Let's discuss: THINGS THAT WEIGH YOU DOWN

Posted by _✿HONEY_BÉÉ✿_ on March 7, 2015

Good morning, everyone ) 

I was looking for some quotes for my project and I found an interesting one that made me thinking an analyzing. Here it is: 

i started thinking about the things that weigh personally me down and I got scared. Some of them by definition and society rules can't weigh you down but I feel from inside that it is so. 

I'd like to be honest every time I'm asked by others but I can't because I'll raise a lot of aggression and offends. I don't know why in all cases the positive honesty has sympathy but when you talk about not so positive things in others, you're blamed in being rude. 

I'd like to be free from the past experience that disturbs my life but I know that this is a collection of lessons I should value. 

Sometimes I think that I should be born as an orphan because I'm not a family person though I have a very big one and I do love them. But I escape several times a year from all :) 

Sure that many people like positive people with positive thinking but sometimes we do have a right to stand alone and be as negative as a devil in depression. Then if we have it, why are we blamed in all sins and that we spread the negative? 

How to become free of these thoughts and how to assess things right that weigh you down or can bring you to your life goals? 

5 minutes ago I heard a nice song called "Wrong side of heaven" and the continuation was "Right side of hell"..... Where are we all ? Has anyone got navigator? :) 

Current mood is creamy-sad. 

Have a nice day. Would be great to read your opinions and honest answers about these things. 

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  • Mishaikh April 5, 2015 4:44

    The 

    THINGS THAT WEIGH me DOWN

    is the people's attitude, which I mostly try to ignore, but after all I too am a being, the one who is unfortunately too sensitive.

    SEE FROM WHERE IT RAISES, FROM MY SOUL OR FROM HEART.

    FROM WHERE THIS SMOKE IS RISING.

  • setareh April 4, 2015 8:25
    In my part, for example when I want to do something my doubts weigh me down so I need to have more faith in myself. I need trust myself more.
    • _✿HONEY_BÉÉ✿_ > setareh April 4, 2015 16:51

      Today I re-watched this music video and I came to a thought that what we do in our society is like they play in the beginning of this clip. They play good classical music...but then...they try to rebel...they try to be themselves...they try to get their high point in their play....and they did it :) Hope some people will do the same - do your best no matter how many people try to weigh you down :) Enjoy the listening and watching as well! 

    • Mishaikh > _✿HONEY_BÉÉ✿_ April 4, 2015 19:03

      Hey why the audience were dumdfound?

    • _✿HONEY_BÉÉ✿_ > Mishaikh April 4, 2015 19:10

      Think

    • Mishaikh > _✿HONEY_BÉÉ✿_ April 4, 2015 19:14

      Either they found it really good or they found the piece which they were not expecting.

    • _✿HONEY_BÉÉ✿_ > Mishaikh April 4, 2015 19:20

      ))))))

  • setareh April 4, 2015 8:21
    Dear Honey Bee, I am so familiar of wanting to be honest but society forces us not to be. About negative feelings I read somewhere that we should let our negative feeling to be emerged; they are natural feeling for instance envy makes us to try to make ourselves better by looking at others, but if we hold envy in our heart It will become joulousy. Joulousy is not good for our own health.or anger it doesn't have to be dangerous but if we repress it, it will become rage and rage is dangerous.
  • Salem March 13, 2015 21:21

    I respect all of  my parents' opinions, even  what I do not like, they are love me and have enough experience of this life.

  • _✿HONEY_BÉÉ✿_ March 10, 2015 17:05

    Eva, you know, there are things that always should be good and accepted by everyone. Like "You need to love your parents"  (and you have no right to feel offended by them or hate them), "you must love all children, because they are so cute" ( and no exceptions) and so on. 

    But we have also a right to have a rainbow of feelings towards many things. As I can love my own children or my nieces and nephews but it's not necessary to love all other children that are somewhere in Asia, Africa or other world. 

    I know that such topic can cause different reactions like "It's not right, not polite and bla-bla-bla". But at the same time we owe nothing and other people owe us nothing. Then why should we? 

    I confessed that my mum and her personality weighs me down in many things like my freedom of choice and many others. Of course, I'm an adult now but still it weighs me down in my thoughts (and thank god - not in my actions). I guess if I can cope with these thoughts, it would be great :) 

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