sometimes we meet people and be happy to know them...then we don't believe this happiness so our souls creat doubts and qualms due to bad experiences may destroy our realtions with these people....so TELL ME..Why bad experiences affect usss in this bad way....How can we get rid of their effect and throw doubts away from our lives to live happily with friends or others happily...:):)
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hey karol,
yaaaaaa it happens to all of us.it's the rule of the life my darlin ..but i know when that happens what u feel exactly may be grief ,awful and loneliness :(((
almost ..the more u care ,the more u have to lose :(
i have my personal experience about that ..i lost them cuz i couldn't express my feeling by words but they never realized that some times words r not enough to describe the feeling ...but now i get it over still remember the memorizes but it's ok
so remember the 4 f to get the pain over...face ,feel, free and find
the 1st f is (face the fact of losing and accept it with it's consequences )
the 2nd f is (feel all of your feeling ...i mean hurt , cry , regret all of them )
the 3rd one (free ....free your soul of all thoughts that make u worse ...like (it was my fault ), (i hate the life ..can't trust in people again )..and so on ..throw all the negative awy :) )
last f (find yourself again :D )
tmtm..:):):):)
It's My pleasure to seeeeeeeeeeee you hereeeeee....welcome sis..:D
I liked your (f)..:D..They are very expressive and helpful....:):)
and unfortunately the sentence you said
the more you care,the more you have lost
is right..and i hate to admit that...but it's life not always fair..:):):)
Thank yooou very much for your comment and your helpful (4f) YA TMATMAYA..:D....Wish you the best always in your life sis..:):):):)
shabeen..:):)
I just smile when i see your comments on a blog or discussion of mine.They always cheer me up.I am really happy that you are back..:)
and you are right....gossips and rumors everywhere we just have to be awake to avoid them to be able to maintain our relations with people who give meaning to our lives..:)
Thank yoooooou shabeen very much for your precious wooooords....i really appreciate..:):):)
regret and hesitation !! that's the tricky part really :D
i think there is no fixed rule you just treat every body as an individual case and play it safe expect the worse till proven different
Zain ...:D!
Tricky part?!!..are you making fun of me.....heeeeey...show some respect it's a serious topic..:D..Kidding..:D
well.....nothing wrong with what you said...(but prevention is better than a cure.....because of that hesitation exists....but Thank yooooou for your opinion...I really appreciate...:D..
I think we should always learn from the past. And, it's good not to blame others just by seeing one individual's mistake. For example, if someone did something bad to you, don't spread that doubt to other people who have done nothing to you. It's not their fault that we have problem with ourselves. I think this is our problem that we have to fix it and to fix it, we should know what we have learned from past bad experiences. Sometimes we may be wrong and maybe our friends were right but we couldn't see it. Sometimes we may be right and therefore, we shouldn't repeat the mistake again.
Nafis.....:):):)
Yeah you are right.....we shouldn't blame the others on something they had nothing to do with....but as i said before ...it's a feeling you can't control...just that experience leave a mark and may ruin your life.....but i totally agree with yoooou..:):):)...bad experiences must be lessons for us not a way to torture our selves in life..:)
Thank yoooooooou very much for your valuable and wisdom words...i really appreciate..:):):)
dewi sartika..:):):)
Thank yoooooou very much...your words really cheer me up...they motivate me in agood way to be optimistic and squash any bad experience in my life .......ANd believe me your English isn't that bad...i got and felt every word you said.....your words are valuable to me...Thank yoooou..:):):)
Dear WMW........:):):)
Exactlyyyyy..you got the point i want to talk about......hesitation and regret.......i hate themmmm...you are always smart Wmw..:D...i was looking for these words..:D
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