when you feel that all people around you putting you aside. and some people often think negatively about you whereas something in their mind is not true. so what will you do to solve this problem? I need some suggestions, thanks
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I am going through the same thing...
Hi Oriani
Hopefully we will figure out our problem as soon as possible.:)
hello Amira
it is nice topic and i think most of us pass through this one time.
At first you have to trust youself ,if people put you aside ,it doesn't mean that they are right.Second as way to improve yourself e, you have to improve your weak-points that may affect you negatively. last thing avoid to look for their impressions because this will make you looks confident. So go ahead in life with full confidence and am sure finally they will change their opinions about you.
hi White Rose,
thanks for your suggestion for me. I do agree with you. whatever other people say about me than the important thing for me isn't to listen to much on that but go ahead to be better person who can give benefit to other people around me.
The solution could be talking and putting the issue into discussion with the ones that are important to you.
Misunderstanding is inevitable sometimes, but you should keep calm and try to find the cause of misunderstanding. Then try to find a good way ,that suits your audience, to explain the matter to them.
Avoid talking angrily or emotionally. Some people just cry or get angry instead of trying to solve the problem.
Just one thing, you do not need to keep everyone pleased with you and your deeds and thoughts. Try to be yourself, not the one others want. Try to keep on the path of truth, no matter what other people might think of you.
But, if there are friends and beloved ones who get further from you, try to figure out why and try to fix the problem. You shouldn't lose good friends or relatives for minor issues. Sometimes, for the sake of the relationship, you may need to sacrifice some of your desires, but not the crucial beliefs. As long as possible, try to keep your friends.
Thanks for the discussion. It is discussing matters that help us learn and understand even what we've already known.
Have a good time.
:)
thanks for your suggestion Zahra. as human sometimes we forgot to not very emotional when we face problem. you remind me the important of how to keep our character when other people try disturb us. I think that this is the wise way to solve my problem. :)