Love........
only 4 digits but it can hurt someone, it can make someone happy, it can make a strong man become very weak. It can make a man crying... If you have experience with this magic word, pls tell to us how to control so we can be happy...........
success for you all !
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I think that we cannot define what love is at words. We only can feel love. I also cannot know why I fall in love with someone. I only know I fallen in love. If I know why I love someone, it may be not a true love, maybe I only like her (my reason is stronger than my emotion). Love is blindness on my opinion. ^^
Panggih Amiyoso said:
Thanks for your very useful comment. So for everyone can define a love (falling in love to someone).
My opinion : a love is a feeling from insight of deep heart which can come gradually or suddenly. We can feel exactly what we feel when we love to someone. Our body also feel different on the movement of heart, feeling happy on the mind and expressively on the face.
Now we go to what is the reason or why we love to someone. The reason has to be very strong why we love to someone. Not trying or playing with love, don't play a fire if we don't want to be burnt. but serious love is to avoid hurt each other. Not only men but some girls sometimes also play fire of love. I have experience 2 times on the 1st love and on the forth love, she/they had other boyfriend, yeah...poor me. But it was OK. This part of life which i had to pass. it makes me strong and strong because of love. In very deep meaning : I have to be happy with who had broken my heart. Because of she/them make me knowing/understand what is a love. Love has to understand each other. Love has to be able to accept more and less from her/him.
Please anyone can say anything about love, story love which can be used for motivating our life. Success for you all and thanks for joining to this topic.
Ha ha ha....very nice from Pham Trang. Partly I agree with you. We have to make strong reason than emotion. If this theory can be applied to the field (in love process) then it is nice. But take a note, we don't have any formula like number : 1+1 is 2. In here, Vladimir is also true. We get difficult to control love. But the difficulty doesn't mean we can't.
So we need patient value when we face him or her. We have to understand each other, almost impossible to merger 2H+2H (2 heads and 2 hearts). Remember, even head and heart is in body, sometimes it's also different.
So the key is to respect each other.
Hi all, please write, tell us about your experience. Experience can become a good teacher.
I wish you will have a true love in your life. Also I wish you never get any pains in love.
love is for spiritual and physical, i think.
If we love someone the we feel happy in our life (spiritual), in very detail, our heart is happy.
But also we want to have someone as physical, not only heart. Heart is important but physical is also same important. Both must be balance. For example, if we love someone then we will not allow him/her to close with somebody else.
Hi Nguyen Trang,
Tks for your 1st love story. We can see that love come gradually. Step by step. But sometimes love can come suddenly.
For all, discussions are still opened, please write more about your story.
Super thanks.
I want to share about my first love, when I was 17. I took part in a Taekwondo club in my hometown, he was my teacher. The first time, i dont care anything about him but I knew him like to talk with me. After 2 months, He told to his friend that he fell in love with me, and the his friend spoke to many people. All of my class knew this event, I felt very ambarrass and quiet angry. I hate him, I refused to talk with him. My group like him and encouraged me to come with him. He was a handsome boy, very kind and funny, at that time he only was 18. I told him that I had to study hard, I didn't want to have any relationship. However, he still beside me in silent but downhearted. On his birthday, I came to his house. He had known that I like rose so much, he decorated his house with 2 roses - it was so wonderful, he also prepared every sweet that I like, every color in his room. I met his mother, I knew she was very friendly, good-natural and so beautiful. I like her, so gradually I loved him that I didn't know. That year, he failed an important examination. I was so sad and I supposed that because of me. I want to share with him but I didn't have enough brave, I just remembered him deeply. Then a long time I didn't meet him, I thought about him in my dream, I wish I would express my feeling to him, I wish I could hold his hand any manythings ...
I don't meet him anymore...
Now, I have a family, my family was very happy but sometimes, some seconds I remember him and my first love. It is so sweet in regret, longingly remember.
Hi Steven, your explanation is ok. Thanks for joining to this topic.
I still hope there are some stories from 1st love, 2nd love, ...which bringing you become stronger even in the beginning we look so weak because of love.
Please write here........ This topic has 3 points :
1. for studying english
2. for refreshing with reading story love / it would be nice (as you can read on this topic/comment)-don't worry with mistakes. Just write...
3. as motivator for next love (we discuss here, especially about falling in love to someone)
4. share between friends in this english club.
Be sure your writing is useful for anyone....also useful for you who write here...
Tks for joining to this topic. Everybody can read your nice comment.
Success for you !
Have a nice day.
Hi, ladies and gentlemen, please write here your love story, possitive parts of the story can be useful for everyone who read this, especially for someone who is falling in love now. Maybe one of you have some tips to face a love. So we will be more ready.
Please.....
Don't afraid to write, especially for beginner, just try to write or send mail to me and then I can update to this topic. My mail : amiyosomister@yahoo.com
I want to share to Nourddine this beautiful qoute that I feel would be a great insight for him cause I read his story about his first love that bring him a realization that he would never love again until he married someone...
" For love to last for a lifetime it should be between two right people loving each other at the right place and at the right time..."
...As to your experience you loved the girl at the wrong time, for you and her to felt the real love for each other is no guarantee it will last for a such a young age...But don't give up on love, one day you will found her, the one that would fulfill your heart with so much love and affection that you would sigh and say to yourself.."I'm glad I waited for her to come into my life..She's worth the waiting"...
mayumee...
Basicly, you are absolutely correct. But we can not control a love in 100percent, especially in 1st love, as you felt also, right ?. On the 2nd love, and next love, normally we can control a little bit. Even we also can not guarantee 100percent that a love will run smoothly because we have 2 hearts, 2 brains, 2 bodies, 2 feelings. Sometimes we have different in some cases in relationship and not always can be understood each other.
Sorry, I don't discuss sex here ha ha ha...(BUT we only discuss falling in love with someone and if we can control or not).
So, It's only key is to follow "love life" like water flows but take care what we pass on the river. I can say easily but pratically this love feeling is same for everybody.
Hi... for you all, pls write here maybe you all have some tips / better tips to control love so we will not feel so bad in love story. Pls pls pls write your feeling more !
Have a nice day.
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