In my opinion, it will not detract from our inportance,if the aid of the others helps us to reach what/where we are now , and it's wrong to think for  doing everything without the help of the others,  and being snooty for asking that , we make all this just when we haven't a great confidence in ourselves , means when we are really weak ............. but when we are strong we never feel in this .

When we get to a certain level of ability ,we will receive the help of the others with spirit of gratitude and joy , thanks for what gave us of help ,  joy that there is who believes in what we believe ......he will share with us the effort and  hardship .... i think the joy with sensory response is Freewheeling joy

p.s : Very special thank to Free Will , who always follows my comments and my writting  and corrects it , really it is great work for me .

living a double life ... !! is it possible to achieve .....?

living a double life means to win compound of our single age , win it fact not just illusion ,

when we live just for ourselves , life seems very short , expire at the end of our limited life , but when we live for the others ,and for idea our life seems so deeper , it begins from where the humanity began and spread after our death...when we imagine our lives like this we redouble our feeling into our hours , our days , and our moments , and like what they say : "life not a number of years but counting of feelings".  life it is not any thing else ,it is just human feeling into life .

we live a double life when we live for the others , and as much as we redouble our sense with others , we redouble our sense with life , and finaly we redouble all this life.

the birthday of the prophet MUHAMMAD peace be upon him , this is what we call in algeria Mouled

we are the muslims , we should celebrate his birthday Because he is who illuminates our path

we are the muslims , we have to  apply islam on the ground  , And to be the followers of our Holy Prophet peace be upon him,  This happens when we  inspire  his tolerance, and  his acceptance of others, and his kind treated  with everyone.

peace be upon him

*i would like to say for the muslims and not muslims happy mouled*

Open your heart

Open your heart to the life

Life is  wide ,  beautiful if you look at it favorably and Beauty

Then, Open your heart to  people

People are good if you treated them with serenity

Then , Open your heart to work

The work will give you the activity and movement, independent of means for not asking people

If you  liked your business  it will love you, and if you gave  , it will give you

Then ,Open your heart to hope

Hope is everywhere, with it we live, and with it life goes on

Then , Open your heart to yourself

You are  witty man .. Active .. Intelligent .. Philanthropist .. Loving people

And will remain so if you open your heart to yourself

And with your spirit humor to make others happy

Open your heart

The key of  your heart with you, you can see the  beautiful of the world

And  the light shining

so Open your heart , your soul , your mind, life will  open its doors to you  ..

hafida 

know......................................................That tomorrow will be better

And events.........................................................................Will be most beautiful

And the smile.......................................................................... will Shine coolest

Every wishlist ...........................................................................Will be achieved

All dreams ...................................................................................... sprout roses

With His permission and thanks .................................................. And with  His great generosity

It Will be all ...............................................................And even more joy

I don’t  ...........................................................................  know the unseen

But I have just  ......................................................... a good conjecturing in ALLAH 

Is there anyone  in your  life feels in you  , feels whatever you feel it , understands your way and your words in its reality , believes it  without taken into bad thinking?

Did you meet a  person who understands you without talking to him ,Translates your feelings into words to know what you need and what you want ?

Estimated when you  going through a difficult curves in life , when  you feel in an unstable state  ,stands with you with  sincere and noble feelings, follows you in sorrow and joy events to disarm and remove your tears ,Even if  it necessary to take them from you, implants smile on your lips , reacts with you without talking Or asking  him?

What a wonderful feeling and a sense of a beautiful, if you  find such person , you will feel with him the taste and beauty of the life .

Precious treasure  always looking for it , wish to find it , and we need it with us forever , maybe we find it and maybe not .

Did you find who him ?

There at least 5 people in this world love you, to the point They're willing to do anything for you

 The only reason why someone doesn't love you for being  Unable to become just like you ..

your Smile can bring happiness to those around you, even if they were not loved you..

You mean a lot to someone

Because of you there's one person at least enjoy with his life

You are very special

When you think that the world has darkened in your face. Look around you and to yourself .. In the mirror to find dark glasses  based on your nose

When you  think that you will not get anything you want, the strongest possibility ... you will not get it. But if you believe in yourself, probably sooner
Or later, you will get it ....

which i liked :

O, never say that I was false of heart,
Though absence seem'd my flame to qualify.
As easy might I from myself depart
As from my soul, which in thy breast doth lie:
That is my home of love: if I have ranged,
Like him that travels I return again,
Just to the time, not with the time exchanged,
So that myself bring water for my stain.
Never believe, though in my nature reign'd
All frailties that besiege all kinds of blood,
That it could so preposterously be stain'd,
To leave for nothing all thy sum of good;
For nothing this wide universe I call,
Save thou, my rose; in it thou art my all.

No longer mourn for me when I am dead
Then you shall hear the surly sullen bell
Give warning to the world that I am fled
From this vile world, with vilest worms to dwell:
Nay, if you read this line, remember not
The hand that writ it; for I love you so
That I in your sweet thoughts would be forgot
If thinking on me then should make you woe.
O, if, I say, you look upon this verse
When I perhaps compounded am with clay,
Do not so much as my poor name rehearse.
But let your love even with my life decay,
Lest the wise world should look into your moan
And mock you with me after I am gone.

All that glitters is not gold;
Often have you heard that told:
Many a man his life hath sold
But my outside to behold

The fire seven times tried this:
Seven times tried that judgment is,
That did never choose amiss.
Some there be that shadows kiss;
Such have but a shadow's bliss:
There be fools alive, I wis,
Silver'd o'er; and so was this.
Take what wife you will to bed,
I will ever be your head:
So be gone: you are sped.

