I know that man and woman are created in different soul, body shape, etc. I know that they have different rules in society like "Woman should can cook for the family" or "Man should treat the woman gently".
Then what brings me into the discussion is when my mom said "A woman does not deserve to shout at home, so it can be heard by the neighbors".
Is it true? So woman does not deserve to shout while the man does? Please help me to understand this statement. I can't catch this correctly.
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No problem, Diah. Nice topic.
Diah said:
Hi!
Personally, I believe anyone is entitled to express their opinions, (whether its out of happiness or rage) and yelling/shouting is one of them, sometimes you just have to given there is a justifiable reason to shout. While in some culture, shouting is frowned upon I still think it depends on the person's belief.
I think shouting is something you shouldn't do both men and women, somehow It's very appropriate in some occasions and places like having fun with friends playing games with family.
Prohibit specifically to women is unfair in my opinion. In someway It make one more gentle and seem to be quite kind.
Obviously, Eman! Thanks for sharing your good opinion here
Eman said:
Hey, Luci! Yes, I agree. However, we need to release our stress of something because if it only be held in ourselves, it can be more harmful once it is release!
Luci said:
Oh well... i see it now. Thanks for the comment!
SaLeM said:
it is individual I would say and also sth related to your personality...some people can hardly control themself and shouting is totally normal for them :D anyway... I think both genders are equal and can shout as much as they can at each other till they don't hurt or kill themself and I even can assure you that it is healthy to scream out your emotiins instead of supressing your anger and pain inside of you :) to be obedient girl is nice but it might lead you to unbearable depressions - this is my point ;)
Rosemary! I wander how can you always find such great phrases of the famous peole around the world! I like it! I like this phrase very much! Thank you!
Rosemary said: