Dear all my EC friends...
I want to feel you out about "Wedding Party".
Concepts:
You can see that people who hold a Wedding Party would spend a lot of money. Even sometimes they owe money to friends or even to the bank. The amounts of that money can be equal with money to buy car or a plain house. To see that they are a new couple, some of them have neither car nor house. Not to mention their daily need. Consider the money, what a about the poor and orphanage?
Have you heard there is a millionaire couple cancelled the big wedding party and change their plan to visit and share their wedding party cost to some orphanage?? They did.
Some people say it's once in life. So, to remind that moment, they should hold it at any cost. Else, just for tradition. (In Islam, I know at least we should let our neighbors and friends know about the marriage. Here, I talk about big wedding party which spend a lot of money)
My question is...
1. What is the essential of holding a wedding party?
2. Is it really worth to hold a wedding party? why?
Comments from married or unmarried people are very welcome..
I will be pleased to hear all your various opinions here..
Thank you very much, my friends.. :))
Replies
Dear Sir Dara,
We can make a party if it is possible and affordable. However, it is a choice. Dinner or lunch with relatives is a good choice to me. Thank you so much for sharing your point of view. :)
dara gino said:
Terima kasih bayak untuk pessan kamu. Saya suka nya banyak. Your discussion reminded me of my late blog about The Wedding. If it is possible, make a party. If not, we just call our close and relatives and make a small dinner or lunch for them.
Hi Abdul Mannan,
How are you? No, it's okay. I don't ignore a friend.
But, what do you think about wedding party, in this discussion?
Thank you so much for your response. :)
MdAbdulMannan said:
Thank you so much for your thumbs up, dear Rasty Kross, Evangelina, Nimzaf, Mr.Bob, Swati, MK Haseeb, Kendall, teacher Vicki Hollet. It means a lot to me. ^_^
And thank you all for commenting and sharing your views here. I think I will read again later. ^_^
Reading again my replies on this discussion. I realized that my English was so arrrrggghhhh.... :D :D
Dear Teacher Vicki Hollett..... I feel so glad and honored having you read and join my discussion.
So true, teacher. Traditional attitude makes everything more expensive. I guess most of our own cultures have their own pride and those are not cheap anyway. Yet, it's possible for us for having a great party without spending a fortune as you said.
Well, you can see that we got various comments here. Most of them are agree to not shell out for an expensive wedding party. Some of them are still agree with an expensive one, but they know that it has a great work and some compensation later on, as my conclusion. But the same one important thing is the wedding itself. It must be a happy moment after all.
I thank you so much for your valuable comment, Mrs. Vicki. Have a great day! :))
What an interesting question! I think it's possible to have a great party for friends and family without spending a fortune if you take and non-traditional attitude to weddings and go for something more informal. I'll be veryinterested to hear everyone else's thoughts.
Hello abdullah omar,,
Well, it's a choice. Whether it's worth or not, I think every choice has it's own compensation or contentment.
Thank you for sharing you opinion, brother. I'm so pleased to see you. :)
Hello Vikas Chaudhary,,
Of course it's about necessity. The fun and benefit we discussed is the reasons of their opinion. :)
Well, I'm glad to see your opinion here. Sure, you got my point. A lot of money better spend it for the poor people rather than spend for drink, food etc. If I may add, rather than spend money for dresses and decorated place. Agree with you, we should concern to hold a small party.
Thank you so much for dropping by and your great discussion, Vikas :))
In life we have to make choices. Paying for a wedding or using the money for something else is a choice. You need to choose what is best for you.
A wedding ceremony is important to people getting married and their families and friends, but you can have an inexpensive wedding and use the money better for something else.
In some cultures eg, Vietnamese, wedding guests contribute money towards the cost of the wedding.
It's hard to balance the expectations your families and friends have with what you want to do with your money, but at some stage you have to make a decision based on your priorities.
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