There is a smart Russian proverb that reads:"If you want to loose a friend, lend him 100 dollars". In the context of this discussion I would paraphrase it as following: "If you want to loose a friend, tell him what you think about him but do it honestly".
I have a question. How can we judge others if we can't honestly judge ourselves? Who gave us such right? We can and have to control people's behavior at public places like EC but we have no rights to judge any human being as a personality.
Let's have a short excurs into history. Alexander, the Great. What was he: the greatest person of the ancient world, the greatest conqueror, the greatest lover or a gay? He was all those. So, how to judge him? My friends, it depends on your personal mentality, on your understanding of life.
Answering to Salem's question I would say that we can't judge others. We are not Gods
What you are suggesting that must be your own pint of view but to gauge some thing there should be some standards / criteria against which that should be judged. otherwise it would be humilation one may feel like that.
Dear Adjaz! I am always ready to explain things. Honestly, I always explain my students what this or that word mean. Salem used two words that are not generally accepted by intelligent people . A "bitch" is a whore, a woman who makes sex with everyone. "Fuck" is a verb to decribe her actions.
That is why I think, we shouldn't use such slang in discussions
first of all,thanks for reminding me about some things that sometimes iam in hurry to read or even notice but i did not mean to insult others by using or adding things which are really unacceptable.
Thanks tany for comments, but question is still there what should we do whrnaden judging people.
Let me explain it as
1. are we asked to judge the people
Once i had a discussion with my grandfather, he asked how many people were on earth, i told him billions of people, he said no only one and half, that was astonishing for me how come only one and half people. He said every one assuems himself one complete person and considers other half of his caliber so only one and half. This depitcs if someone asked to judge somone what he would do, he would evaluate others on his own criteria rather than what is the generally accepted standard for particulat trait of personality.
Salem, if you have started a discussion in my group, I have to say that dirty slang is not accepted here! By no means! Either you edit your text, or anyone will reply
This is ijaz a newcomer to this group, as fas as the topic which is being discusussed, i would say we should explain the issues in different scenerios rather commenting directly about issue, which otherwise embarrase others.
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There is a smart Russian proverb that reads:"If you want to loose a friend, lend him 100 dollars". In the context of this discussion I would paraphrase it as following: "If you want to loose a friend, tell him what you think about him but do it honestly".
I have a question. How can we judge others if we can't honestly judge ourselves? Who gave us such right? We can and have to control people's behavior at public places like EC but we have no rights to judge any human being as a personality.
Let's have a short excurs into history. Alexander, the Great. What was he: the greatest person of the ancient world, the greatest conqueror, the greatest lover or a gay? He was all those. So, how to judge him? My friends, it depends on your personal mentality, on your understanding of life.
Answering to Salem's question I would say that we can't judge others. We are not Gods
What you are suggesting that must be your own pint of view but to gauge some thing there should be some standards / criteria against which that should be judged. otherwise it would be humilation one may feel like that.
What should be that standards ?
Dear Adjaz! I am always ready to explain things. Honestly, I always explain my students what this or that word mean. Salem used two words that are not generally accepted by intelligent people . A "bitch" is a whore, a woman who makes sex with everyone. "Fuck" is a verb to decribe her actions.
That is why I think, we shouldn't use such slang in discussions
Hi
first of all,thanks for reminding me about some things that sometimes iam in hurry to read or even notice but i did not mean to insult others by using or adding things which are really unacceptable.
Thanks tany for comments, but question is still there what should we do whrnaden judging people.
Let me explain it as
1. are we asked to judge the people
Once i had a discussion with my grandfather, he asked how many people were on earth, i told him billions of people, he said no only one and half, that was astonishing for me how come only one and half people. He said every one assuems himself one complete person and considers other half of his caliber so only one and half. This depitcs if someone asked to judge somone what he would do, he would evaluate others on his own criteria rather than what is the generally accepted standard for particulat trait of personality.
Please comment on idea as well language.
Regards
ijaz
Salem, if you have started a discussion in my group, I have to say that dirty slang is not accepted here! By no means! Either you edit your text, or anyone will reply
Hi,
This is ijaz a newcomer to this group, as fas as the topic which is being discusussed, i would say we should explain the issues in different scenerios rather commenting directly about issue, which otherwise embarrase others.
ijaz