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Who is the good listener?

Posted by Zahra on November 25, 2011 in General Discussion

Hi everyone,

 

There is a question for you. When you feel all lonely, tired, exhausted, out-of-the-mood or whatsoever, with whom do you talk about your tiring issues?

Who is a good listener to you? Do you have any good listener at all?

Do you talk to someone at all when you are in the blues ?

 

Just this!

Have fun

:)

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    • Zahra December 25, 2011 17:18

      Oh, sorry to hear that. But  I think there are lots of people out there who are just like you. Many of us can not share our thoughts and feelings with people. Many have good listeners, but they still can not share EVERYTHING with them. I think we should try our best to be strong.

      As about the song, I haven't ever listened to it. Yes, trouble exists, but we should face them strongly and wisely. We shouldn't forget that we are strong and wise and we can solve the problems if we have hope and if we believe in the help of our God.

      Have all the best

      :)

  • sugeng December 12, 2011 15:36

    Dear Zahra,

    My wife is a good listener to me. I often share the problem I have to her, and she does the same thing to me. We are both good listeners. In our spare time we often discuss about anything.

    • Zahra > sugeng December 20, 2011 19:01

      That's really nice that you two can be so good friends and listeners for one another. I think one's spouse is one of the most reliable ones in the world to talk with; of course in case that the marriage is wise and with love.

      Have a nice life together

      :)

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    • Zahra December 20, 2011 19:10

      There are times that we feel sad; everyone has their own period of sadness caused by different causes. You are right; everyone has their own chores to deal with. But there exist people out there to feel empathy for their friends and beloved ones. I think you can also find someone to share both your happy ans sad times with. We should all keep in mind that friends and beloved ones are not only for our sad times; we should try to share our happiness,too. 

      Best wishes,

      Take it easy

      :)

  • Ohnie December 7, 2011 15:39
    Sometimes it's easier to open up to total strangers because you know it's unlikely that they will be biased on their opinions.
    • Zahra > Ohnie December 20, 2011 19:15

      :)

    • Zahra > Ohnie December 20, 2011 19:14

      Interesting idea! Well, in case we don't share too much details about our personal issues, that's a good idea to find a stranger to talk with.

      Really unique and interesting point of view,

      Thanks for sharing

      :) 

  • Nafis December 2, 2011 16:42

    Thank you dear Zahra for this question. Unfortunately, I haven't had in my real life. A good listener to me is someone that listens everything and at the end, doesn't judge you in addition to listening carefully to what you are saying. 

    • Zahra > Nafis December 7, 2011 18:22

      That's so true. A good listener should just listen carefully to every word one says without any judgement or interpretation. Then if the listener is wanted to give advice or recommendation, they should think wisely and give their OPINIONS; without forcing us to accept their ideas.

      But mostly, we seek not an adviser, but just a pure listener, to just listen. 

      Thanks my lovely Nafis for taking part in our discussion.

      :)

    • Zahra > Nafis December 7, 2011 18:17

      That's so good to have such a friend, dear Jenny.:)

      Thanks for the reply.

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