When we are born, we don't know a word to let our mom know how much we are hungry. For this, we cry as loudly as possible to draw attention of mother. By doing so, we meet our requirement. At this stage, there is nothing in our mind, but satisfying our nutritional needs. So, crying, at this stage, is the just and the easiest mean of meeting our demand.
As soon as we grow up, the fact reveals on us that we are not born for satisfying our nutritional needs merely. A part from this, there are so many pretty things we need to focus on. One of them is a relation. As we are surrounded with distinctive people such as family, friends, relatives, colleagues, etc., face all of them every day, cope with different situation, depending upon our way of communication. Now crying brings no effects on them nor does it help us make a good relation.
For strengthening relationship, the excellence in a language is a prerequisite. The excellent command over a language may lead to success in every walk of life. Estimates of a number of languages in the world vary between 6,000 and 7,000. The heterogeneous languages of the world are not only the miracle of The Creator but prettier thing also.
Whichever language we learn, we are taught four pillars such as reading, writing, listening and speaking. Writing and speaking is an output device, whereas reading and listening is an input device. Writing and speaking display nothing unless data fed by reading and listening, which enhance our cognitive ability as well.
So far as a co-relation between relationship and language is concerned, we experience that relations are broken off due to misderstanding. As everyone wants to be a good speaker without gaining perfect diction and dialect, which are required to express true emotions and feelings. Whereas, we listen others without patience, which helps us come to a better conclusion.
So, listening is the prettiest thing in a language, in terms of having the best relationship for long time, in this sense that listening to others make them feel that you care for them so much and are interested in their problems. They, in turn, accommodate you at their heart. Likewise, listening and speaking is the blessing of The Creator. We must make the most of it by using it for a positive purpose as thanks to Him that we are not dumb and deaf.
Comments
Thank you so much for reading and passing your comment.
I also experience the same that people rarely listen to others it is because majority think that by ignoring others for no reason, they may gain more respect or assume themselves superior to ignoring person, but the reality is inverse.
Thank you so much for brightening my blog with your nice words as usual.
Arif, I completely agree with you about the importance of listening. Nowadays not so many people can do it. The art of listening means to have the ability to listen with humility.We shouldn't assume things that will be said. We should always remember that every experience is fresh and should be viewd. Thanks for the nice blog.
So kind of you to leave your common with nice words. I wish I would write even better in next time.
Take care!
Have a nice day!
Wise words, that ones in your post Arif. That's the stuff guy!!
I was in funny mood in my last common. To be serious, it is just a question, it is too early to say anything. I am looking forward to teacher's response.
Your comment made me realize that there are some fair and bold members in myec like you, who find anything wrong express it boldly.
The purpose of taking part in writing challenge is improve my skill not to prove my skill.
First of all, thank you so much for paying special attention while reading my blog and highlight error in my first para. It was "loud", right?.
You know well that writing blog is, in fact, practice of organizing our thoughts, put it in written form, share it with members then wait and see who comments how is really interesting.
I think teacher Tara doesn't mean so. I think she asks members to learn from it as long I got it (^_^).
However, your support and encouraging words are really needful.
I am really thankful to you for this act of kindness
I have added "a" or "the" where necessary.
Have a look, please.
Yes you are right, but this normal person should keep it mind that excessive supply of nice words lost its effect. Every word seems nice you speak concisely. For that, that normal person has to be good listener. Then he can keep his family happy. (^_^).
I like the way you explained your view points.
Thank you so much for sharing you opinion and made us feel good
Your blog post was a pleasure to read! Can everyone see what a difference it makes to have such well-organized paragraphs? Great writing and thinking! I really like your use of commas, too.
Challenge: Can you spot a few places in your writing where you need to add an article ("a" or "the") before a noun?