Do you know definition of disappointed itself?It is a person’s response when he/she was getting a reality or treatment that was not in line with him/her expectations or desire. I thought, it is a common feeling as human being, everyone has experience of it.
Disappointment can be caused by many things not only in the love case. We could find it in our work place, in college, family or whenever you could interact with other. I believe one always has ways to cope their disappointed feeling when it comes.
So, please feel free to share your experiences about it, and then your solution to ease that feeling. I am looking forward your comments here. Stay happy and healthy always J
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Dear Icha,
First off, no need to apologize. You can't be here 24/7. Second, wow! You and I are so different. I see a dirtbag who steals and you see a cute little bunny. Guess that's 'cause of your big heart.
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Icha said:
A738a,
It was okay my dear friend, I should apologize to you here because I was late to reply. We concerned the same thing that ws the rabbit, yes he was the winner if we connected it with this topic. He didn’t care the kid would give the cookie to him or not, he only tried to approach that kid and looked at the hand’s boy might be this was a rabbit’s way to communicate with :) (I said as if I could feel what the rabbit felt hehehe…), but unfortunately it seemed that kid did not want to share the cookie with him. I guessed this rabbit would not need be disappointed in longer time because he thought carrot Is better for him than that cookie. So, I hope we are especially me as an ordinary people could thought like the rabbit, though for the reality it is not easy to do.
For your last word, yes I can understand that one always has reason before her/him doing things. Thanks for giving feed back to my comment. Hope we will could face whatever forms of disappointment well in our life :)
P.S. You must excuse my dry humor. I'm trying to find a way to deal with my disappointments. Best defense is a good offense, ya know?
Hi A738a,
Pardon me being late to reply your comment. Ooowwww….very nice picture that you sent :D. Yes you delivered the good messages from this discussion. If I can describe it from my perspective that we could combine the comments from Mishaikh, Jeffrey Raven and Evangelina here.
The first we need good communication (it is between rabbit and a kid, What is the language should use here? :D), the second we need to put our expectation to zero (the rabbit should do, though I am not sure he could and understand it well hahaha….) and the last part is doing the best and dealing with result no need care it would be positive or negative :).
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hanks to make this discussion more fun and we could take good point as well to choose action that we need to face a disappointment.
Hi Evangelina,
Sorry, I was late to reply your comment here. I am fine Eva, thanks for asking me. No need worry my dear friend I just want to share my thoughts here that ones could encounter it sometimes.
Regarding to your opinion, you are right Eva, we need good communication to minimize this feeling to those whom we expected for. But, you know sometimes the fact could say different with our expectation though we have a well communication. So, If I may add to your points above that we need to prepare ourselves with the disappointment as well, and if we got the luck (we got something as our expectation) we would feel happy as Mishaikh said unexpected pleasure :).
Thanks for sharing your values message here :)
Hi Jeffrey Sir,
Sorry to late responding your comment in this discussion. Thank you you have shared your point of views here. I like for the last words of yours “I forget about my expectations and simply do the best I can at the time and deal with the results, be they negative or positive”. Yes I completely agree with you. More we have high expectation of a thing we have to prepare ourselves to be disappointed. I thought experiences could make the person’s thoughts be wiser, and we could get the good points from you.
Hi Mishaikh,
Pardon me for delaying to reply your comment. Yes, in this world there are always two things, happiness and sadness, satisfaction and disappointment, bad and good etc. We couldn't choose what we want in our life. But we always could take reaction of those occurred possibilities. Good experience that you have shared here that we could put our expectation to zero. Thank you so much for it. I think we could take the good point that you delivered here.
Mishaikh said:
It speaks for itself.
If this isn't the face of disappointment, I don't know what is. That rabbit needs to learn a lesson.
I had innumerable times disappointment in my life. It made me dejected. I gave it a deep thought. I came to the conclusion that it is our expectations which when are gone in vain, it hurts deep in heart. So I reduced the expectation to zero. Now the disappointment cause not much dejection. On the contrary when something gets fulfilled it gives me unexpected pleasure.
This is my personal opinion, all are allowed not to agree with this.