What will you guys do If you're irritated by your friends' habits?
I was really irritated with my friend's habit. In college she go to washroom before every lecture and after every lecture to comb her hair. Before going to home after college she doesn't forget to go to washroom. I'm really tired of this habit of her. She is so concerned about her hair.
About 4-5 days ago when we were leaving for home, she went to washroom. And I was waiting for her outside the washroom. I told her not to comb her hair. She was taking so much time, So I went inside to see what she is doing? I saw that she was combing her hair. I felt so angry. So I didn't talk to her at that day.
After that day she was on a trip with her family, So we didn't talk. But when yesterday we met in college we acted like nothing has happened. She was taking my permission to comb her hair. ;)
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@Ryszard and @Yasemin, you guys are right.Don't take me wrong. I don't want to change anyone according to me and I'm no one to change someone's personality. I love my friend as she is.
@Death angel, I'll change the font color. :)
Hello Manisha,
I agree with Rys's point. Accepting people for who they are makes a relationship stronger. That is, you are letting them know that you are accepting them just as they are, with their flaws and mistakes. When you accept a person for who they are, you are telling them that you will treat them the way you would want to be treated; and you are showing them they are valuable to your relationship as a person. They don't have to pretend to be someone else for you want them to be. Instead of changing them, you should talk your problems and try to find a middle way that will make both of you happy. And trust me, if you try to change a person, that relationship won't last long.