Let me recall my memory.
Yes, she was not a very attractive girl. Very thin and not very attractive. I had to encourage and praise her so that she could catch up on her studies and get rid of her gloom. I made her be convinced that she is beautiful within her own personality.
And I was surprised that she really started to look beautiful and attractive.
How far is it possible or it was just my imagination?
You are welcome to opine.
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saba said:
My friend, be sure that, lovely words are a great cosmetic surgery for any woman. My best for you.
Dear Mishaikh,
it's a good question. I really don't know if people really change their appearance, but if they like themselves, then they glow more from inside and also we notice them differently. People which have a positive self-awarness, feel more comfortable with themselves. That has also an impact how others see them. I don't speak only about females. I think that's equal for everyone. Our self-awarness isn't of course, we have to develop it and we are even a little depend on others opinion even if we don't like admitting it. Nobody tells the truth when he says he doesn't care what others opinion is. Don't understand me wrong, I don't want to say we define ourselves through others. But everyone should be honest to himself ... we like more to get positive reaction in terms of us than bad ones.
The next point is how we define attraction or beauty. There are many varied different tastes. Beauty is always a combination between appearance and our inside. Someone who isn't that beauty but with a good character and a lovely soul is able to attract us more than a beautiful face. Someone who hasn't human values and a common sense but a beautiful face will become boring very quickly.
You mentioned: "And I was surprised that she really started to look beautiful and attractive."
And you asked: "How far is it possible or it was just my imagination?"
Well, I think it was a mix of both. She started glowing from inside and you noticed it. You can say you saw her with different eyes than before.
Hi
Yes, it is possible. You told her and yourself that she is attractive, then both of you believed it.
Thanks for posting your opinion on the topic.
Narin said:
all love beauty but i think it is not only in appearance ,it can be in personality too .