Does the marriage end the private life of the spouses ? Do kids take whole the time of mothers that prevent them to have a free space, to enjoy life ?
As I am a married woman and have kids, I think that I am struggling to have free space, free time, to read, do sports, and do childhood hobbies.
I missed my free time before marriage, when I was more punctuated, masterminded, and easy-going.
So please, give me your opinion
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IT all DEPENDS on WHO is ur MAN ..
yes no free time .. not this much and enough .. always shout .. showering .. feeding ,, etc
so if i would marry i would choose get children if allah wants :) .. after years to enjoy life and arrange life to this child :)
yea camilla , I think so .... but I'm not complaining, they are my whole life , but I'm complaining my time that no space or no free time. sure, I should manage my time to enjoy my own privacy... that's all .
dear Camilla, sure everyone can choose his way in life but finally, we will get married and have our own life after marriage. So, most of our privacy will arrest by our duties toward kids and husband . But the Question is : how we can manage our life then ...
thank you
I'm so sorry , It's private not privet
good answer zack , thank u you , u satisfied me by ur answer... I believe that my kids have the first propriety in my life , but I wonder how I can manage my time between my propriety toward my kids and husband and toward my private life. while they take whole my time ... However , I love my noble job toward them, It's my message in my life
both we agree with zack :)
Yea, Oriani I know that it's important to talk with husband about that and he knows what I feel .... but the problem is : how we can arrange our time to have privacy