The marriage of minors or underage is growing rapidly on these days. Because of poverty or any other lack of substantial matters, people marry their children, they are girls of age between seven, eight or up to twelve or thirteen. If you go to refugee camps, the matter is bigger than you can imagine. For the lack of food, shelter or education, people marry their girls. Some of these girls do not know what marriage is. Greedy ones are taking the advantage of the situations. Those who are rich offer their money for a nine-year-old girl. To add more petrol to the fire, there are some people who arrange these marriages, taking the need of the family and the demand of the other side who wants to satisfy his desire.
Is it because of poverty, the absence of conscience or the wars?
Is there any remedy for this matter?
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Halet chetore Mohammad? Lack of wisdom, lack of reason. I told my friends, Prabhat and engineer Khan about it. The men who passed fifty or sixty like to go back to be young again. In order to do so, they marry a child of twelve or thirteen. The old and bad habits should be forgotten. At the age of nine or say, thirteen, the child is not yet ready to perform sexual acts. If you marry her at that age, you can keep her until she is ready for it. Minimum, when she reaches fourteen or fifteen. Thanks, my dear good friend for your nice intervention!
dara gino said:
Oh Dara, unfortunately is really happening. My heart breaks when i listening something like this. Soو you have touched with all boldness a very important subject that many people fear to talk about it. I agree with you about poverty, the absence of conscience and the wars but i add some thing is the legal deterrence. If there is a good responsable that manage this refugee camps, i don't think this can happing.
I ask God help them
Your brother for ever Abdel Kader
Khaili mumnoon doste khobam! I shall answer you after I finish praying. Thanks in advance Mohammad!
★ Muhammad A. said:
lack of wisdom is the main problem.
Here in Iran, most of the girls marry around 18-20 years old or more.
But it's true that this problem exists in every corner of the globe.
but it's also right that bad culture makes it worse like pre-Islamic Arabian Culture which unfortunately exists today.
Shiksha, jee, main samajgiya mukhy karaak hain. I told engineer khan, a minute ago that education can be among the factors too. Most readers pressed on the lack of education factor. It's important for us all. Thanks, Prabhat for your time and comment!
Prabhat said:
Engineer Khan, main aap sei sahamat hoon. Gareebee bahut mushkel hain. Poverty can be the main factor, but what about unsatisfied desires. I mean we after we reach fifty and sixty, we want a child. I guess it's just like going back to be young again or some psychotic idea in our head. Thanks, engineer Adrees for your nice comment!
Engr.Adrees Khan said:
Talking about proverty it's not solving this matter parents should be aware of this
they should be conscience about this
it's all about lack of education
according to me.! as u mention above that "add petrol to the fire" the parents who ever did this will drastically faced high quality problem. but the main factor is poverty.
Spasibo Refill! Quite logical and reasonable too. They say, the sooner the better. I can go with that. Thirty and twenty are close. Thanks Refill for your nice advice!
refill said:
Aku pikir begitu, Kurniati. Pendidikan haruz. Perkawinan minor tidak bagus. Less knowledge and poor education are a big problem. They really lead to this bad criminal habit. Thanks, Kury for your nice comment!
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