The idea of the debate came to me while I was chatting with the distinguished lady, Bet. The subject is not new; it is about marrying more than one wife. God said, ((And if you fear to deal justly with orphan girls, you can marry a woman of your choice, two, and three, and four. If you are afraid to be just, take one…)). Therefore, our religion did not make polygamy obligatory or encouraged it, only in certain cases and for certain reasons.
Will two women make a man happy? Suppose, he has three, will he be happier? What about four? These are rare cases for us, the men. In case of money and ability to do so.
One woman is enough to make her man happy. By the way, I used to have four but not at one time. I could not feel that happiness or the peace of mind. Some men might have one wife and three or four secretly. Is that right? Of course, the matter is different from one community to the other. It is a long story, but the members can give some help.
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Hahaha. I love your sense of humor dear Dara. You always raise my mood. Also, I like to read your blogs and discussions.
English is my favorite hobby and I like teacher Tanya too much. Her lessons are so useful for me. And as a diligent student I will be happy to get any help from all teachers.
Maybe maybe. "hungry and thirsty". thank you for your wishes. Have a good time too.
Tak sprahu, Svetlana! Thirsty for these things together makes it. Mr. Clark knows it. I hope to be one of his friends. Thanks Lana for your understanding about Polygamy.
My pleasure. You know dear Dara, as for me, All is well that ends well. If people are happy it doesn't matter one wife or many of them, one husband or many men. The most important is to stay human beings.
as you have said it is not obligatory in Islam to have four wife at the same time, but it is not forbidden also,any how it is possible in certain cases , i my self prefer to have only one women in all time and i grow old in age with her,i have witnessed many polygamy cases and rarely they live happy live always they have problems that emerge from their polygamy life , even if wife are satisfied by that type of life their sons will not. and that created struggle within the big family ...
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that's a great piece of work on reality-based,,,,u 've made a very good attempt on a modern-day phenomenon,,,, carry on n all our best wishes r with u!!!!
Adults have to take their's choice about marriage.
Two husbands or four wives it does not metter.
Nobody must get married in spite of himself /herself (parents have not to compel to marrage)
It is hard to discuss this topic and judge someone. Many people, many opinions and different situations.
My point of view is all is well what makes people happy.
It doesn't matter one or two wives. Especially, If they accept that. The matter is to make your life and life of your close people fine and don't hurt anyone. I am sure it is possible to love two persons even with different love. Anyway, we are owners of our lives. No one can make it better than we can do.
Ya Tuhan, Diah! Mashaa Allah, a complete blog about Polygamy. I would come back later to answer you. It is about time for prayer here. I just want to say thanks for this nice intervention on Polygamy.
Tidak, anda belum melakukannya, Diah. Let me start answering with that nice sentence, ( They marry another young sexy lady fresh from the oven.) I really like that very much. To tell you the truth, I always like to eat or have something fresh from the oven. Nevertheless, we have to put in mind the consequences of that. Look at the lady in Jakarta. She was married to a rich man. She took drugs and had sex with many different guys. Here polygamy means oppression. This husband was not fair to that wife. He left her for weeks and months maybe. The main reason for polygamy was broken. I also agree with you, no woman likes to have another woman sharing her husband. It could be in rare cases. Like the inability to give birth, or old age. In certain circumstances, the wife might tell her husband to marry another woman so that he can have children. Of course, in this case, it is good for all of them. I just wanted to tell you that some wives are very patient in such cases. That was a good and nice intervention. I really liked it. Thanks Diah for your nice story about that lady in Jakarta. It showed a real example for polygamy.
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