Hey, I want to know your opinion. Why do people want to chat but don't want to be friends?
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Hey, I want to know your opinion. Why do people want to chat but don't want to be friends?
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Oh, I see. Now I got the picture. :) Thanks for your comment. It really helps. :)
LOL, it's me again. Just wanted to say that sometimes I also admit the fact that mostly this kind of people send a friend request to the ones whom they find interesting (from their profiles at least if not from chats) and whom they don't want to lose afterwards if these people may change their nicks or pics; And they don't send this request - even if they are attracted by - to the ones who appear online daily and are well kept in view, so there is no "danger" to lose them :) (Well, it's my style, always to look for some excuses for someone's weird conduct, lol)
Lol! Thanks for your opinions, Charos. I have made a decision: after three times they chat with me and they still don't add me, I simply ignore them in the next chat. Well, it doesn't mean pushing "ignore" button (unless they say something bad), but I won't reply them anymore. :) What about you?
LOOOOOOOOOOOOL cool! But as of me, it depends on each person who start to talk to me. I generally visit their profiles already during the chat, and you know, it's sometimes really enough to have a clear view of their personality and (even) intentions :-) . If I feel that we cannot have anything in common ever, I just ignore them. :-)
Hi Chandra,
I think that in case of not adding as friend after 1st and only one chat the reasons for that might be lack of trust or divergence of interests/opinions or even (and mostly, lol) just a wish to chat with no strings attached, IMHO based on my observations (I'm also like you, can't ignore some people who start to chat). But if it happens over and over again without adding, I also find it weird, I guess maybe they have something to hide or fear something yet cannot resist chatting again? lol
Cheers :-)
I do the same thing with the people you mentioned. My intention is to know if the strangers I chat with can be good friends or not. There are stranger randomly come to chat in my private, sometimes I respond them and try to find out who they are. If I think they are nice and fun, I'll add them as my friends.
That's understandable. And I'm sure if you don't like them you won't chat with them anymore. Right?
It would depend on why I don't like them. If I see they are rude, join in useless chats, like to bully other members, etc I will definitely take a distance from them. Sometimes, I notice that these strangers stop to chat with me. I guess they think I'm boring.
The great thing about this club is you don't have to add people as your friends, but you still be their friends and communicate with them via private chat or public chat. It sounds funny, but that's what happening here mostly. Being friends with some people for a year, but haven't added them on your friends list.
"Being friends for a year but haven't added them". Sounds strange. I won't do it.
Sure, we can. I just accepted you. What I meant was they probably didn't like her/him (or us, if they talked to us) so they didn't add her/him/us. But the funny thing was they kept talking to her/him/us. And that's what we're trying to find out in this discussion. Do I make myself clear now?
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