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  • setareh April 21, 2015 8:57
    How some people manage to create the best despite all the obstacles in their lives?
    whenever I read or listen to some people who worked so hard to achieve their dreams, I am left by awe! I appreciate their strong will. Their life story is so inspiring for those who give up so soon. they have a clear picture of what they want and they see themselves there achieving it. They never let doubt enter their mind. They have a strong belief about what they want and their own power. They make impossible, possible. This shows the power of human's mind that could overcome all obstacles.
    did you find the power of your mind? I am trying to find it by learning from these wonderful people. Wish me luck.
    • Mishaikh > setareh April 21, 2015 11:40

      Setareh,
      Hard work never fails a person. But in my faith, there is that one should not attribute his success entirely to his hard work. There is always major influence of Allah's will.
      Take example of a farmer: His task is very hard, he cultivates, he ploughs (Plows), puts seeds, water his field, after doing all his part of work, he has not put all trust on Allah,
      because, farmer does not control heavy rain, storm, snow. If his farm gets ripen it is attributed to his hard work + Allah's will.
      So one should have to do his part of work with responsibility and trust.

  • Kanimozhi January 11, 2015 12:12

    Hi,Nothing to say about me  but i want to share i passed my elementary level after i got course to join intermediate level whatever i wish that is happened but, the thing i put all my effort for intermediate studies before that i am not concentrate in studies too much but i got gud marks.intermediate studies that board exam i don't get gud marks i was frustruated at that moment because i know its not my fault some malpractice correction.i know very well i did exams very well.

    After that i got undergraduation which i don't like that college i  did that college .The college is very strict i fed up that, lecture was gud and fantastic.because of that i joined college for my low marks.In my child hood onwards i just tell myself all is well if it happen gud or bad.after that  i get lot of experience from that college how to behave attitude everything.After i was realized this  college is gud for me because of reason low marks i got this college.

    College is well gud and lecture also gud i don't like too much strict like a jail.that why i fed up otherwise i can manage.so finally i learn lot of things from there but i am not too much sincere i did lot of silly thing there irritating my lecturer teasing this kind of thing i did in my college days.

    Then after i just think about my self what i do how do move on next step,then i  choosen post graduation i attend exam i got selected after that i went to counselling i join engineering college for my post graduation.Before going the that engineering i just fixed my mind i never teased  teacher any one i should respect every one i just concentrate on my studies properly .

    I did all those thing in my pg i got highest marks.now i am looking for job i hope i will reach my goal one day.i am always fell down some other thing even my job.i fed up after i tell my self all is well its everything is gud for me.

        I am confident i will face anything i can manage lead that thing.

    • _✿HONEY_BÉÉ✿_ > Kanimozhi January 11, 2015 12:15

      kanimozhi, thanks for sharing. As you see, you have something to share with others. I wish you good luck and let your inward events guide you to the brightest future! :)

    • Mishaikh > _✿HONEY_BÉÉ✿_ April 15, 2015 12:50

      Shall I try to write something else here?

    • _✿HONEY_BÉÉ✿_ > Mishaikh April 18, 2015 6:29

      you can, Mish :) 

    • Mishaikh > _✿HONEY_BÉÉ✿_ April 19, 2015 14:47

      The major problem of today’s youth is directionless ness.

      Success in life depends on the proper selection of profession and a clear vision of career. A wrongly chosen profession brings nothing but failure and hopelessness. This is the major problem which our youths facing today. There should be proper guidance from the parents and the teachers at the secondary level keeping in view the interest in particular fields and then create an aim to which a youth should reach and become a good asset of society.

      THE GLAMORIZED PORTRAY OF VIOLANCE BY MEDIA IS THE REASON OF INCREASE IN CRIME.

      Attraction towards the thrill is in human instinct.  Thrill, when portrayed with glamour and heroism, puts deep impact on human character and he is attracted to present himself in the same manner without realizing the difference between crime and heroism.  Violence presented in movies and other sort of entertainment caused the increase in crime. There has been number of examples when the thieves and burglars have confessed that they had taken the idea from movies. Therefore, it is a fact that media is largely to blame for the world-wide increase in crime.

       EXCELLANCE CAN BE CULTIVATED.

