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What is better: To find the love and lose it one day or never even to find it?

Posted by Roman on January 12, 2018 in General Discussion

To find the love and lose it one day:

Here I mean anyone that had find his/her real, true, mutual love (you love him/her and he/she loves you). It doesn't matter if it was a partner or even husband/wife). They lived together and enjoyed life for some time. Everything was good and seemed paradise.

But one day something had happened and he/she lost it.

Never even to find it:

Here I mean anyone that lived the whole life and didn't find his/her real love.

It was always only the one-sided love (you love somebody, but he/she doesn't love you or vise versa) or even just attraction.

Thank you for your honest answers!

I wish everyone have had found the true love!

So, the most people think, the first option is better. And I think the same.

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Mishaikh January 16, 2018 12:02

But this is not in our power Roman, 'finding/getting and/or loosing. It just happens, one finds it involuntarily and knows about the feelings he/she has for somebody, or if even try to find not necessarily be successful. In the same way he/she loses also. But if for the sake of discussion I would also prefer the second option. Because it takes you away (mostly) from your other life obligations. Below is a translation from a Urdu poet:

NOW WHEN SHE HAS PARTED AWAY, I REMEMBER VERY MUCH OTHER WORKS TO DO.
Roman January 15, 2018 19:12

Hi Diah!

Ofcourse it is much better to choose the third option with long lasting love and happiness:)

Yes, both options are so tragic and sad!

Thank you for your honest answer!
Roman January 15, 2018 19:08

Hi Sri Harsha!

Yes, you have noticed it very clearly!

Thank you!
Roman January 15, 2018 19:05

Hi Rosemary!:) Thank you very much! :)
Diah January 15, 2018 12:39

well, Roman....

My very honest answer is... not one of those above. I choose my long lasting happiness. Both options are so tragic. Really, I will make third option: to find my love and be with him forever.

BUT, I can choose no. 1 if the death separate me and my partner, not because he found somebody new :)
sri harsha January 15, 2018 5:44

We only can loose the person who we love or the one who is being love ... But not the emottions and memories
hayat :) January 15, 2018 5:02

Hi :) I want to add something , which , is compatibility i think it is one of the major causes of stable love or marriage relations :)
Roman January 14, 2018 19:26

:(

I am sorry to hear that.

Thank you for your honest answer, Wishes!
MARY January 14, 2018 18:15
Roman January 14, 2018 14:51

Hi Sobzz!

Thank you for your nice words!