I met one of my friends , and as all women on the earth usually do . We both talked in almost everything . I asked her . How she manges her social life . She answered me smiling . I am a hedghog :) mmmm that is the whole style of me dealing with others . Haven't u heard of it !? They say that in a cold wintery night . A group of hedgehogs were lost in a forest . They gathered in a circle so that , they dont get frozen . There thistles entwined and they screamed out of pain .After , dismantling their bodies , they came up with this style , they approached each other leaving empty spaces between each one and another . Thus , they will feel cozy , survive without hurting each other with their sharp pointed thistles , and u know what ? I found that their style is applicable for me . So , when it comes to people around me . I am not exceedingly that close nor that far . It is wise sometimes to keep limits between u and other people but keep ur relation with them at the same time . :)
My dear friends of the English Club . What about ur ways , style , skills , methods or personal stories of handling ur social life :) :) :)
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I have said " build ur forts everywhere " thanks for the 2 time dear :)
We are in the same boat, actually. However,, there are a few people that finally close to us. I remember you said in your old post that we must build the gates everywhere.., right? :)
Btw, I should agree with Mary,, Sir Josef make this category for introduction. :)
Well, I didn't think about it, but actually it would be very cool Rosemary! XD
@ Roman , thanks for showing ur point of view
@ Mary , :D :D :D Should I introduce myself as a hedghog !!!!??? Maybe
Uhm interesting comparison, thanks for explaining that 'hedgehog style' :)
Btw, Rosemary, I think you are posting your discussions by mistake in the category of 'Introduce Yourself', instead of 'General Discussions'...
Ah, one more thing. As I am not fluent in english, I like to answer the questions more than to ask the questions:) Especially if I know the answers)))
Hi Rosemary! Hedgehog style is very good! Your friend is wise! As for me, I don't know what I am doing:) I don't know if I have any style or skills. But in most cases I am peaceful and I don't like fights or intense discussions.