Tell me where is fancy bred,
Or in the heart or in the head?
How begot, how nourished?
Reply, reply.
It is engender'd in the eyes,
With gazing fed; and fancy dies
In the cradle, where it lies.
Let us all ring fancy's knell;
I'll begin it – Ding, dong, bell.
Ding, dong, bell.


How like a winter hath my absence been
from thee, the pleasure of the fleeting year!
What freezings have I felt, what dark days seen!
What old December's bareness every where!
And yet this time removed was summer's time,
The teeming autumn, big with rich increase,
Bearing the wanton burden of the prime,
Like widow'd wombs after their lords' decease
Yet this abundant issue seem'd to me
But hope of orphans and unfather'd fruit;
For summer and hi pleasures wait on thee,
And, thou away, the very birds are mute;
Or, if they sing, 'tis with so dull a cheer
That leaves look pale, dreading the winter's near.

"copied"

What is Eid al-Adha?

At the end of the Hajj (annual pilgrimage to Mecca), Muslims throughout the world celebrate the holiday of Eid al-Adha (Festival of Sacrifice).

What does Eid al-Adha commemorate?

During the Hajj, Muslims remember and commemorate the trials and triumphs of the Prophet Abraham. The Qur'an describes Abraham as follows:

"Surely Abraham was an example, obedient to Allah, by nature upright, and he was not of the polytheists. He was grateful for Our bounties. We chose him and guided him unto a right path. We gave him good in this world, and in the next he will most surely be among the righteous." (Qur'an 16:120-121)

One of Abraham's main trials was to face the command of Allah to kill his only son. Upon hearing this command, he prepared to submit to Allah's will. When he was all prepared to do it, Allah revealed to him that his "sacrifice" had already been fulfilled. He had shown that his love for his Lord superceded all others, that he would lay down his own life or the lives of those dear to him in order to submit to God.

Why do Muslims sacrifice an animal on this day?

During the celebration of Eid al-Adha, Muslims commemorate and remember Abraham's trials, by themselves slaughtering an animal such as a sheep, camel, or goat. This action is very often misunderstood by those outside the faith.

Allah has given us power over animals and allowed us to eat meat, but only if we pronounce His name at the solemn act of taking life. Muslims slaughter animals in the same way throughout the year. By saying the name of Allah at the time of slaughter, we are reminded that life is sacred.

The meat from the sacrifice of Eid al-Adha is mostly given away to others. One-third is eaten by immediate family and relatives, one-third is given away to friends, and one-third is donated to the poor. The act symbolizes our willingness to give up things that are of benefit to us or close to our hearts, in order to follow Allah's commands. It also symbolizes our willingness to give up some of our own bounties, in order to strengthen ties of friendship and help those who are in need. We recognize that all blessings come from Allah, and we should open our hearts and share with others.

It is very important to understand that the sacrifice itself, as practiced by Muslims, has nothing to do with atoning for our sins or using the blood to wash ourselves from sin. This is a misunderstanding by those of previous generations: "It is not their meat nor their blood that reaches Allah; it is your piety that reaches Him." (Qur'an 22:37)

The symbolism is in the attitude - a willingness to make sacrifices in our lives in order to stay on the Straight Path. Each of us makes small sacrifices, giving up things that are fun or important to us. A true Muslim, one who submits his or herself completely to the Lord, is willing to follow Allah's commands completely and obediently. It is this strength of heart, purity in faith, and willing obedience that our Lord desires from us.

What else do Muslims do to celebrate the holiday?

On the first morning of Eid al-Adha, Muslims around the world attend morning prayers at their local mosques. Prayers are followed by visits with family and friends, and the exchange of greetings and gifts. At some point, members of the family will visit a local farm or otherwise will make arrangements for the slaughter of an animal. The meat is distributed during the days of the holiday or shortly thereafter.

What a beautiful the friendship ,best life with friends ,miserable life without a sincere friendship

The friendship derived from honesty: every one believe in his love for his friend

friendship  is participate in through thick and thin,  give and do. True friend is who always be with his friend in  distress time,  and not leave him when he needs.

But does everyone fit friend?
So we must improve friendly choice, because friend is the mirror of his friend, if we do not improve selection friends ,friendship turned to enmity.

The old saying :”Tell me who is your friend , i tell you who you are”

now , leave you to express your friendships

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ok , i will be the first one

hafida

why don't be like water ??

don’t you see, that it doesn ‘t discriminate when falling between the palaces of the rich and the huts of the poor !! .. Between the gardens of the rich and fields of the poor

supple

it flows in containers of different shapes and sizes and colors ,changes its  shape .. But .. Without changing its composition

pure

Don't you see, that the sea Immaculate ,  nothing untroubled  if I threw a stone ....  its surface will change for short time  .. But soon will return to what it was

Wise

Don't you see, that if it is very hot, evaporates and Goes towards the sky, and when the weather is cool , condenses and returns to earth in rain drops

Patient

Don't you see, how rushes waves toward the rocks, one by one ,day by day ,week by week , century after century, until leaves their mark in a deaf rock

Friendly

Don't you see ,how nice is it, that dew who appears every morning, flirts with the green leaves of the plant ,and  being among the morning breeze lightly

Modest

Don't you see ,that it comes down from the height of the sky, above the clouds and disappears in the depths of the earth