Is confidentiality important?
Is it possible to share someone's information without his/her knowledge and agreement?
Some members of the club reproached me for disclosing my personal experience of my second marriage in that discussion, (strange habits).
Can the lack of confidentiality cause stress or worry? The husband and the wife, do they have the right to reveal or disclose their confidential information? What about the secretary at work?
If a person is involved in serious crimes, can we disclose his confidentiality?
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Kiya haal hain Y2K? Sub sei paihili, main tum koo dost manta, mumkin? Your understanding of confidentiality is quite right. On the contrary, I like your analytic comment. It reveals many points. The timing is very important. Certain information must be kept secret forever, or at least I believe so. Could I be one of your friends? Thanks for your comment on confidentiality.
Main mujhei, Y2K. Me too, I hope we be good friends.Thanks for your valuable points about confidentiality.
Main mujhei, Y2K. Me too, I hope we be good friends.Thanks for your valuable points about confidentiality.
Bahut shukriya Mishaikh! Thanks Mr. Mishaikh for pressing the like button of confidentiality.
Hi Dara gina, there is nothing like "Confidentiality" but only the "TIMING". My understanding of "Confidentiality" means one should not reveal his "private" matters, either materialistic or non-materialistic, it doesn't' matter for a period of time (5 yrs/ 10 yrs/15/yrs or life time). You have to keep it secret.
Your time frame decides your "Confidentiality", and how long we have to keep it secret.
Confidential = Secretiveness = Private are more like related terms, but they highly influenced by TIME.
Eventually, one day will come and without your knowledge you will open up everything. It happens with everyone. Can't help at that time. If you take it to your heart then you are feeble to keep confidential things.
I am sorry if I'm going little deep in this topic, but this is the truth.
Khaili mumnoon, Fahime. As my friend, Pepe said, it not from the good manners to reveal or invade anyone's privacy. It is very bad to reveal the secrets between the wife and her husband. Thanks for your comment.
Dali e taka, Pepe? In that case, it is better to be very careful when you are in that chat room. Respect between people is very essential. We have to respect the privacy of our friends. Thanks Pepe for referring to that point. I guess the responsible people and the moderators will do something to prevent or rather to control that. Thanks again.
In all this there is also another aspect, this one.
What is more worrisome than those as described above, is this kind of behavior, secretly undermining another person;
There are people who stop at nothing, they just can not respect that you draw the line, they just keep asking and asking and asking even you repeatedly tell them over and over again, that you don’t want to share any kind of information with them, you didn’t even confirmed anything such person asked.
And then such persons start to jump to their own conclusions, assumptions, understandings, making up their own stories.
The whole story falls and ends there where you tell a person that you don’t want to share any information with them.
I must really say, it’s quite choking, I even don’t know whether such behavior is surprising or not.
Quite right Evangelina! There are nosy people. People who want to know and share your secret and valuable information with others without your agreement. As you mentioned, they just jump to their own conclusions, assumptions and not that but they make false stories to convince others about their own information. I can say one thing about those people, they are just sick. Thanks Eva for your nice analysis about confidentiality.