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Offensive People :(

Posted by hayat :) on September 25, 2017 in General Discussion

             Today  , I got offened  by someone   . I know that she lacks social skills  for good  communication  . But the whole matter  hurt me alot . Why are some false sumgs  throw their inner  accumulated trash can on others  , why don't  they just leave u alone 

       I decided  to write  a what's up massage  to her  , but than I thought  ignoring the whole silly  things is far more better  ? 

               What makes  people attack each others  ? Why is bulliness  ??? How can we overcome  such let me say daily problem  ??? Or cast these people  out side our life for ever ? Should we escape  from them  ?? Or face them and get use to it ?? When , How ??

                 My problem  is that I don't know  how to be mean , filthy  or mean ?? I can't

 say bad things  :( 

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  • Warda February 10, 2018 23:24

    Aww... I am sorry that you had to deal with such sick minded people. To be very honest, I personally have learnt to be indifferent to such people. I ignore them. As if they do not exist. But if they are someone who I deal with on daily basis, I reply to them as mischievously! Every now and then when it is too much that I have tolerated, I do give polite sarcastic replies so that they stop it and I try to avoid them as much as it is possible. If it’s someone really very important, and not many people are that important in my life, I try to understand and confront them. Other than that, I don’t let them bother me. But they do get to me sometimes. 

    I know it hurts sometimes.... I can’t understand the reason behind their sick remarks. But well... what do you expect from sick people? 

    Do not let such people take away your smile Dear Rosemary! ;) 

    Stay Blessed. 

  • hayat :) October 16, 2017 14:14

    Thanks  dear Onee - chan :) 

  • Onee-chan October 16, 2017 8:36
    This serious problem can only be solved by the victim. Where we can stand by ourselves, no body can hurt you. Yeah, agree with Rose that an offender will lose their interest in bullying if the victims don't care much. I tell you secret Rosemary. You can do this.....:))

    Smirking.... :D
  • hayat :) September 30, 2017 7:45

       Thanks dear Diah  , for all ur supportive  words and backup  . I am really  grateful  my dear friend  :) 

  • hayat :) September 30, 2017 7:13

        Thanks  knight  , I'll  take ur advice into  my consideration  , and keep my positive energy  all the time  :)

  • Diah September 30, 2017 3:56

    hey Rosemary, 

    Quoting from Taylor Swift's song lyrics

    "So don't you worry your pretty little mind,
    People throw rocks at things that shine,
    And life makes love look hard,
    The stakes are high,
    The waters rough,
    But this love is ours"


    So, they who offend you are getting envy because you are shine. If I were you, I will use a sarcastic words and give a fake smile or laugh, give my best sharp glance to those people, and the last thing is being silent. The reason is I don't want them to do the same with others, so I prefer give them a learn of their action. Cheer up, dear! They ain't even deserve any loves. 

  • White Knight September 29, 2017 19:54

    Hey Rosemary , dont worry , u  should stay motivated and keep smiling like u always do , dont let the behaviour of others loose ur positive energy .

  • hayat :) September 29, 2017 16:58

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  • hayat :) September 29, 2017 16:56

       Thanks Mishaikh  

  • hayat :) September 29, 2017 16:56

       Thanks dear for sharing  ur point of view  with me here and for all of ur concerns about me :)

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