It's sometimes difficult to say "No" because your fear of hurt the others.So it's so useful to learn the art of saying "No".These tips will help you:* First and foremost keep it simple. Don’t make up excuses or lie. Just tell the truth. Ex: “I think you’re kids are great, but they are too much of a handful for me to handle. Sorry.”*Be kind and gracious. If you were invited to an event, thank them first and foremost for inviting you and thinking of you, but politely decline. Ex: “Thank you so much for the lovely invite, but unfortunately I’m going to have to pass this time.”*Don’t try to take on every project, every errand, or favor for others. You don’t want to be overwhelmed or end up feeling bitter towards others. Let them know that you would really like to help them, but simply can’t at this moment. Ex: “I don’t want to tell you yes, then have to let you down.” “Sorry, but I’ve got enough on my plate as it is.”*It’s perfectly fine to say no to anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. Even if other people don’t understand the big deal, simply tell them straight up that you’d feel really uncomfortable and ask them to respect your wishes. Ex: “I’m sorry but I just don’t feel comfortable doing this. I am going to have to decline.”*If someone becomes pushy, stay strong. Don’t get upset or angry. In a calm voice tell them you’re sorry, but again you’re going to have to say no, and there is no way you can tell them yes. Be clear that no means no, and then move on to a different topic.
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Hi Saso,
yes it's so difficult to say no especially for people whom you are appreciated and respect.So you can use these tips to help you say no.Thanks alot for your comment.
Kamel
Saso said:
Hello kamel ,
Saying NO is hard alot of times , we can face fears and worries about others feelings .. I think that we always should take care of the situation and if we can say that freely ..
Saying NO is hard alot of times , we can face fears and worries about others feelings .. I think that we always should take care of the situation and if we can say that freely ..
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Thanks for this addition.I think after that it will be so easy to say no.Have a nice time.
Kamel
yes it's so difficult to say no especially for people whom you are appreciated and respect.So you can use these tips to help you say no.Thanks alot for your comment.
Kamel
Saso said:
You are welcome.I wish you found them helpful.Thanks a lot for your nice comment.
Kamel
Emilie said:
Saying NO is hard alot of times , we can face fears and worries about others feelings .. I think that we always should take care of the situation and if we can say that freely ..
Thanx friend .. very interesting
Thanks alot for this nice topic..It is good to know when to say no and how..Very intersting...Thanks alot..Have a nice day.
Emilie