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How to Find Forgiveness with a Friend

Everybody has friends and enemies. The enemies will always be someone who doesn't like you for whatever reason they can find. But sometimes you and your friend got in a big argument about something. Now your friend "hates" you. Well if they are your friend they will find a way to forgive you. There is five things you have to do if you want your friend to forgive you.
First, let some time pass. Allow your friend to cool off and think about what happened. Second, have a long talk together. Talk to the person you wish forgiveness from and see if you both can figure out what went wrong. Third, write a letter or message. If your friend answers you, this means that they have calmed down and want to talk to you. Be friendly. Don't bring up the subject of why your friend is mad at you in the first place. Talk casually, simple things like “What are you doing?”. Fourth, grab the chance to ease into a conversation about the troubles between you. Wait for the opportune moment. It’s better if they mention it first, but if they don't, you will have to. Talk about what is true about the situation. The last, ask with sincerity. Sometimes all it takes is a bit of asking. When you want forgiveness to your friend, talk with sincerity. Examples: "I didn't realize that you were sensitive about that issue” or “I will think more before opening my mouth and be more careful of your sensitivities."
This maybe not work all the time, sometimes people honestly don't like you. If your efforts are rejected don't give up for a while and maybe try again later. Good luck. Let’s try to forgive someone’s mistakes.

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Daughter to Mother

I thought I have lived long enough. But I’m still only twenty one. I always wanted to be your perfect daughter. But I already showed my obstinacy. I don’t know much about life yet. So, I still have a lot things that I want to find out. But mom always repeats herself and close my heart even tighter.

“Go study!” I know that’s important too

“Work hard!” I’m trying too

“Love!” But I don’t want to get hurt anymore

Let me live my own life. Everytime I made mistakes. Your heart is like being hammer on. But you still patch my clothes with your punctured heart and hands. You would listen to me and say “It’s okay”. But do you know that my heart is still not at peace? You would hug me although I hateable.

I will promise I will be better, dear mom…

I don’t need words to know that you love me more than anyone. So, I can confidently say that my dream is to be a great mother like you and making you happy.

I’m sorry, mom…

Thank you, mom…

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My Old Friend

I'm reading a letter from my old friend now. She sent the letter yesterday. I'm very happy right now. She says that she misses hanging out with me. Oh... I miss her too. Our friendship has lasted six years so far. I will write a letter for her too. I was wondering if she reads my letter.

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