Hello everybody...
The case is that he is married and has two kids and he knew her BEFORE his marriage.. Why now?? why he became interested in her NOW??
He said he is in love with her and he made a mistake by marrying another woman and he is not in a good relation with his wife "though he won't get divorce"
My BEST friend wants my support I can't offer it. I don't trust him with her and I really think he is not the one for her :((((
What to do? she seems in love with him no matter what I say :'(
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You must know Allah has termed such guys as MUSHRIk HYPOCRITES, and this act of SHIRIK -hypocricy is unforgiveable!
Well almost a same case with cousin, she's very close to me and share everything with me. She's in love with a guy who has a great criminal record plus that guy informed her many times that he'll not marry her..
Very weird story, it's been more than 5 years. She cries for him, even yesterday she told me she's very sad and wants to talk to me. When i was talking to her she told me that guy is not talking to her anymore and started to cry.......I scold her, it was not the first time she just doesn't care.
In fact she was insisting me to talk with that guy.
I am really sorry to hear that . I am feeling you and InshaaAllah she will forget him just like my friend has forgotten about her ex. I will pray for her and u do too.
guess what? another woman did this for me and he fell for it and my friend broke up with him THANK GOD!
Thanks for the tip though ;)
He is none but A HONEY BEE, can never rest at one place.
@Coolhead I really hope he would fade and my worries would follow.. He is giving me a headache I hate disloyal people :S I do agree they are WALKING DEVILS.
Men know each other very well! :DP
I think your best friend is old enough to decide about herself on her own. She knows well what is good and what is bad. Don't press her and don't force her to do what you think is right for her. You can give her suggestions but don't insist too much. Let her live as she want to. As a best friend, your responsibility is to help her whenever she needs (of course not for wrong reasons) it. But it's not your responsibility to decide about her life. Let her experience the life herself.
It just hurts me nido when I see her going to the wrong direction with me doing nothing but watching. She wouldn't listen so I gave up and am doing what you advice am letting her go. I can't decide for her but i can always tell her what i really think and I did.
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