Good evening, everyone.
This is my blog #50. A small anniversary for me and my fingers. So I want to dedicate it to one question - "Why do you need courage"?
Before we find the best answer on this question let's ask additional questions:
- Do you need courage to fight for your freedom?
- Do you need courage to survive in a modern society?
- Do you need courage to have arguments about your salary with your boss?
- Do you need courage to wear a mini - skirt?
- Do you need courage to upload your photo in EC?
I guess for the most questions you will answer "yes".
We need courage to defend our Motherland against terrorists and criminals. We need courage to defend our kids when they have problems at school. We need courage if we want to ask our boss to increase our salary or we need to pass through exams or an interview with HR-manager.
We need courage if we want to sit on diet from Monday or decided to go swimming in mini-bikini while our body isn't ideal.
We need courage to go traveling alone to dangerous or unknown countries and to do things we never done before.
We need courage to be a unique person.
But the answer that came up to my mind is a bit different. I think that we need courage for sincerity.
...Sometimes to tell what you really think about it or what you really need...
...Sometimes to tell that you hate his mama and you want to live in India...
...Sometimes to tell that actually you aren't satisfied with life together and you want to change it...
...Sometimes to tell your colleagues that next time you'll throw something into them if they don't stop spread rumors....
....Sometimes to tell other people that you have right to have different feelings and thoughts and they have right for being real for you in your own reality....
"Courage for sincerity" is what we already started losing with a wide spread of technology. We are stuck in the swamp of social actions and words that are directed into a place called "Everyone likes me".
We still have courage for freedom and traveling, but why have we started losing courage for sincerity?
Cheers, cap Bee
Comments
noaslpls, thanks, darling :)
Estanis, yeah, it's one of the most difficult things in life 0 to live how you ant not how others want you to live. I'm suffering from the same as you are, Estanis, but hope to improve it :D thanks for answering :)
Adaline Bala, thanks for your answer. keep being courageous :)
We need courage to overcome any abstacle in life to achive our goals, dream and so, being someone in life.
Congratulations on your achievement. Speaking from personal experience, it took a lot of courage for me to post my first blog. It was not an easy step. So to achieve this magical number 50 is really a great achievement.
Well, I have the courage to admit that after reading this I've thought to myself about some points you've presented here wich I'd like to hmmm... don't really know the right word; release, improve, discharge... Sometimes we just need the courage TO LIVE the way we wish.
"Keep calm and dare to live"
Thanks for posting ;)
Dear Honey Bee, Congratulations for your lovely 50th blog. Few years ago I was like your first picture (the owl hiding behind the owl), The way I brought up and my culture stopped me from being normal. If any thing affects me I simply cry silently. Now I am changing. I know my rights and I can fight for it. But still little bit more courage needed to post my own picture though. Thanks for sharing sweet heart. I like it.
Batuhan, we have a courage to show it :)