The idea of the debate came to me while I was chatting with the distinguished lady, Bet. The subject is not new; it is about marrying more than one wife. God said, ((And if you fear to deal justly with orphan girls, you can marry a woman of your choice, two, and three, and four. If you are afraid to be just, take one…)). Therefore, our religion did not make polygamy obligatory or encouraged it, only in certain cases and for certain reasons.
Will two women make a man happy? Suppose, he has three, will he be happier? What about four? These are rare cases for us, the men. In case of money and ability to do so.
One woman is enough to make her man happy. By the way, I used to have four but not at one time. I could not feel that happiness or the peace of mind. Some men might have one wife and three or four secretly. Is that right? Of course, the matter is different from one community to the other. It is a long story, but the members can give some help.
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HAHAHA. Thank you Dara for your support. Of course, the team is better but I hope I am strong as well to protect myself . ))))
Unfortunately, my English is not good and i am not a native speaker but I will try hard to improve it step by step and take a part in other disputes.
Chomo ya tut, Svetlana? Why am I here? I am here to help others doing that. Many teachers are happy to help a beautiful lady, like my friend Lana. Your English is good so far. Teacher Tanya will be with you if the handsome Danny tries to play with his tail. Did you hear his last comment on Polygamy? He said that he didn't mind having more. Lol! I hope the lovely teacher wouldn't see that. Thanks Lana for your reply to the respected teacher about Polygamy.
Hahaha. I love your sense of humor dear Dara. You always raise my mood. Also, I like to read your blogs and discussions.
English is my favorite hobby and I like teacher Tanya too much. Her lessons are so useful for me. And as a diligent student I will be happy to get any help from all teachers.
Maybe maybe. "hungry and thirsty". thank you for your wishes. Have a good time too.
Tak sprahu, Svetlana! Thirsty for these things together makes it. Mr. Clark knows it. I hope to be one of his friends. Thanks Lana for your understanding about Polygamy.
My pleasure. You know dear Dara, as for me, All is well that ends well. If people are happy it doesn't matter one wife or many of them, one husband or many men. The most important is to stay human beings.
as you have said it is not obligatory in Islam to have four wife at the same time, but it is not forbidden also,any how it is possible in certain cases , i my self prefer to have only one women in all time and i grow old in age with her,i have witnessed many polygamy cases and rarely they live happy live always they have problems that emerge from their polygamy life , even if wife are satisfied by that type of life their sons will not. and that created struggle within the big family ...
waooooo!!!!!!
that's a great piece of work on reality-based,,,,u 've made a very good attempt on a modern-day phenomenon,,,, carry on n all our best wishes r with u!!!!
Adults have to take their's choice about marriage.
Two husbands or four wives it does not metter.
Nobody must get married in spite of himself /herself (parents have not to compel to marrage)
It is hard to discuss this topic and judge someone. Many people, many opinions and different situations.
My point of view is all is well what makes people happy.
It doesn't matter one or two wives. Especially, If they accept that. The matter is to make your life and life of your close people fine and don't hurt anyone. I am sure it is possible to love two persons even with different love. Anyway, we are owners of our lives. No one can make it better than we can do.
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