It is about the house of old people. In our society, we take our old mother or father there. We are able to support them but still, we take them there to spend the rest of their life. They did their best to raise us and to bring us to the society. When they become old we take them to those places. It is a curious way to repay them. Of course, exceptional cases are there.
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Bahut shukriya White Knight! Aap deko Md Abbace's comment. God connected his (tagwa) with the being kind to your parents. It is a great shame to let my mother or father go to that house. I am in a good health and financially, I could support them. Believe me, it is just a big shame. You have also mentioned the weakness in her body while our mother carries us in her womb. Thanks White Knight for your meaningful comment.
Nanndree mod. Nadira! I have said this before, it is just like paying a debt. Those parents work hard to raise me and bring me a useful person for the society. Shall I pay them back like that? Your point is quite right, the parents also should cultivate some love, respect and other emotional habits. Thanks mod. Nadira for a useful participation.
Main tum ku itifaq hain, Md Abbace. Lekin kiya karega. Allah taala, excuse me, let me continue in English. My Urdu is very bad. Allah, The Almighty connected his worship with the being kind to your parents. That means unless you are good to your parents, your obedience to Him is not enough. I am glad you have explained everything on your nice and useful comment. Thank you.
Sadly they do not appreciate the sacrifice the parents have done
Every thing should not be given to a child
They should be disciplined and know the efforts the parents put through .
The parents too should have a close bondage with their child emotionally/ physically and spiritually ..
First of all old age homes basically is a source of shelter and care for the old people where food is available to the old people but as we are Muslim and our Islam teaches us to do care of parents and respect them .so old age homes is a curse for our Islamic society. Islam favours about the care and respect of parents and says about to be servant of parents.
As in Quran Allah says in surah Ban-e-Israel.
And your God says that do not worship any other except him and deference your parents, if any one or both of them go to old age in front of you, do not rebuked on them and talked with them respectably.
(Surah ban-e-Israel ayah 23)
In this ayah Allah says about the respect of parent, trained us with many moral values and we throw them in old age homes on the support of other people as we know that they could not take better care of them than us. It is unpleasant source that falls the new generation in eyes of our parents. Old age homes are a curse for us this is what I am thinking.Thanks!
Dear Nik, khaili mumnoon! Thanks for pressing the like button. Could I be one of your friends? Thanks.
Terima kasih banyak Kamas Wood. I really respect your point of view. We have to blame them. Imagine the persons who were the cause of your presence in this life, had to be in that old age and they needed you the most, what would you do. It is a matter of paying back. Thank you, Kamas.
we dont do it in my country i think.. dont want to blaming people who do this, but they who did it, should to rethink it
Maraming salamat Risty! Thanks Risty for pressing the like button of that discussion.
Khaili mumnoon Muhammad! I definitely agree with you. If the child is raised correctly, he or she will never think of such a shameful act. Some of them say, (Uf, my father is giving me a headache). Thanks Muhammad for your frank comment.
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