friends and enemies

Kat February 23, 2011 7:30

Hello..

This topic is quiet interesting...The difference between them? Friends are people who we care and we can rely to...while enemies are people that we really hate ..I think friends shouldn't help against our enemies...Bestfriend becomes enemy? I faced this before..backstabbing,,still cant forgive her..but I still hope that things will become much better between us...

liung February 21, 2011 13:09

both of them can motivate you to move forward, as long as you have positive thinking

shilpashruti March 28, 2010 16:40

What's the difference between them??
well, friends and enemies are entirely the opposite words...there is a lot difference between them....where the friends always wants you to be happy...but enemies always want you to be down...and they eagerly looks for ur failure...

And Could a Friend become an enemy??
Well, It depends on the people and situation between them..if both the people are good enough, then they will try to solve the issue by talking each other...
If one is not good in friendship then its difficult to solve the problem then there is a chance of becoming an enemy.

How can you live with enemies??
Well, I cannot stay with enemies...if i had to stay for sometime in any situation then i will stay calmly without saying anything..even if they tries to do anything...i feel that god is there for everything he will take care of us....

imagine that ur best friend became an enemy , how would u feel? what's u gonna do? how can u fix it?
can u forgive a friend?
hmmm.....I will talk to the people after sometime and we will try to solve the situation.....yeah..We can forgive a friend....
Thank You...
Shilpa..
Keep Smililng...It costs nothing... :)

nourddine > shilpashruti November 15, 2010 21:24

hi shilpa
really i like your comment which reflects that you trust your friends a lot and it is good but put your attention
you said that friends want us to be happy. yeah it deppend don't generalize . imagine that you have a friend studying with you . at the day of the resultes he didn't pass and he will repeat the year but you get good marks which make you pass this year . as you know that jalousy is an inner in the human being . automatically this friend will hate you and will try to destroy you in order to don't be better that him. so this is reality i saw it especially with girls .
i will keep smilling

nourddine March 15, 2010 21:22

salam every body . let me intruduce my self the first iam nourddine from morocco . i like this topic . there is a proverb say pay attention from your nemies one and pay attention from your friends 1000 times . you know why because your enemy is far from you and don't share whith you anything whereas your friend is closed with you and know your personal secret then he could destroy you . but in islam religion there is no meaning of friends there is some kind of brotherhood . this proverb don't work with muslim brothers . in islam there is some kind of sacrifices and honesty . personally iam having a lot of friends "brothers" i didn't fell with them in a problem . and also i have some freinds who are not religious really they are so different . so what can we understand from that . the religion which is islam direct the behaviour of your friend

doha diab December 30, 2009 19:02

Hi,kholod, I'm doha,but can you find such a friend these days. where people look only for their own benefit

kholod ahmed said:

friend is the one who always be there for me , the one who advice me when i am wrong , be happy for me when i am happy & get upset when i am upset . the one who support me without deciving but enemy is the one who hates any thing good happen to you the one who wants to see you upset & loser all the time
if the friend become an enemy so he wasnot agood friend you can live with enemies by become aware for them & aware about any thing they can do & my friends should help me against these enemies if my best friend become my enemy i will feel like abroken heart one but i wont fix things because i wont be able to forgive this friend ever

doha diab December 30, 2009 18:55

hi, dayana, don't worry I left this town now I work with new people

dayana2 said:

hi doha
its nice to forgive her but be carefully maybe stung u agian

tran van chanh December 28, 2009 15:54

For me, Friend and enemy have fairly distance. This distance base on yourself.
enemy sometime become a friend and contrary.Friend help you in difficult circumstance , enemy will harm you.

kholod ahmed December 28, 2009 7:26

friend is the one who always be there for me , the one who advice me when i am wrong , be happy for me when i am happy & get upset when i am upset . the one who support me without deciving but enemy is the one who hates any thing good happen to you the one who wants to see you upset & loser all the time
if the friend become an enemy so he wasnot agood friend
you can live with enemies by become aware for them & aware about any thing they can do & my friends should help me against these enemies
if my best friend become my enemy i will feel like abroken heart one but i wont fix things because i wont be able to forgive this friend ever

doha diab December 23, 2009 0:45

once i had afriend. she was my best best one.we had no secrets.unfortunatly we worked in the same place.she was selfish and wanted to take my place,tried to tell my boss things to make him angry of me.I couldn't bear it so i moved to another work........... I still love her.she is good person when she is away from work.i think i can forgive.

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