      There is no doubt that a child is born with some instincts, inherited qualities and abilities hidden in him or her character. A child when born is like a blank page. What he would become depends what and how he learns and made to learn during his growth. It is, therefore, the responsibility of the parents and teachers to pass on the knowledge and wisdom in the new generation. If it is done in proper manner then there is no doubt that an able and useful generation came into being.  Excellence is in every individual, just as the land has all the potentials.  It is the proper seeding and care which give the good crop.

       

  • _✿HONEY_BÉÉ✿_ January 9, 2015 15:56

    Let me start the first if everyone is too shy :) 

    Looking back at my life, I have a strong opinion that a good self-work was made during all those years. Around 10 years ago my life was full of events that changed my life direction vice versa. They forced me to make important decisions, to overcome some fears and phobias, to change my mind about people's attitudes and relations. And I'm happy that I had enough strengths to do it. The thing is that this is the first time I made these thoughts opened. 

    I guess many people on this planet have a close person whom he/she can trust and share sorrows and joys. But I truly believe that the old saying "Laugh and the whole world will laugh with you, cry and you will cry alone" is a right one. I needed to pass this way alone and it's good (or bad for some))) that I did it. There are many persons who can tell that they build themselves. 

    I want to say BIG thanks to my books, thoughts, to Jesus Christ and some other sources that guided me. 

    I'm expecting that I'll again have a truth in good intentions from surrounding people and I hope I'll do my best in it, too. I truly believe that if you want to achieve something, try to do something. That's what I am doing at my present. 

    If you fell down, have strengths to stand up. And then have the power and desire to go. I'm above to make the first steps in this awesome road that is called "Human life" :) 

    Thanks for your attention :) 

    • Mishaikh > _✿HONEY_BÉÉ✿_ January 9, 2015 20:22

      From the day one of my school days I dreamed to do BE (Bachelor of Engineering), that’s why I chose my subjects in SSC (Matriculation) accordingly. I passed my Matric in first division. Then I got admission in DJ Science College of Karachi. When I joined the college I had to  for my expenses myself, prior to that I was supported by my brothers. (We actually were financially weak family), so I then had to do work as a private teacher (tutor), due which I could not get time to do my physics and chemistry practical which were in the afternoon and that was my teaching time. Somehow I completed my HSC, but when I tried to get admission in an Engineering College for my engineering , there was the hard time started. “Bring this , that documents, do you have this identity, that identity…” I felt myself an alien. Any way to get all the documents required for admission the date of admission passed. I then became very disappointed and joined  for Bachelor of Arts degree in economics. During this I continued teaching privately to interested students, and it was a very strange thing (particularly in our society) during the entire period of 12 years most of my students were girls. In the beginning it was very hard to tackle them then I overcome the tense situations and got full confidence.

      I got first job  in an indenting business and first three month they gave me six or seven four drawers  full of files and asked me to read them all from A to Z, which I did with patience, and here I learn how to do office/commercial correspondence which became very useful for me in times to come. After four years I left this job and got a job in a Textile industry. My main job was to do all the correspondence relating to Export, Banks, State Banks Customs which I did successfully. After three years, I left this job and joined Ball Bearing Manufacturing Industry. Here my main job was to deal with the government authorities like Customs, Sales Tax, Excise etc. During this job I earned my Law Degree. I got the admission in Law College but didn't see the face of the college through out the law education period. I prepared all the material myself with help of syllabus at home and sitting in the office, and earned my Law Degree. I never practice law as an advocate, but it helps me dealing with the government authorities and doing correspondence relating to legal matters.  Unfortunately this company liquidated due to some unavoidable circumstances. after passing a jobless year I got another job the existing one.

      I got married and God blessed me with a baby boy, daughter was born after four years.

       The main theme of my autobiography is that hard work never fails you in your life. I am though, not a VIP level of employee, but I am proud that I have a  authority on my job and now all the relating things/aspects to my work are mostly on my finger tip. I have been requested by most of the seniors to help them  disposing of their work in relation to correspondence, data maintenance, administration, secretarial, accounts, and what ever asked with the blessing of God I never failed. And how I got this in brief, by study, remember, I was asked to study the piles of files hundreds of them to STUDY. Prior to that I had to study for my students in prior to appearing before them (AGAIN STUDY).  So my friends, it is must to learn that you should develop the ability, guts patience in yourselves to STUDY.

      (Borrowed from my own blog)

    • setareh > Mishaikh April 19, 2015 6:33
      Dear Mishaikh Thanks for sharing your life story. I love reading the story of hard working people. I wish you luck and success all the time. God bless you and your family.
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