are in our control we can make do miracle with them.

Man is superior because only he can create his own destiny. He is the architect of his own future unlike any other being, this being the greatest blessing for him. 

Hobbies as a means of happiness.

Life is simple, you born, you grow, you age, and you die. by the time you able to perceive the world around you, you need something to cheer you up, When you young you like to talk alone, like to repeat mothers words like thousand times, you see, you listen, you jabber like some puppet, that’s how you become grown person,

By the time you three you know you’re like and dislike, you know what makes you happy, what interest you, you like to do more often you know sound interesting, and that’s become your hobbies, things change and you grow up you make friends, you like to talk to them while in school, when you came home you share things with your parents, your sibling.

You create you small world around you, in which you like to do thing, like playing with friends you family, like to wonder aimlessly, join some group of friends to play, to talk, to share,

Same way if I talk about my hobbies, I had wonderful time in childhood, we had joint family, we has lots of brother sister, all age group, we form a group, and every noon and evening we used to play like hell, we play all sort of game you can imagine, things were much easy, and we all grow up, like to pursue in career I move to another city for further study.

Now if I say about my hobbies, I must say I like to wonder around very much, without any reason, just like something is unknown and I am the explorer, I don’t know what I have to search but I know something is there to explore.

I like sharing my time with my friends, whenever we had chance we like to meet and have good time, having dinner, party, playing video games, just sharing our collage time goof up, and like to hang around, we had really good time in our collage and we  like to cherish those moment by just recalling the moment. We like to do lots of stuff together like listening to music, watching movie.

Last year we go to goa for our friends bachelor party, we really had blast there, we explore beaches, sand, serene water, we did water sports, play football, volleyball, click lots of picture for memories, had wonder full dine there, we all like to eat different cuisine, we eat veg, non veg, we drink beer have chill there, it was like time still stand there and we like to stay there as long as possible, 

And last Saturday we went to imagica, theme park it was in khapoli between Mumbai and pune, it has all fun ride,  6D movie show, theme park for whole family, we spend whole day carefree, have lunch dinner together, they are like family to me, we don’t have to pretend who we are, we can be us, this is very good feeling when we together, we like to tease each other, pulling lags, make fun of each one, still we don’t mind, because we know what’s our strength and weakness.

That’s pretty much of me, apart from these I like to write, sing a song, listening to music, esp gazal and old song, I find very soothing and meaningful , also close to my heart.

I like to click picture of nature, walk to life, people, I like to edit them and work on them.

I like watching rain, I like to walk in the rain, I like to cook and do cooking on weekend, I like to dance not professionally but like to dance on my own.

Now as a professional we don’t really get much time to look after our hobbies but whatever time we get we try to encash as much as possible.