The idea of the debate came to me while I was chatting with the distinguished lady, Bet. The subject is not new; it is about marrying more than one wife. God said, ((And if you fear to deal justly with orphan girls, you can marry a woman of your choice, two, and three, and four. If you are afraid to be just, take one…)). Therefore, our religion did not make polygamy obligatory or encouraged it, only in certain cases and for certain reasons.
Will two women make a man happy? Suppose, he has three, will he be happier? What about four? These are rare cases for us, the men. In case of money and ability to do so.
One woman is enough to make her man happy. By the way, I used to have four but not at one time. I could not feel that happiness or the peace of mind. Some men might have one wife and three or four secretly. Is that right? Of course, the matter is different from one community to the other. It is a long story, but the members can give some help.
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Oi again, Dara, sadiqi
That's really cool that you would like to speak my language, but telling the truth, I have enough hearing how so many of our dear chatterboxes in EC chatroom take the liberty to mutilate the fine language of Shakespear that it would really be an agonising experience for an old goat like me if over that I should have to witness how my dialect is being gleefully screwed up...if you get what I have in mind.
I would recommend you to get an attractive lady to help you with the ups and downs of the Polish grammar and phonetics.....but I rest perfectly sure that the gender difference would not only encourage the process of learning but also mitigate the cumberness of this process.
Coming back to our innitial subject - poligamy - I dare say that few ladies would be apt to have more than one husband for the simple reason that having more dirty socks and stinky underwear to wash would not be their cup of coffee..... ;-)
Wish you all the best - not only in your everyday affairs but also in acquiring further knowledge, no matter what field it is in.
Jainki Rysperski! I will do according to your advice and find a lady to help me in learning the Polish Language, but that does not mean I am going to stop seeking your help from time to time. Your language is not that difficult and it needs time to sit and learn.
Regarding polygamy, I agree with what you have stated there. Few ladies can do it. If you want my word for it, it is a headache. I am experiencing this now. I cannot stay without any problem from them for at least one month. Every time, they try to make something out of nothing. Thanks, Rys. for your nice and encouraging comment on polygamy.
Oi, Dara
Thanks again for maiming my lovely language!
Come on, we are old sadiqs and we know well enough what is galloping through our minds! :-).. I also have no prejudice towards any religion, no matter where...even in the furthest fringes of our Milky Way galaxy - You were kind to mention that God said what you took the liberty to quote and I, in return, made it explicit that the deity I have the honour to believe in, has never said anything of what you claimed God to have said, that's all....no inbetween the lines allusions.
Yeilki jeinki Rysperski! I honestly want you and some other Polish friends to help me to improve or rather let me say, learn how to speak your beautiful language properly. My Polish is zero. Going back to Polygamy, Of course, we have the liberty to be what we want and how many wives or husbands we have to choose. The complication is about the number of people, Rys. If you are two, you could be able to manage one another.
Being more than one wife is somewhat uncontrollable. Likewise, having more than one husband is a major problem in the coming future. Temporary, you could do it but not for a long time. I agree with you, from one community to the other, things might get slightly the other way round, but we still have that disagreement sooner or later. Rys. please, try to help me to learn some Polish sentences and gradually, I can improve. Thanks again for your comment on Polygram.
Daragio,,,Daragio
Your God says YES ,
rysperski's God says NO ,
My god says I do not KNOW,
your ways are not a good way ,
Directly goes to INFERNO !
AdrianO......
Perkei Adriano? Mi piasei il paradizu. Excuse my broken language. I really hope to go to heaven and live forever. Thanks for your comment on Polygamy.
Oi there, folks
What Allah said about marrying multiple women [my God did not say anything of this sort] reflected the social situation of women over a thousand years ago when the primitive, chauvinistic machos ruled to their whim and fancy.
Nonwadays women are 100% independent and self supporting in most civilised communities and do not have to rely on the fluctuating humours of some shamy macho. Today's woman hold top positions in almost all fields of our economic and industrial sphere, some even are ferocious fighter, whether be it in boxing, MMA or any other martial arts.
I would like to see one of these mysogenic machos meet face to face a heavy weight MMA female champion, fpr instance. a chinese one. :)
Jaisht ee yak she majch, Rysperski? As usual, forgive my broken Polish. You have raised many points here. According to the rules here, we have to respect the religions of others.
I personally respect other beliefs and faiths, feelings and religions as well. I was just trying to seek the opinions of others regarding this complicated relationship.
It is true that women today are very independent and they have taken great posts in their countries. When I mentioned the Quranic verse, I just wanted to explain its meaning and that we can marry more than one wife.
Notaclue, Vijay, Adriano go with the woman having more than one husband. Here, is a pure innocent question; can a woman marry two or three men at one time? Of course, I have seen that in daily life in some communities. Thanks, Rys for your nice comment on Polygamy.
For one moment I thought... hey, why not? Then came to my mind the burden only one can lead to so... no thanks, at least not with paperwork attached.
Ques es esto, Estanis? No te gusta! Lol, you can say, it is a temporary lust or desire for a certain time. Most people do not like to carry on with that for a long time. Don't you agree? Thanks for your diplomatic comment.
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