dilemma - a situation in which a difficult choice has to be made between two or more unfavorable or undesirable alternatives.

Sometimes we may find ourselves in a dilemma where we are "damned if we do and damned if we don't."  We cannot solve such dilemmas by choosing a side because both paths lead to suffering. Perhaps, the only way out is to transform our perspective to a place where the dilemma no longer exists.  

Q. Is it possible? Have you seen yourself in that situation?