why we hurt by someone (anyone who is playing role in your life OR who played any role in your life) action..
is that depend on
-keeping expectation
-giving too much value to someone
-too much caring of some1
-or depend on anything else..
but question is why we get hurt by action of others.??
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Maya, I will not compromise with a love of lesser intensity in return.
mishaikh.. i think no one can be compromise with a love of lesser intensity in return.. human can compromise in all other things but not in love.!!
thanks for sharing your view...!!!
yes i am agree with you... like and dislike, sensitivity also matter.. we hurt from them, for which we care.. making happy and hurt others is in nature.. some people always try to make other happy, because they want to be happy by getting care from others..
We get hurt the most from someone whom we really cared and loved as we expect too much from them, and if they didn't reached that expectations, we tend to get hurt. Second, giving them too much value even we don't get anything in return, sometimes we value a person too much more than our own self. We get hurt coz we care....but if we doesn't care for that person, surely we won't get the pain. To make this short, i think we should not care too much, or if we want it that way, we have to make sure that the person we cared about will take care of us too. Nice discussion sis :D
Nice reply...:P i think we should care, love others for make our-self happy, but try to not expect the same although we have no hold on our expectation but at least we can try to not expect the same...!!!
I agree with your viewpoint. But is it possible to find the one reciprocate with the same emotion?
Giving too much value to some one in our life, if we hope them but if the person would be broken then it was getting hurted too much.
kanimozhi.. sorry i did not get you..
pleASE can you briefly tell us your view..!!
Keeping expectation..............Yes.
Giving too much value to.......Yes.
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