Everyday you meet a lot of people and there’re many kinds of them. Who are your friends and who are your hostiles? You’re not able to know exactly and clearly! Life is not a sweet dream and everything is possible. Sometimes your friends suddenly become the hostiles and conversely…How can you recognize people by their cover? It’s so hard, even it’s so easy to be mistaken about them. Moreover, people are always under the cloak of best suitable for achieving the goal.It seems a circle. Someone like you while others dislike you. What should we do to keeping our balance in today complicated society?
This kind of a relationship with people is unfortunately inevitable in life and none of us can escape our weakness & sinful nature in our human forms as we are not perfect but only God is perfect. Hence, there is nothing you or we can alter or make it better, and we have no other choice but just have to live with this unwanted principal factor in this world, especially when & if you faced a devastating hurtful situation in front of you. On the other hand, the differentiation of good or bad friends in your friendship can be manifested only after their actual black deeds & hearts appeared in front of you with the truth in a full recognition.
On the contrary, only the will of God can change anything & everything possible, unfortunately we don’t know how but a belief. Nevertheless, people said that an existing true love could have dramatically changed thus wicked person from evil to good, so there is a possibility even if it’s not always working with the 100% sureness and at least there used to be many similar cases which we hear some time to time through mouth by mouth. Therefore, if you truly love her/him by your caring heart in real, such a genuine love can possibly change a heart of your enemy to be good from an evil mind and to become your real friend in giving an opportunity again to promote a real friendship in return.
First of all, thanks for your comments. Actually, this's just a topic I recommended for discussing. it's not my opinion. Please give more opinion then I tell u my opinion. Thanks a lot.
@truong hai au, I love your blog its so interesting. What I think it might solve the problem is that, one should be honest & has a good behaviour to everybody including both your friends and hostiles. Because, when someone show a good behaviour & 60% of people like him/her this will change some of his/her hostile mind. Eventhough love is part of good behaviour.
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On the contrary, only the will of God can change anything & everything possible, unfortunately we don’t know how but a belief. Nevertheless, people said that an existing true love could have dramatically changed thus wicked person from evil to good, so there is a possibility even if it’s not always working with the 100% sureness and at least there used to be many similar cases which we hear some time to time through mouth by mouth. Therefore, if you truly love her/him by your caring heart in real, such a genuine love can possibly change a heart of your enemy to be good from an evil mind and to become your real friend in giving an opportunity again to promote a real friendship in return.