If asked again would you make the same decisions in your life that you have made so far?
Don’t you regret anything you’ve done in your life?
As for me I do! There have been many times that I felt myself against the whole world ! Whenever I have to face with two or more options , decisions to be made on my own, I feel scared. It’s not that I am a weak person and don’t have enough of confidence to make any decisions. I feel as if it is a constant uphill battle with no end in sight. You may think ‘’Yes , it is life!’’.Everyday is more of the same feeling of frustration, helplessness and desperation, I cry and wish that it will all go away , but it remains, the pain and all that remains there inside me. So how can I gather any strength to go on any more?
I know this is the hardest thing to be able to overcome any obstacle that destiny or life itself puts me face to face with . I know also that I SHOULD have the determination and endurance to successfully defeat the most insurmountable challenges of life , because I should be strong not only for me but also for my kids!
I think everyone should find someone or something to live for, because we cannot live just for ourselves, if I have thought that I live only for myself then the obvious ‘’near end’’ would not seem so far….
Honestly , my advice is to you and especially to my own self too , ‘’live the present day and don’t regret anything you’ve done, regret only what you have NOT done’’. What do you think about all this?
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I do not regret of my life or the choices I took in my past, but as you say, there were some ways I didn't take or things that I haven't done which I do regret, now I think to myself "how stupid I've been" "I wish I could back in time". In my country there is a said: "A lo hecho pecho", something like: "you must go on"
Anyway I'm not in best moment in life now and maybe that's why I wonder how I haven't done lot of things in the past but I must also be strong not only for me but my children and their happiness.
I agree Bianca, we NEED someone/something to live for, that's the power of our lifes
Thanks very much for your advice, I'll take it on mind :)
dear Estanis im Happy you liked my point of view....have a lot of luck and may the happy moments of your life be more than now.
Yes, live the present day, learn the lesson from what you have done wrong so far, mend and prepare yourself for the future.
Don't forget, human being is meant to err being weak, repent is the remedy to overcome the regret of error done in life. This is a cycle process, it goes on and on.
May Allah bless you, and give you prosper and healthy life.
thank you for the blessings..and the comment