Does it matter to know what other's think?
Tell me the reason of your answer.
Thank you :)
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Does it matter to know what other's think?
Tell me the reason of your answer.
Thank you :)
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Thanks for your second reply and your advice as well. I am sorry for late answer, hehehe...
Have a pleasant weekend :D
arif saeed said:
To me, I do care for my sincere ones while doing anything. By doing so we pay respect to the relation. After all, we are social animal. Interaction within relation is a sign of humanity. Those who don't care for the close ones and relatives (the sincere) are the callous. I don't care for hypocrite, lair, and faked people who are afraid to face circumstances or express on his/her real face or real account.
Thinking too much about the thinking of others unnecessarily is the sign of psycho. If it is so, please see the psychiatrist. :)
abiba said:
What an awesome statements of yours, Eva :D
I am glad you take part on this discussion, your argument enrich my points of view in this case. I like your honesty and straigh words, because it filled by kindness and careness.
I do agree with you none can please and keep everyone happy, if yes some people have this ability, this live must be so boring because what makes our live colorful is not only happiness, but also sadness, anxiety, doubt, fear, and so on.
This is scared me a bit “living our lives controlled by what others might think” I couldn’t imagine how it feels, but in my oppinion, this case is still exist, and usualy some people please some others to gain profit from that person, isn’t this bad?
As long as we do good thing, no need to be afraid of what people think. I am going with you in this case, “those are the people who should matter, those are the people who would think certain things and speak them out loudly, caring about your feelings and your well being, and mostly to guide you and to protect you.”
Actually this is my problem, I hope you don’t mind if I asked you this question. How do you feel if your close person, who always care, guide and protect you, suddenly turned back and left you behind? This point bring me down and I start to question my self, do I need to care of what others think? Especially people around me, because I wasn’t so aware of this case before. Yah, care or not, close person or not, the decision is theirs. What can I say unless accept it with a wide chest.
Thanks for your participation. :)
Dear Effendi
Based on my question, people would automaticaly assume ‘others think about ME’ or their selves, because it’s very rare thing someone wonder what does people think about somebody else, and if it happens, usualy it comes back to our anxiety. For example, I wonder what people think about my friend if she behaves like that? You see there is “if” over there, shows my anxiety who afraid of the impact of my friend’s behaviour.
I agree with you, sometimes it’s important, not always. I understand the point “don’t like to do a work which creates other’s suspicion”, yeah, that’s one of our efforts to avoid people think bad about us, but in the end it is on their hand whether they think good or bad, we just try our best.
Thanks for your participation, Yemeni,
Cheers!!! :)
About who !?
If you mean "Does it matter to know what others think about me ?"
I will reply: Yes, it is important to me what others think about me. Although every body thinks in a particular way and the personalities are different, but I don't like to do a work which creates others' suspicion and bad thinking about me except the work which Allah has said. But bad thinking, can be either logical and reasonable or irrational. Here I meant the former one.
Thanks for sharing that nice topic
Mishaikh said:
I do not care what others think in real or virtual. I am what I am, I do have my own personality. So it doesn't matter my much, and I do not want to know what I am being considered in other minds.
Due to all respect, Mr Saeed
Your explanation almost blown up my mind and makes my tiny brain exploded, lol xD
Alright, let me tell you my motive initiated this discussion. Last night I was talking to my brother about my virtual friend who stopped talk to me. Maybe my brother noticed I was thinking too much about another person so he threw me that question, does it matter to know what others think? I said no, but if it’s about my close friend, it is yes. In the end, he advice me to not overthink about it. That’s it!
So, I was wonder what people would said relate to that question and I found your answer at first place, it’s priceless. After I replied you bringing EC name, you drove me into another direction, interesting, Sir! And i think I need to make my self clear.
The way you digressed the point of my reply shows you think other negatively.
I am sorry if I made you think I digressed the point of your reply, my poor English and lack of knowledge. Once again, sorry. I think negatively? I am both positive and negative, lol xD
Talking about heterogeneous people, I do agree with you. I even think that my family also heterogen, because everyone is unique and special on their own. The matter is how we treat them, I personally look at them in the same way and yet treat them differently, based on their act towards me.
This is the most intriguing point “but normally what happen we pay respect to opposite sex and rarely mind whatever they argue, but worry about roar of the same sex whether you are male or female,” you maybe right, sir. But this is not always happen, especially on me, I respect to all people and mind about their argue, that’s why I replied you this long. I respect you as the guest of my discussion without even checking your gender, and I am not worry about anything no matter it’s coming from same or opposite sex. Because I believe of what you said “you have to prove your identity by following your own path and the way of life rather then chasing distinctive society. The broad-minded always welcome you and try to understand you the way you argue and discuss the matters” and I believe I am not alone in this case :)
Thanks you so very much for taking part on this discussion. If you still have anything in your mind, feel free to let me know.
Have a great day!!!:)
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