What is your reaction when a mistake is committed? Do you confess when you make a mistake and correct it or you just find a justification for your wrongdoings that they are right? Suppose you are the second type of person, would you prefer to change or continue like that? To admit the right even if it is against you is a virtue. Admitting a fault is a kind of courage, some people think so. The arrogance of other people forbids them from doing so. They think it is a kind of cowardice. Thanks for your help.
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Vanakkam mod. Nadira! No need to hide. The truth is always there. Of course, honesty is the best way. "Yes, I forgot the kettle to boil. That was the reason of the fire. Yes, it is my mistake." Admitting that people will evaluate your state. They might even be sympathetic with you. Thanks, mod. Nadira.
IT is healthier to admit a mistake . As one should not feel scared or intimidated to any one . Through circumstances sadly people try to hide their mistakes .. Honesty is any way the best policy
Main tum ku itifaq hoon, Rekha! I agree with you. I will start from the last lines of your beautiful comment. Committing a mistake is not the problem, but ignoring them and continue to do so is the real problem.
I am glad that you are not a selfish person. Many people, because of their egos do not admit their wrong behavior. That destroys them. Nice comment! I really enjoyed your sincere words. Thank you.
Really i feel sorry for the mistake i commit. I dont want to see anyone hurt because of me. I never hesitate to apologise from the people i love. Sometimes it happens when i realise that i was right there and mistakes was done from the other but still i have the courage to say sorry because i value the relationship more then my ego Nd this works like miracles .In this way you will never lose your loved ones. i am the person who loves to learn from the mistakes and feel good if someone else make me realize abt my wrong doing . I pay thanks to them because they gave me opportunity to improve. People who dont accept there mistake because of ego do wrong with themselves . Commiting mistakes is not wrong but by egnoring them repeating them again is a blunder.
ThNks for the nice topic
Shookrun ya Muhtadi, Thanks for pressing the like button.
I'm with him Dear Dara... (^_^)
Kamu mencentai keluargmu, mod. Onee. The family is something else concerning this topic. Each one is doing his best for the other. For instance, you will not allow others to say that against your mother or your sister. So, you carry that and cofess that it is your mistake. Did I miss your trail? Once more, many many thanks, mod. Onee.
Kamu tidak membanggkan dirimu sendiri, mod. Onee. Everyone knows that our moderator Onee Chan is a humble kind person. I have never noticed you losing your temper or using harsh or bad words against anyone. Although, some behave in strange ways. This a testimony from me to you and of course, most of the members will agree to that. However, admitting an error may depend on certain circumstances. Glory or prestige forbid people to confess their wrongdoings. You were not boasting or praising yourself, but you were stating facts about yourself. Thanks, mod. Onee for your frank comment.
In the family.....sometimes, I confess mistakes which are not mine. ^^
Dear Dara,,
Most people preserve their prestige and could hardly admit the mistakes, moreover to the younger......
I'm happy to admit/confess mistakes without considering age, InshaAllah. Even if people do mistake to me, and never even confess, I have no hard heart. When they greet me happily even without apology....I may greet them better. )))
Do I boast myself.. ^^ Sorry.
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