Does the marriage end the private life of the spouses ? Do kids take whole the time of mothers that prevent them to have a free space, to enjoy life ?
As I am a married woman and have kids, I think that I am struggling to have free space, free time, to read, do sports, and do childhood hobbies.
I missed my free time before marriage, when I was more punctuated, masterminded, and easy-going.
So please, give me your opinion
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I think marriage means my life would be shared to another, not only my wife but also my children. As a result, my private life including space, time, hobbies would be sacrificed in some ways to my family and vice versa, I live with happiness receiving from being a daddy, a hubby.
Any coin has two sides and any happiness has its price. In case private life is something so important that you need it to sustain your living inspiration, talking with your family members should be taken into account. Cheers!
you are right dear :p
for me I'm still single but I see the marriend women suffring to have a spare time, or have a rest to do their hobbies or practising sports ...
but I think that it deppending on the organization of the time ... that all what can I say ,,,I'll confirm that when I'll try it sooner inshAllah
IT all DEPENDS on WHO is ur MAN ..
No, marriage does not end the private life of any of the spouses as I believe. Although, kids take much time, coz they need our time considering the age of the child as we needed when we were at that age. However, we can make some strict schedule through which we can have some sort of time (which you want as a private life). Otherwise, I do not think that it requires any effort to get time to enjoy the private life.
I mean, you can enjoy your private life and get engaged in childhood hobbies simultaneously taking care of children. That's it. Actually, giving quality time to our children is a great duty of any parent, I think.
Cool Boy
yes no free time .. not this much and enough .. always shout .. showering .. feeding ,, etc
so if i would marry i would choose get children if allah wants :) .. after years to enjoy life and arrange life to this child :)
yea camilla , I think so .... but I'm not complaining, they are my whole life , but I'm complaining my time that no space or no free time. sure, I should manage my time to enjoy my own privacy... that's all .
dear Camilla, sure everyone can choose his way in life but finally, we will get married and have our own life after marriage. So, most of our privacy will arrest by our duties toward kids and husband . But the Question is : how we can manage our life then ...
thank you
I'm so sorry , It's private not privet
great reply ,i agree with you
thank you zack.
good answer zack , thank u you , u satisfied me by ur answer... I believe that my kids have the first propriety in my life , but I wonder how I can manage my time between my propriety toward my kids and husband and toward my private life. while they take whole my time ... However , I love my noble job toward them, It's my message in my life
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