Hi friends! Happy Father's Day to all of you. I want to post a Father's Day discussion "The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother”. Do you agree with that statement?
First of all, I want to add my opinion about that statement .
Children are so sensitive and observant. They pick up everything. And they model whatever their parents do. If a boy sees his father treating his mother poorly, he is likely to believe that it is acceptable way to treat women that way. And if a girl sees her father disrespecting her mother, she is more likely to believe that it is allowable way for men to treat her. Compare these children who see their parents expressing true love toward one another.
Do you agree with this quote? Does it stir up any conflicting feelings in you? Share your thoughts in the comment box below.
Eventually! Thanks Madam Tara Benwell (Admin of English club) for suggesting to me to start a discussion on that statement.
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Hi, Sono, I totally agree. And of course spending time with his kids and love them as well. ;) But of course you had that already in mind.
One point you've mentioned I like to emphasize here: >>>And they model whatever their parents do.<<<
Many people are mistaken that children will do what they were told in school and at home. Children learn mostly by observing. Later in life we can gain also supplemental knowledge how to live our lives in a good way... But especially in early years our behavior and social life is determinate by our environment.
Please notice, around puberty children also become more independent from their parent*s role models, and that means they can also decide to become, and do the total opposite what their parents set as example... We are not bound to end up like our parents!
Greetings! :)
Sono, I agree 100%. But why only father? whereas, they both are the parent and hold equal responsibility to inculcate their children the moral principles of life by their actions. If father keeps loving the mother for the sake of children, but the mother turns deaf ear to everything he says, who is responsible? I think they both need to love each other for their children. Btw great topic
Thanks your reply Barbare. Your thoughts shows that, " you aren't in against and not in favor too. So, it's mean you dependent on to suitable circumstance such that, "As disguised as Des". :D ... I agree with your thoughts, you nicely described that quote" Need is the mother of invention". Kidding!
Thanks Samu to you comments. Well, what is the meaning of separation here, do you mean diverse? So, Separation would be bad jester for children too. Arguments or dialogues are better than separation. Why you thought like that, would have you a suitable argument?
Are you Samu of Mr. Ants? Welcome to you with your new Id. :)
I'm totally disagree with your statement, I've experienced something totally different than your statement. But if I'll mention here, i'll take this discussion to another direction. It's true that it really effects on children's brain if their parents not have a good relation between them. But it's wrong that when the child will grow up he/she will acts in same manners.
Syed Faisal Ali Bhai, Thanks to your comment. Wow! You're first on who disagree to the statement. What are your completely differ experiences about that statement, would you lie to share it? I'll welcome to your all arguments.
Nidhi Taneja There is my pleasure! thanking to you liked discussion.
Children, when they were young, tend to imitate the behaviour and words uttered by their parents. They are learning that way. So if at the tender you age, they were being exposed with some form of abuse by their parents, be it physical, verbal or mental abuse, they will tend to repeat the same cycle when they are older. Then it will become a vicious cycle.
Thus, you are right. The best lesson a father can teach his kids is by example, by showing love and affection to their mother.
Nice discussion, Sono.
Miss noaslpls, thanks a lot to your encouraging participation. Children generally learn everything to their elders or parents. We all learn from life. When a child is born, he is not capable of doing anything. He depends on his parents for all of his needs. He starts learning everything from his parents. Well, Let me ask a question to you, Why don't mostly children respect parents anymore in this era?
You are right Sono, when the father treats the mother kindly and respectfully, children have a good feeling and they are in peace, on the contrary, when he is fighting her wife, children become depressed, and this has a bad effect on their future life.
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