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  • Onee-chan February 26, 2015 5:35

    I agree with you Elf. Generally, mostly friendship of men is strong. Why? Because men think with logic, while women think with deep feeling and often so emotional. When they(men) are married, they will keep contact even after marriage. While women will have limited time to communicate with each other. Also, they (women) have some jealousy about social status. While men mostly don't really care about it.

    I think if some boys make a good friendship, it will be longer than girls do.

    • ELF-Noor > Onee-chan February 26, 2015 17:07

      Thanks Onee.. for sharing your view here in my Discussion List...=p

  • ELF-Noor February 25, 2015 17:37

    camel thanks for putting smile here .. but would you like to tell the reason of smile....:)

  • Lady Anne February 25, 2015 8:45

    Totally differs.  There is less competition if friendship is between a girl and a boy.  

    • ELF-Noor > Lady Anne February 25, 2015 17:35

      thanks for comments.. but how its differ...=p

  • Samuel February 24, 2015 22:32

    The important thing is how to choose a friend, if you choose the right friend for you,  in terms of social competence and morality, I think that this friendship will continue. I know a lot of friendships between girls since childhood are going on for many years more than friendship boys. There is no difference in the friendship between boys or girls. Thank you for Sharing.

    • ELF-Noor > Samuel February 25, 2015 7:56

      i am agree with you samuel. I have also a friend from childhood to till now we are best friend.. but if we see in generally ,(in my view) that mostly friendship of boys is strong.

      Thanks for sharing your view..

  • Mishaikh February 24, 2015 13:44

    It depends upon personalties, behaviours, understanding and tolerance found in both genders.  So female -female friendship has both extremes.  They can be good friends and bad, too.  If there is a mutual understanding and tolerance, their friendship is not affected by their arguments, such arguments with understanding even make the bond stronger.

    Same thing is with male-male friendship. Here it is possible that if there rise any misunderstanding and there is lack of comprehending eachother, this friendship may turn in to strong enimity.

    Certainly there are some elements who works behind to demassify the prevailing the atmosphere of friendship for their ulterior motive by raising argument and controversial discussions, which produces a very bad impact upon the behavior of the people and thereby damage their friendship no matter if they are male or female

    Our religion teaches us to keep (miana rawi) balance, following this there will be no problem in any aspect of life.

    • ELF-Noor > Mishaikh February 24, 2015 16:16

      you are right Mishaikh, its depends upon their behaviors.. but i think friendship of girls is normal, and friendship of boys has extremes; they can be strong friends or if they fight to each-other or due to some misunderstanding they can be dangerous enemy of each-other. but misunderstanding between girls may result in hating each-other but not in enemy.

      thanks for reply.. 

  • Luci February 24, 2015 11:49
    Yes, Elf.. in my opinion they differ. I know from own experience that if two girls have really tough argument, both get offended and will hardly ever talk to each other. Me and my best friend had tough argument two years ago and we totally stopped being in contact. I think boys are not like this, they can make up things in a few days. On the contrarery since girls are more emotional, I think friendship of boys don't have such strong bond...
    Thanx for this interesting topic ;-)
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