Hello all of my friends ..yesterday I was talking with one my friend about Islam. And what if his wife leave Islam and change his religion or to be a secular ..
so some of us are Muslim and love our religion ..some Hindu and some Christian and some zartushet….
I was Curious about this,that if a wife in the Islamic family leave the religion what will be the reaction of her husband ……
So I started with this question and ask him ….
Look friend just imagine ! if you would marry and love your wife as much as you couldn’t imagine living with out her .she loves you incredible ..and care about you a lot ..you have a life with love and understand as much as enough for Common Life .one life that all man and woman are jealous of it ..and you are proud of it .suddenly your wife starts to reading book ..she is human and has her mind and after moment she came to conclusion that wanna change her religion …but she still love you maybe more and more ..what will be your reaction with this Changes ????????????
I know that it may effect on your life but religion sometimes is a personal matter and with these all that I told you what will be your reaction ?
He asked me ,you mean if I speak with her she will not back to Islam ???????
I answer imagine that she is Faithful to her principles and she think that these all are personal matter and she research a lot and this is what that she think and never do not wanna change it.
He suddenly answer I will divorce her ,undoubtedly
I asked him if you love her and have a kids and ,
He answer again :I swear by God that I will leave her!
And ask me and you ? just imagine all that you told me
I answer that with all that told you imagine ….hmmmm I am a little different of you
He said how come?
I answer with all that I told you I swear by God that I will never ever leave him …
This is not important what he answer after that but there is a rules in Islam that if your husband leave the religion..the marriage between you and your wife will be finished and you will not have any relation ship in these case in the aspect of Islam and religion ..
So I know that but I wanna just tell me what will be the reaction of you in the same situation..this is not important if you are muslim or not I am not speaking about just muslim people if you are a Hindu or Christian and you husband or wife leave it ,what will be your reaction in the same situation ????????
And some more important thing ,,this is just about you and ( her – him ) and it is not supposed to any one know anything about it ………
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Dear Sami, almost I've read all comments that have been written here.
Firstly, let me show my appreciation on your precious topic.
we are as muslim, We deal with it in different ways, some of us deal with it,( I mean if some one converts his/her religion, or becomes apostate), as treason,so the one who acts that must be dead; not just break the marriage relationship, so the penalty would be greater than your imagination. the one who acts that,then He/She hasn't a right to live.
but, the most important think that, You must pay your full attention to, is that, this ritual is widely appear in most religions.
And I've an example ; my neighbors belong to christian gyppty denomination,whose lady converted from christianty to Islam, then her relatives decided to hang her, if she insist to continue with her new religion. yet, no doubt it's mistake.
I am my sef If my wife did so, I will never loss her due to her new faith, that because, She's a mind as Iam, She could think as Iam, She's human as Iam, & both She, and I,just recognize our humanity when we feel free, mo restrictions, she's free to convert her faith however, she wants, I will not interfere into this personal relationship between her,and the God, she has full right to manage this personal relationship as she likes, to be Christian , Muslim, Jew, Hindu , even to become an atheist, It will never effect on her infatuation inside of my heart , It will never effect on her Ideal world that , we have been bulding with each other .
that because I do believe that, Religions come down to help people live with each other in love: forgiveness, cohesion, coexistance.
religions do not order us to hate each other , even in case of apostate.
even our God himself gives us the freedom to become believer, or disbeliever.
as the result of that, I would'nt break down my relationship with my wife due to her new faith, in the same time I'm going to wish her a luck with her new faith and religion!!!!.
in judgement's day, our God accounts and asks us as individual not as grougs, or nation , country.
My dear All I wanna say is religion is personal and privacy matter and no body has this right to interfere in our religion . :) if he loves us or not :)
absolutely wrong dear ...this is you can call it even violation to other is he would ask about what she worship :)
Dear You got me wrong ..you complicated everything ..
I love God more than your imagination ..
Thanks fo your reply ....
Have a great time
Hello ..
So I must tell you that ,THIS IS THE PROBLEM OF MUSLIMS that we never wanna understand that religion is personal matter ..
I think if God in quran said that a man has to married with a muslin woman and versa vice it relate to the satiation of that time ..cuz they did not want perish the union of muslim .that was important cuz of the society of that time .but now what ?
do we must to keep that union ? for what ? for fighting again ? against who ?
I still believe that RELIGION is a personal matter ..why for an american is not important if his husband or wife change her religion or be unbeliever to God ?
DO they have problem about that ? RELIGION is a sens that emerge from heart..when someone does not wanna accep he cant accept it cuz no one ..not his wife or children ..I have seen lots of example that man change his religion and his wife stay with him cuz she even do not wannna think about destroying family or destroying love or what ever u wanna call it cuz RELIGION .. so why you bring GOD into the topic ? why she must think about GOD in the situation that just they are in middle of it ?
She must choice between GOD AND HER ?
Are you thinking about WAR?
Does God accept the same thing ?
SO according what u said I am going to believe that you prefer ppl lies you not be honest with you ..
you prefer that your husband hide everything from you ..even he change his religion ..he can keep his belief ..but just do not tell you OMG ,,,,living in pretending station !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes I will never leave him ..why do i must do the same ...if it is bad from God's side ..will God punish me cuz of his act that I believe you human take hard the issue more than God ...
Never leave him but I try to understand him...this is his choice NOT ME ..if there is not any love between us !!!!!!!!!!
Thanks for your answer :)
Dear you are good in speaking but tell all of these first to yourself that you ban speaking about such as matter ...
Be patient and just imagine if you had such as situation what will be your react and then put here your idea !
NOT MORE WORDS
good luck !
LOL ...Okay ,I love when I hear the voice of people like you ..pity ?
Why she change her religion?
she is human ..can do what ever she want ..RELIGION IS PERSONAL MATTER ..
WHEN YOU MUSLIM WANNA LEARN THAT ?
another hand if your heart is so weak to hear such as discussion ..do not interfere :-)
Thanks for your angry answer !!!!!!!!!!!!!
WOW ..neshon dadi hamvatani :)" I love they way that you answered me ...This is all human being ..every one has their belief and religion ..she wanna be ur wife ,or ur friends ,religion is a personal matter ,any one does not right make decisions instead of another ,this is not human being if we wanna leave a good and valuable person just for her religion ..this is nt will of God ..thanks for your valuable answer :)"
Hi, if I was in this difficult situation, I would ask some question to her.
Whether you do enough reserch about past/new religious? Are you sure about legitimacy of new religious? If her answer was ok, based on shiite marje's fatwa(such as Sheykh Bahayi) she must change the religious.
I am sure in nowadays, few women do research about religious, politics and so on. Their world is to follow latest cosmetic products, fashions and so on. Then probably close to 100% her answer would be "NO". but if her answer would be "YES". I said "You go your way and I go my way". That's life.
Dear mahmoud but if she answer you some answer that it would be reasonable what ?what will be your reaction?
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